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How to keep old friends

2025/5/19
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Nina Badzin: 我认为拥有认识你不同阶段的朋友非常重要,这证明你具备维持友谊的能力。如果缺少老朋友,可能暗示你在友谊的期望上存在问题,但这并非不可改变。我们可以从现在开始,努力与身边的人建立深厚的情谊,为未来的老友谊奠定基础。维持友谊的关键在于不计较付出,对朋友抱持善意,并理解每个人表达友谊的方式各不相同。当朋友的行为让你困扰时,不妨坦诚沟通,给予他们解释的机会,并尝试接受他们的解释。 Marielle Segarra: 我和Nina讨论了维系老友谊的挑战,尤其是在生活环境发生变化时。我们探讨了如何应对朋友间付出不均的感受,以及如何调整沟通方式以适应新的现实。重要的是要记住,每个人表达爱和关怀的方式不同,我们应该关注朋友的实际行动,而不仅仅是他们没有做的事情。同时,我们也要允许朋友改变,支持他们经历人生的各个阶段,因为真正的友谊是经得起时间考验的。

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This chapter explores the challenges and rewards of maintaining long-term friendships. It highlights the importance of old friends in our lives and examines the reasons why some friendships endure while others fade away, focusing on the changing dynamics and effort involved in maintaining these relationships.
  • Old friends provide richness and deep connection.
  • Time and changing circumstances can strain friendships.
  • The episode will explore maintaining long-standing friendships.

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Nina Badzin, host of the podcast Dear Nina: Conversations About Friendship), has spent a lot of time thinking about the richness that old friends add to our lives. In our lows and in our highs, our old friends can remind us of who we are. But time can also do a number on those relationships. So on this episode of Life Kit: how to maintain your longstanding friendships.Learn more about sponsor message choices: podcastchoices.com/adchoices)NPR Privacy Policy)