Success can lead to increased complexity, loneliness, and the need to navigate more significant decisions and distractions. The higher you climb, the more options and responsibilities you face, making it harder to maintain focus and avoid burnout.
The paradox of success is that as you achieve more, you gain more options and opportunities, but this can lead to the undisciplined pursuit of more, which can ultimately overwhelm and disorient you, making success harder to manage.
McKeown now believes that while the mindset of Essentialism is crucial, having a toolset like the Essentialism Planner can significantly help people implement the principles more effectively, especially for those less familiar with the concepts.
Distraction refers to being pulled away from focus, while disorientation is a deeper state of confusion and nausea caused by the overwhelming amount of noise and information in today's world, making it harder to discern what truly matters.
Saying no is hard because it often involves rejecting opportunities or people, which can feel uncomfortable. McKeown suggests listening to your inner voice or 'Damon' that warns you against actions that might lead to negative outcomes, helping you make better decisions.
The 90% rule states that you should only focus on tasks or opportunities that are 90% or more important. This helps you avoid wasting time on good or trivial tasks, ensuring you prioritize what truly matters and avoid burnout.
McKeown suggests a six-minute daily planning process that involves free writing to clear the noise, reflecting on what it means, and then creating a structured plan with a top priority (the 'one'), two urgent tasks, and three maintenance items.
The story illustrates that optimal effort, rather than maximum effort, leads to better results. The Norwegian team, which paced themselves and managed their energy, reached the South Pole faster and survived the journey, while the British team, pushing too hard, burned out and faced fatal consequences.
Distrusting the easy helps avoid complacency and ensures that you remain focused on what truly matters. It encourages a balance between hard work and rest, preventing burnout and ensuring sustainable progress.
As you become more successful, you face increased distractions, more significant decisions, and the pressure to say no to attractive opportunities. Success can also lead to loneliness and the need to navigate a more complex environment, making it harder to maintain focus and avoid burnout.
Greg McKeown is an author, public speaker, and leadership consultant
Success requires you to focus on what truly matters. But in the modern world there are more distractions than ever before. So how should you best choose what to prioritise, and what are the pitfalls to avoid?
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