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A Man's Guide To Being Naturally Attractive

2025/1/30
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Conor Beaton: 我认为,现代男性需要重新拥抱内在的“野性”,这种“野性”并非指鲁莽行事,而是敢于冒险、挑战舒适区,展现出一种不被驯服的内在力量。很多女性的幻想中都包含着强大而略带“野性”的男性形象,她们渴望驯服这种力量,但这并不意味着完全控制。重要的是,男性要敢于面对风险,展现出解决问题的能力,这本身就是一种吸引力。我曾经也是一个喜欢冒险的人,比如玩摩托车、参加格斗等,这些经历帮助我更好地认识和发展了内在的“野性”。现代社会很多男性过于驯服,不敢冒险,这反而失去了吸引力。所以,我建议大家去尝试一些具有挑战性的活动,比如野外露营、武术等,以此来唤醒内在的“野性”,并与自己的力量感和解。

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This chapter explores the concept of being 'untameable' as a key aspect of male attractiveness. It challenges the notion of being overly safe and risk-averse, suggesting that embracing calculated risks and developing a 'wild' side can enhance both personal growth and appeal to others. The chapter emphasizes the importance of reconciling with one's own sense of power.
  • Women are attracted to powerful, sometimes 'monster-like' men they can tame.
  • Taking smart risks and facing adversity demonstrates strength and status.
  • Developing an 'untamable' side sharpens masculine edge and manhood.
  • Examples include off-grid camping, martial arts, and other challenging activities.

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Talking points: mindset, attraction, relationships

I was surprised at the sheer volume of basic advice there is out there on being a more attractive man. This week, we're going to go a little beyond "hit the gym" and "smoke less". How do you build your attractiveness from the inside out AND stay authentically you? Listen in.

(00:00:00) - Be untameable—somewhat

(00:09:50) - Develop emotional sovereignty

(00:12:11) - Develop direction and discipline

(00:14:14) - Have some non-negotiables. Please.

(00:17:39) - Be unapologetically you. Note: this requires serious work on figuring out who you actually are

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