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Thelma 和 Louise 分享了她们在 50 多岁离婚后重新开始约会的经验和感悟。她们认为,在这个年龄段的约会,应该注重内在的契合和共同价值观,而不是一味追求外貌和浪漫的激情。她们建议女性在第一次约会时,要精心打扮,展现自信,但约会时间不宜过长;要通过电话或面对面交流来了解对方,而不是仅仅依靠线上沟通;要保持独立和自信,不要因为对方买单而感到有压力;要根据自身情况选择合适的约会地点和方式;要对约会对象保持开放和包容的心态,但也要有自己的底线和原则。她们还分享了她们共同使用约会软件的经验,她们认为,约会软件虽然费时费力,但可以扩大交友范围,她们会共同筛选和联系潜在的约会对象,并一起制定约会策略。她们还讨论了如何处理约会中的各种问题,例如约会对象的临时取消、孩子对约会对象的看法等。她们认为,在与孩子介绍约会对象之前,应该确保关系发展到一定程度,并且要尊重孩子的感受。她们强调,在这个年龄段的约会,应该是一种锦上添花,而不是雪中送炭,要保持独立和自信,享受生活,而不是把寻找伴侣作为生活的全部。 Thelma 和 Louise 详细地分享了她们在约会过程中的各种经验和教训,包括如何选择约会服装、如何控制约会时间、如何通过沟通了解对方、如何处理约会对象的买单、如何看待约会对象的临时取消、如何与孩子沟通约会对象等。她们还分享了她们共同使用约会软件的策略,以及如何撰写吸引人的个人资料。她们认为,在约会过程中,要注重了解对方的核心价值观和生活方式,而不是仅仅关注外貌和化学反应。她们还强调,要保持独立和自信,不要为了约会而牺牲自己的时间和精力。她们认为,在这个年龄段的约会,应该是一种轻松愉快的体验,而不是充满压力和焦虑的负担。

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Why do Thelma and Louise choose to use pseudonyms on their podcast?

They are hesitant to give their real names initially but may become comfortable with it over time.

What is the primary goal of Thelma and Louise in their dating journey?

Their main goal is to find a suitable partner for a long-term relationship in their 'chapter two' of life.

How do Thelma and Louise prepare for a first date?

They have a 'uniform' outfit that makes them feel confident and spend time figuring out their signature look to represent themselves well.

What is Thelma's recommended duration for a first date?

She suggests capping the first date at an hour to leave the other person wanting more and to avoid exhaustion of topics.

Why does Thelma prefer a phone call over a video chat for initial contact?

She believes a phone call helps gauge energy and aura better than a video chat, which is more focused on physicality.

What is Thelma and Louise's stance on who should pay for the first date?

They believe chivalry is not dead and appreciate when the person who asked them out pays for the date, though they offer to split the bill to show effort.

How important is chemistry for Thelma on a first date?

Chemistry is important, but she focuses more on core values, communication, and connection to build a foundation for potential future dates.

What does Thelma think about rescheduling dates?

She is understanding if someone needs to reschedule with enough notice but feels uncomfortable if it happens repeatedly or at the last minute.

How does Thelma handle online dating with Louise's help?

Louise helps Thelma by swiping and setting up dates, making the process less exhausting and more enjoyable.

What is Thelma's view on including pictures of children in dating profiles?

She appreciates seeing pictures that show the person's interests and family involvement but finds it inappropriate to send pictures of children too early in the dating process.

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Thelma and Louise discuss their approach to first dates, focusing on outfit choices that make them feel confident and comfortable. They emphasize the importance of choosing an outfit that reflects their personality and the venue, while keeping the first date short and sweet to avoid exhaustion.
  • Outfit as a confidence booster
  • Importance of venue
  • Ideal first date duration: short and sweet

Shownotes Transcript

Introducing “Thelma and Louise”. Divorcee besties and I Do, Part 2 “experts” wanted a chance to share their thoughts.

They are in the midst of their search for Mr. Right, again.

They have practical advice because they are in it with you.  Ready to find love again? Want dating advice?Email us at: [email protected] or call us at 844-4-I Do Pod (844-443-6763)

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