“If we accept that God’s love is unconditional, that the Father’s love cannot be bought or sold, then we will become capable of showing boundless love and forgiving others even if they have wronged us” - Pope Francis in Amoris Laetitia

Summary:

Becoming a husband and father is the biggest change a man goes through in his life. There is simply no better “life-coaching” than family life! But when men find their vocation difficult, it is usually their wives that they turn to or who observe this difficulty and have a desire to help. In this podcast, we hear from women who have questions about how to support and help their husbands overcome challenges at work, at home, and in their personal lives. So many wives want their husbands to be the best men they can be and overcome vices of sloth, anger, and lust but they aren’t sure how to help. Sometimes wives can take action, but in other situations, it's best for wives to be supportive and keep their advice to themselves. When do you know which is right? Listen in to find out!

Key Takeaways

Wives need to be very careful when it comes to giving husbands advice or correction regarding his relationship with work. It is a source of great respect for men, so this topic should be delicately considered.
Men need to be needed. If wives are doing everything and then complaining that he isn’t stepping up, realize that you are probably doing too much.
Overcoming anger requires introspection and being curious about why it arises within you at certain times. Usually the “trigger” is not really your child, but something that your child is doing or saying that is touching an unresolved issue in yourself.
We need to take time to think about these things and give ourselves space to consider them and bring God into that situation so He can heal us.
If you have a husband who is at a different place spiritually than you, be patient. Honor his journey as being different from your own.

MFP 331: Let’s Talk About Husbands! Listener questions answered 58:17 Share

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MFP 331: Let’s Talk About Husbands! Listener questions answered