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197. “I thought he was the problem… but it’s me?!”

2025/2/25
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Ramit: 我帮助人们设计富足的生活，并解决他们与金钱相关的各种问题，包括消费习惯、金钱心理和财务规划等。在这个节目中，我与一对夫妇Evelyn和Mike探讨了他们之间由于金钱问题而产生的紧张关系，并帮助他们找到解决方法。 我分析了他们各自的成长经历和金钱观，指出Evelyn的节俭习惯源于她对金钱的不安全感和不确定性，以及她对财务状况缺乏了解。而Mike则感到沮丧，因为Evelyn总是对他微小的开支进行批评。 我引导他们进行角色扮演，并鼓励他们尝试换位思考，理解彼此的感受。通过分析他们的财务状况，我向他们展示了他们实际上拥有足够的财富，从而帮助他们克服匮乏感。 最终，我建议他们将金钱视为建立联系的工具，而不是冲突的根源。我鼓励他们学习如何共同管理财务，并改善彼此的沟通方式。 Evelyn: 我在富裕的环境中长大，但父母没有教我关于理财的知识，这导致我养成节俭的习惯，并对金钱感到焦虑和不安全。我总是担心钱不够用，并对丈夫的消费进行批评，这导致我们之间产生了很多冲突。 通过与Ramit的对话，我意识到我的金钱观与我们的实际财务状况脱节，我的焦虑和不安全感是导致我们冲突的主要原因。我开始反思自己的行为，并意识到我需要改变自己的金钱心理和沟通方式，才能与丈夫建立更好的关系。 我意识到需要学习更多关于财务的知识，并与丈夫共同管理财务。我也认识到，我的行为可能会对我的女儿们产生负面影响，我希望她们能够拥有更健康的金钱观和更和谐的家庭关系。 Mike: 我对Evelyn总是批评我的消费感到沮丧，这让我感觉不被理解和尊重。我尝试与她沟通，但收效甚微。 通过与Ramit的对话，我开始理解Evelyn的焦虑和不安全感，并意识到我需要更加耐心和理解地与她沟通。我意识到我们应该将金钱视为建立联系的工具，而不是冲突的根源。 我愿意与Evelyn共同管理财务，并学习如何更好地沟通和表达自己的感受。我也认识到，我们需要改变我们对金钱的态度，才能拥有更幸福的家庭生活。

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Live from the House of Blues in Chicago, Ramit coaches Evelyn and Mike (41).

Despite their successful careers, money is a constant source of tension. Evelyn scrutinizes every purchase, while Mike feels frustrated by the endless debates over small expenses. Can Evelyn let go of her scarcity mindset and start trusting their financial future?

Plus, stay tuned for a surprise visit from one of the past guests of Netflix’s How To Get Rich.

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