Game, Set, MATCH for Kelly
I Choose Me with Jennie Garth
Deep Dive
Why is Kelly Bensimon open to being set up on dates and platonic relationships?
Kelly Bensimon is open to being set up on dates and platonic relationships because she is actively putting herself back into the dating scene after her divorce. She is looking to meet new people, have fun, and explore both romantic and platonic connections.
Who is Mr. Tennis and how did Kelly get introduced to him?
Mr. Tennis is a real person, not a celebrity or someone from a dating show. He is a lawyer who was introduced to Kelly by her producer, Amy Sugarman. Amy has known Mr. Tennis since seventh grade, and his sister is one of her oldest friends.
What was the initial text exchange like between Kelly and Mr. Tennis?
Kelly initiated the conversation with a text saying 'Aloha,' which she feels represents her sunny and happy personality. Mr. Tennis responded by complimenting Kelly's energy, smile, and intelligence, and expressed interest in connecting over the phone or in person soon.
What are some of the green flags Kelly noticed about Mr. Tennis?
Kelly noticed several green flags about Mr. Tennis, including his proactive approach to scheduling a phone call, his thoughtful compliments, and his willingness to travel to New York to meet her. She also appreciated his intelligence, athleticism, and the fact that he is a father with a stable job.
What are Kelly's thoughts on long-distance relationships?
Kelly is not particularly looking for a long-distance relationship, but she is open to dating someone regardless of where they live. She mentioned that her kids are older, and she has the flexibility to travel or even relocate if necessary.
What are Kelly's non-negotiables when it comes to dating?
Kelly's non-negotiables include good communication, honesty, and a stable job. She also mentioned that she doesn't want someone who talks badly about their exes or has a history of drug abuse or jail time.
How does Kelly feel about being set up by friends versus dating apps?
Kelly prefers being set up by friends over using dating apps because she feels that setups through friends are more genuine and trustworthy. She believes that dating apps can lead to playing games and that it's harder to establish a real connection through them.
What are Cheryl Burke's thoughts on setting up friends with ex-dates?
Cheryl Burke is open to setting up friends with ex-dates, as long as there was no strong chemistry or ghosting involved. She believes it can be a good idea if the person is a good match for the friend, even if they weren't for her.
What are Kelly's thoughts on platonic setups post-divorce?
Kelly is open to platonic setups post-divorce and believes they can be beneficial. She has experienced both positive and negative outcomes, including being used by other women to meet men, but she values the opportunity to form new friendships.
What are Kelly's thoughts on the importance of solid friendships during the dating process?
Kelly believes that having solid friendships is crucial during the dating process, as they provide support and grounding. She mentioned that many of her friends are married, which can sometimes make it challenging to spend time with them, but she values the friendships she has.
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