Deep Dive
What shocking news story did the host discuss in the podcast?
The host discussed a news story about a 38-year-old female teacher in the U.S. who raped a 12-year-old boy, got pregnant, and was sentenced to 25 years in prison. She was found to have sexually assaulted 21 underage students.
Why did the host find the comments on the news story particularly disturbing?
The host found the comments disturbing because many people joked about how they wished they had such a teacher in high school or sarcastically advised boys to protect themselves. These comments reflected a deeply problematic and unequal attitude towards sexual assault, especially when the perpetrator is female.
What realization did the host have about gender and sexual inequality?
The host realized that sexual dynamics are inherently unequal and unfair, even though society often promotes equality. He noted that if the roles were reversed (e.g., a male teacher committing the crime), the public reaction would be vastly different and more severe.
Why did the host decide to uninstall Tinder and Bumble?
The host uninstalled Tinder and Bumble because he felt the apps were filled with too many temptations that could lead him to act irresponsibly. He wanted to avoid situations where he might make poor decisions, especially after reflecting on the consequences of his past actions.
What incident on the subway made the host reflect on his choices?
The host helped an intoxicated man who had passed out on the subway. This act of kindness made him reflect on how choosing to do good deeds, like helping someone in need, brought him a sense of fulfillment and pride, unlike the potential regret he might feel from pursuing fleeting temptations.
What does the host think about the illusion created by dating apps like Bumble?
The host believes that dating apps like Bumble create an illusion that he can engage in 'upward dating' with people who are out of his league. However, he realizes that these interactions are often superficial and not aligned with his long-term goals of finding a meaningful relationship.
What is the host's New Year's wish?
The host's New Year's wish is to have a happy and fulfilling family life. He expresses a desire for a stable and loving relationship, moving away from the superficial temptations he has encountered.
- 美国38岁女教师性侵21名未成年学生并怀孕被判刑
- 网络评论中存在对性侵事件的不当反应
- 主播反思性观念中的不平等
- 主播卸载Tinder和Bumble，避免不负责任的行为
- 地铁上帮助晕倒男子的经历，与可能发生的性行为带来的感受形成对比
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