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Refresher: After Years of Drug Use and Months in Prison, Chad Is Now Clean and Sober!

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Chad: 我今年34岁,三月份就35岁了,出狱两年,三月份就戒毒五年了。我以前吸毒很严重,到处乱跑,父母都不知道我在哪里。我被捕时身上带着大约一万美元,我试图维持生计,会在生日等特殊日子打电话给他们。所以他们最终不得不放弃管我。自从我出来后,我一直待在当地。一个月前我刚买了一栋梦想中的房子,四月份搬了进去。我终于买了一栋房子。大约一个月后,我的妈妈和姐姐就能来我家做烧烤了。我又回到了每个人的生活中,大家都信任我。我为一家知道我过去经历的公司工作,他们给了我公司钥匙,让我下班后可以去工作。我是一名卡车司机。隧道尽头有光。我无法为了任何人而戒毒。他们苦苦哀求我,与我达成协议,但这都没用。为什么不管用?因为当你是一个瘾君子时,你不知道自己不在乎自己在做什么伤害别人。直到现在我戒毒了,我才意识到,我以前竟然是这样的人,我简直不敢相信。 Dee: Chad 提到的一点,我觉得他可能自己都没意识到,那就是他在监狱里强制戒毒了一段时间。然而,一旦他可以再次接触毒品,他就又开始吸毒了。所以,即使他的身体已经摆脱了毒品,他的思想却还没有发生转变。直到现在,他才真正做出了改变。我很为他感到骄傲和高兴。这是一个美好的故事,它温暖了我的心。而且,他并没有依靠母亲的帮助来戒毒,这证明这一切都是他自己的努力。这一切都是他自己的功劳。我很为他高兴。

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Chad, a former addict and convict, shares his inspiring story of overcoming drug addiction and rebuilding his life. He discusses his past struggles, his time in prison, and his ultimate triumph in achieving sobriety and acquiring a dream home. The call highlights the importance of personal choice and inner transformation in recovery.
  • Chad's struggles with drug addiction and dealing
  • His multiple prison sentences
  • His five-year sobriety milestone
  • Purchase of a dream home
  • The ineffectiveness of external pressure in addiction recovery

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Chad, welcome to the program. I understand you were an addict. Yes. I talked to you about six months ago about my nephew, and I've been wanting to call in because I always hear at this subject almost every day, and I thought it was a good time to call in. I'm 34. I'll be 35 in March, and I've been out of prison for two years. I'll be clean five years in March.

And I just was really bad on drugs. I was a billion. My parents never knew where I was. Texas, Ohio, Florida. I was going to pharmacies and all that. And when I got arrested, I had about $10,000 in my pocket. So, I mean, I was okay. I would try to make it. I would try to call on birthdays and things like that. So they were kind of forced to let go of me. And

And since I've been out, I've stayed local. I just closed on a dream house a month ago. I moved in in April. I take possession of the home. I finally bought a home. And about a month after that, my mom and sister will be able to come over and have a cookout at my house. I'm back in everybody's lives. I have trust of everybody. I work for a company that knows my past, and they've

I've got keys to companies that I can go in after hours and do my work. I'm a truck driver. And there is a light at the end of the tunnel. And I couldn't get clean for anybody else. They begged and begged me. They made deals with me. And it just didn't work. Why doesn't it work? When you're an addict, you don't know that you don't care about what you're doing to other people.

I didn't know that I didn't care about the outside world until now that I'm clean. And I'm like, who was that? I can't believe that I was ever in that position.

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I went to prison for dealing drugs in Ohio, and I got out early, and I thought I'd learned my lesson. I only did 15 months of a four-year sentence, and a year and a half, I was back in prison. I was back dealing, and aclonoxycontin was the drug that I was addicted to, about $800 a day worth. It was a deadly amount, but I'd built a tolerance over five years.

And went to prison again and finished out the four years, so it's 33 months, and that's how long it took me to be able to come back to reality and know that I don't think I'm in danger of every relapse. I don't associate with the same people. I block them when they try to contact me on Facebook.

Yeah, a different person. Can't even believe I ever was that person. So the key in what you said about parents not being able to make their kids change is that when you're an addict, you really don't care about anybody else.

And you don't know that you don't care. You think you care. You'll feel bad that day. You could cry. You could feel bad. But the next day, you want that pill or whatever drug it is, and you forget that you just went through this emotional happy time where everybody's hugging, plus you're promising that you're going to rehab. And for that hour, you really do think that you're going to do that. And then it disappears. Well, Chad, I'm really appreciative that you called. Dee, would you like to ask Chad anything based upon your kid making a turnaround also?

No, but he made... One of the points that he did make that I don't even know if he knew he made it was he was in prison. He was forced into sobriety and wasn't able to do drugs for a certain period of time. However...

As soon as he could get back into it, he did. So his mind, even though he was clear of drugs, he still hadn't made that click. He still hadn't made that change. And I'm just so proud of him and so happy for him. This is just a wonderful story, and it just warms my heart. And the fact that he didn't have...

have his mom making him soup, you know, to get him sober, you know, just goes to prove it was all him. It was all him. And I'm just, I'm so happy for him. Thanks. I appreciate that. Thank you, Chad. Appreciate your call very much. That was, I'm glad you pointed that out, Dee. That was very significant.

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