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Why Modern Relationships Are Failing

2025/6/26
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Connor Beaton: 我观察到，现代男女关系中存在一种不平衡的现象。女性的需求和愿望被置于至高无上的地位，而男性的需求则常常被忽视或质疑。这种文化趋势导致男性在关系中感到不被重视，而女性则常常在“回音室”中强化男性是问题的观点，忽视了自身行为的影响。我认为，我们需要改变这种现状，男性也应该被允许拥有自己的期望和标准。我们应该从小教育孩子如何尊重和理解异性，并在关系中进行开放和诚实的沟通，以填补男女之间期望的差距。对我个人而言，我希望在关系中被尊重，不希望被贬低和批评。我相信，通过互相理解和尊重，我们可以建立更健康、更平衡的现代关系。 Connor Beaton: 我认为现代男女关系失败的一个重要原因是，社会对男女的教育存在偏差。我们从小就教导男性如何对待女性，如何满足她们的需求，却很少教导男性应该期待女性如何对待他们。另一方面，我们教导女性应该期待男性如何满足她们的需求，却很少教导女性如何对待男性，以使他们感到被尊重、被爱和被照顾。这种教育偏差导致男性在关系中常常感到自己的需求被忽视，而女性则常常对男性抱有不切实际的期望。我认为，我们需要改变这种教育模式，从小教育孩子如何尊重和理解异性，并在关系中进行开放和诚实的沟通，以填补男女之间期望的差距。只有这样，我们才能建立更健康、更平衡的现代关系。

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This chapter explores the widespread dissatisfaction in modern dating and relationships, highlighting the inequity where women's desires are prioritized over men's. It uses the example of OnlyFans to illustrate a cultural double standard.
  • Widespread dissatisfaction in modern dating and relationships.
  • Inequity where women's desires are prioritized over men's.
  • Cultural double standard regarding female empowerment and male behavior.

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Talking points: relationships, culture

This might bother some of you, but I think it needs discussing, because I get it all the time in comments, emails, and DMs: serious disappointment and frustration with dating. From men and women both. There are a lot of reasons for this, both surface-level and deeper, but here's what I'm seeing the most.

(00:00:00) - Intro

(00:05:04) - What we’re not actually teaching young men

(00:08:14) - Where do we go from here?

(00:11:04) - A gap I see in most relationships

(00:13:37) - Have the conversation

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