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丸
丸子
通过播客和社交媒体分享生活经验和观点的创作者。
小
小鹿
从严肃的律师到风趣的脱口秀演员,小鹿的职业转变和独特风格让她在喜剧界脱颖而出。
小鹿：我经常在深夜或独处时质疑自己是否值得，是否会搞砸，能否成功。即使在黑暗中摸索，我们也并非孤身一人，人生的容错率比我们想象的高。那些曾经让你觉得“完蛋了”的时刻，最终都将成为宝贵的历练，定义了“值得”的意义。即使拥有很多成功经验，我依然会害怕失败，质疑自己能否做到。个人专场更需要观众的同类共鸣，而综艺节目需要更大众化的笑点。个人专场是一个更私密的表演空间，需要与观众产生更深层次的连接。我进入喜剧行业并非计划好的，而是在人生定型之前的一次尝试。我一开始只是想尝试一下脱口秀，并没有觉得自己一定能行。脱口秀行业的成功也依赖于市场机遇。我是一个害怕冲突的人，所以没有选择参加辩论队。在奇葩说的舞台上，我会担心自己表现不好，搞砸了。我第一次上台表演脱口秀，效果还不错，让我觉得自己的创作是有效的。我在脱口秀决赛中致敬麦瑟尔夫人，是因为她代表了女性在喜剧领域争取话语权的努力。我可以自己重新定义成功与失败，竭尽全力就是成功。说出“我要拿冠军”的那一刻，我热泪盈眶，这并非一件正常的事情。创作过程中的痛苦让我痛哭流涕，但我从未想过放弃。我会对自己要求很高，对演出结果进行严格评判，但也会理性分析影响演出效果的因素。我很难平衡野心和能量的保存，常常处于竭尽全力、需要休息的状态。在演出中，我会全力以赴，将所有能量都集中在表演上，演出后需要时间恢复。如果重新选择人生，我依然会选择现在这样痛苦的人生。我会通过自言自语、夸奖自己来应对负面情绪。我学会夸奖自己是受到了身边人的影响，尤其是我老公的鼓励。好的朋友会像蟑螂一样涌现，因为他们与你志同道合。真正的灵感来自于闲暇和放松，而工业化的灵感需要通过努力和技巧获得。我一边怀疑一边努力，这种状态很有意思。我的朋友曾劝我不要折磨自己，也折磨朋友。理性战胜感性，逼迫自己去做不想做的事情，是我的重要特质。对某件事的热爱是人生前进的原始动力。我被梦想击中，甚至击晕，这是一种痛苦的幸福。我对野心的定义与性别无关，但社会对女性野心的评价与男性不同。人生中会有很多痛苦的阶段，但要相信未来会有美好。
丸子：很多人不是追求梦想，而是被梦想击中，无法选择。
Nicole：略
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小鹿: 'Even when groping in the dark, we are not alone. Life's error tolerance rate is higher than we think.'
小鹿: 'Those moments that once made you feel
, will eventually become precious experiences in your life, defining the meaning of
.'
小鹿: 'Even with a lot of successful experiences, I'm still afraid of failure, questioning whether I can do it.'
小鹿: 'Personal shows need more empathy from the audience, while variety shows need more universal jokes.'
小鹿: 'A personal show is a more private performance space, requiring a deeper connection with the audience.'
小鹿: 'My entry into the comedy industry wasn't planned, but an attempt before my life was set.'
小鹿: 'I just wanted to try stand-up comedy at first, I didn't think I could do it.'
小鹿: 'The success of the stand-up comedy industry also depends on market opportunities.'
小鹿: 'I'm someone who is afraid of conflict, so I didn't choose to join the debate team.'
小鹿: 'On the stage of “奇葩说”, I worry about my poor performance and messing things up.'
小鹿: 'My first time on stage performing stand-up comedy, the effect was pretty good, making me feel that my creation was effective.'
小鹿: 'In the stand-up comedy finals, I paid tribute to Mrs. Maisel because she represents the efforts of women in the comedy field to fight for their voice.'
小鹿: 'I can redefine success and failure myself, giving my all is success.'
小鹿: 'The moment I said
, I was in tears, it's not a normal thing.'
小鹿: 'The pain in the creative process made me cry, but I never thought of giving up.'
小鹿: 'I will be very demanding of myself, and strictly judge the results of the performance, but I will also rationally analyze the factors that affect the performance effect.'
小鹿: 'I find it hard to balance ambition and energy conservation, often in a state of exhaustion and needing rest.'
小鹿: 'In the performance, I will go all out, concentrating all my energy on the performance, and it takes time to recover after the performance.'
小鹿: 'If I had to choose life again, I would still choose this painful life.'
小鹿: 'I will use self-talk and praise myself to cope with negative emotions.'
小鹿: 'I learned to praise myself because of the influence of people around me, especially my husband's encouragement.'
小鹿: 'Good friends will emerge like cockroaches, because they are like-minded.'
小鹿: 'Real inspiration comes from leisure and relaxation, while industrialized inspiration needs to be obtained through hard work and skills.'
小鹿: 'I doubt while I work hard, this state is interesting.'
小鹿: 'My friend once advised me not to torture myself, and torture my friends.'
小鹿: 'Reason overcomes sensibility, forcing myself to do what I don't want to do, is my important characteristic.'
小鹿: 'Passion for something is the original driving force of life.'
小鹿: 'I was hit by my dream, even knocked unconscious, it's a painful happiness.'
小鹿: 'My definition of ambition has nothing to do with gender, but society's evaluation of women's ambition is different from that of men.'
小鹿: 'There will be many painful stages in life, but believe that there will be beauty in the future.'
丸子: 'Many people are not pursuing dreams, but are hit by dreams, unable to choose.'
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