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Ryan Michler - Brotherhood, Isolation, And Rising Above The Noise

2025/2/24
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Connor: 我观察到,现在男性越来越难以维系人际关系,越来越孤独,这并非猜测,而是研究数据显示的趋势。研究表明,男性朋友数量正在减少,而高质量的人际关系对健康、幸福和寿命至关重要。现代心理治疗行业女性主导,其方法论常常忽略男性特有的需求,例如行动和解决问题的需求。男性试图提升自我时,常常会遭到嘲笑和贬低,这阻碍了男性之间的互相支持和成长。现代社会中对男性的贬低和否定,导致许多男性感到无用和迷茫,进而影响到他们的身心健康。坦诚的冲突和反馈是健康男性友谊的重要组成部分,男性之间不应该害怕表达自己的意见和批评。男性友谊具有“行动性”,男性朋友聚在一起通常是为了做一些事情,而非仅仅为了聊天。 Ryan Michler: 男性越来越难以维系关系,部分原因是社交媒体提供的虚拟联系感替代了现实世界中的真实连接。男性社交圈子缩小是因为男性需要共同的目标和目的才能聚集在一起,而现代社会缺乏这样的共同目标。男性自身的一些“高尚的障碍”阻碍了他们建立社交和友谊,例如以家庭为借口逃避自我提升。一些男性将其他男性视为威胁,或者低估了男性友谊的价值,这导致了男性社交圈的萎缩。现代心理治疗的“女性化”版本并不适合所有男性,男性也需要通过行动来解决问题,而非仅仅是倾诉。男性友谊需要冲突和对抗,这有助于男性成长和进步。男性之间的友谊、竞争、建设、修复和解决问题等活动本身就具有疗愈作用,现代心理治疗常常忽略了这一点。想要建立男性友谊,需要主动去寻找男性聚集的场所,并积极参与到他们的活动和谈话中。

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Talking points: friendship, masculinity,

Ryan Michler and I have been in the men's work biz for a long time, and we've seen the changes—some good, some bad—in how men are talked about and marketed to by our culture and by the wellness and therapy industries. We dig into the necessity of male friendship in the face of growing isolationism, the upcoming Men's Forge, and a whole lot more. Listen in, team.

(00:00:00) - Intro and why does it seem like men are having a harder time maintaining relationships?

(00:12:27) - On men needing social time and where modern therapy misses the mark

(00:17:56) - How are men contributing to their own isolation and loneliness?

(00:31:44) - On the importance of some confrontation in male friendships

(00:38:32) - Why men need brotherhood as well as challenge, and what to do if you want deeper friendships with other men

Ryan Michler is a husband, father, Iraqi Combat Veteran, and the Founder of Order of Man. Ryan grew up without a permanent father figure and has seen first-hand how a lack of strong, ambitious, self-sufficient men has impacted society today. He believes many of the world’s most complicated problems could be solved if men everywhere learned how to be better husbands, fathers, businessmen, and community leaders.

It has now become his life’s mission to help men across the planet step more fully into their roles as protectors, providers, and presiders over themselves, their families, their businesses, and their communities. You can find him blogging and podcasting at Order of Man where he is working to help men become all they were meant to be.

Connect with Ryan

-Join myself, Ryan Michler, Larry Hagner, and Matt Beaudreau on a mission to improve yourself as a man, husband, business owner, and community leader at the Men's Forge. May 1-4, St. Louis, MO: https://orderofman.clickfunnels.com/uprising-landing-page1715263442491)

-Website: https://www.orderofman.com/)

-Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ryanmichler/)

-Twitter: https://twitter.com/ryanmichler)

-Book: The Masculinity Manifesto: https://amzn.to/3jJcmiE)

-Book: Sovereignty: https://amzn.to/3G6zwqQ)


Join myself, Ryan Michler, Larry Hagner, and Matt Beaudreau on a mission to improve yourself as a man, husband, business owner, and community leader at the Men's Forge. May 1-4, St. Louis, MO: https://orderofman.clickfunnels.com/uprising-landing-page1715263442491)

Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/)

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