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Surviving friendship breakups, sending nudes & power trips

2025/1/13
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Jordyn Woodruff: 我和最好的朋友Madeline在高中时因为一些幼稚的矛盾而断交五年,这些矛盾包括我约会了她喜欢的男生,以及我们对彼此的男朋友有意见。我们没有及时沟通解决这些问题,最终导致友谊破裂。五年后,因为她妹妹要到澳大利亚留学,需要我的帮助,我们才重新取得联系。这次经历让我明白,友谊是可以修复的,但需要双方都成长成熟,放下过去,并进行真诚的沟通和道歉。 我们重归于好后,友谊比以前更加深厚,因为我们经历了考验,更加懂得珍惜彼此。这段经历也让我明白,在年轻的时候,一些看似严重的问题,随着时间的推移和个人的成长,会变得微不足道。 Alex Bennett: 我和一位高中认识的挚友Kate在大学期间因为她的一些行为(例如给我的朋友发短信)而决裂,至今没有和好。这段友谊的破裂是因为Kate的行为违背了我的原则,也伤害了我的新朋友。虽然我尝试和她沟通,但她并没有意识到自己的错误,反而试图绕过我去结交我的朋友,这让我更加坚定了和她断绝关系的决心。 这段经历让我明白,在友谊中,价值观的一致性和对朋友的忠诚度非常重要。当朋友的行为与我的价值观相悖时,我必须做出选择,维护我现有的友谊。虽然这段友谊无法修复,但我并不后悔我的选择,因为我维护了更重要的友谊。

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Why did Jordyn Woodruff and her best friend Madeline have a friendship breakup?

Jordyn and Madeline's friendship breakup was caused by a series of conflicts, including Jordyn dating a guy Madeline liked and both of them disliking each other's boyfriends. The final straw was a blow-up that led to them not speaking for five years.

What made Jordyn Woodruff and Madeline reconcile after their friendship breakup?

Madeline's sister reached out to Jordyn for advice on studying abroad, which led to a lunch meeting. Madeline later reached out to Jordyn after her family encouraged her to reconnect. They had a mature conversation, apologized, and rekindled their friendship.

Why did Alex Bennett end her friendship with a girl named Kate?

Alex ended her friendship with Kate because Kate started texting the boyfriend of one of Alex's new sorority friends, creating conflict. Alex felt she couldn't stand by Kate due to her actions and chose to side with her new friends.

What was one listener's extreme friendship breakup story?

A listener shared that her best friend sent nudes to her boyfriend during a sleepover, spread lies about her at school, and gathered a group to harass her outside her house on her 18th birthday. The friendship ended permanently due to the betrayal and bullying.

What was the moral of the story from the listener whose friend went on a power trip at work?

The listener advised never to work with friends, as her best friend got promoted to supervisor and began bossing her around, leading to a friendship breakup. The work dynamic ruined their relationship.

Why did one listener's friendship end after her friend got engaged?

The listener's friend got engaged two days before the listener's engagement party and announced it at the party, stealing the spotlight. The friend then ghosted her for eight months and excluded her from bridesmaid activities, leading to a permanent breakup.

What was Alex Bennett's advice to a bride whose fiancé wanted his sister in the bridal party?

Alex advised the bride to include her fiancé's sister in the bridal party because it was important to her fiancé. She suggested that the sister’s friendship with the fiancé’s ex shouldn’t be a dealbreaker, as family relationships should take precedence.

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The podcast hosts discuss their excitement for a new year and share their experiences, including Alex's new bright color scheme and Jordyn's thoughts on the new year.
  • It's 2025.
  • Alex is into bright colors.
  • Jordyn is still wrapping her head around it being 2025.

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In this week’s episode, Alex Bennett and Jordyn Woodruff discuss surviving friendship breakups. They share their own stories, your stories, and explore whether friendship breakups are reversible. They also recap what happened over the holidays, tackle a wild AITA, and so much more!

Timestamps:

00:00:00 Welcome back to another episode of Mean Girl Pod!

00:00:35 Girl chat

00:15:17 Roses & Thornes

00:24:00 Recapping everything we did over the holidays

00:39:40 JW's friendship breakup story

00:48:40 AB's friendship breakup story

00:57:04 YOUR friendships breakup stories

01:09:27 AITA?!

01:16:24 Recs

01:19:20 WE LOVE YOU GUYS!


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