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We're Cross Continental. Is Taking Your Partner's Last Name Anti Feminist?

2025/4/15
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Brittany
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Keisha
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Laura
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Brittany: 我在意大利尝试将可颂面包蘸咖啡，引发了Instagram上的争议，但我认为这是一种值得尝试的美味体验。由于恶劣天气，我的旅行计划受阻，我没有为这种天气做好充分的准备。我旅行打包的物品数量引发了人们的批评，但我认为我的打包方式是合理的，因为我需要考虑各种天气情况和拍摄设备。在飞机上，因为旁边的小孩呕吐而感到不适，我也跟着呕吐了。我对独自乘坐国际航班的儿童感到敬佩，并认为这需要父母和孩子都具备勇气。我在飞机上将我的睡衣给了呕吐的儿童。我仍在考虑结婚后是否更改姓氏，因为我的姓氏与我的公众形象有关。我的朋友Grant Davis在2017年选择使用妻子的姓氏，这引发了网络上的强烈负面反应，这说明了社会对男性更改姓氏的偏见仍然存在。 Laura: 我分享了我患有卵巢囊肿的经历，并强调了女性在倡导自身健康方面的必要性。女性不应该忍受慢性疼痛，并应该积极争取医疗帮助。关于卵巢囊肿的治疗，目前我还没有得到有效的治疗方案，医生只是建议“等等看”。女演员Megan Farhey的经历说明了女性在寻求医疗帮助时面临的挑战，即使是名人和有钱人，也可能得不到充分的重视。一位听众的经历说明了医疗系统对女性疼痛问题的忽视和误诊。如果女性出现慢性疼痛和呕吐，应该立即就医。 Keisha: 多囊卵巢综合征（PCOS）的名称具有误导性，因为并非所有患有PCOS的女性都有囊性卵巢。获得诊断可以带来肯定，但如果无法提供有效的治疗方案，也会导致焦虑。医疗系统对常见疾病的处理方式可能与患者的感受不一致，这会导致患者感到不被重视。 Sam: 我选择让孩子随母亲姓的原因包括：避免双姓带来的复杂性；母亲生下孩子是一件大事；希望孩子与母亲家族成员有姓氏上的联系；希望孩子在父权社会中尊重女性。

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Ciao Lifers!

We're coming to you from 3 different locations today. Britt has finally been reunited with Ben in Italy and she's caused a stir about dipping croissants in coffee.Laura has a positive update about her ovarian cyst. We have a chat about it not being 'normal' to be in pain and how it can be quite anxiety inducing to receive a 'wait and see what happens' type of diagnosis. 

Should we be giving babies their mother's surname? There's an Italian politician who has proposed a law that would automatically give babies their mother's surname at birth. Britt's still making up her mind of what both her and her husband to be will do with their surnames when they get married. Laura questions why it's such a 'norm' for us to not even think about giving kids their mum's last names. 

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