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#959 - Underoath - The Hidden Struggles Of Mental Health In Music

2025/6/26
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Aaron Gillespie
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Chris Willx
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Mark Manson
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Tim McTague
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Aaron Gillespie: 我经常思考一个问题，那就是我与乐队成员相处的时间比与我的妻子和孩子相处的时间还要多。这让我感到内疚，尽管我知道我不应该感到内疚。巡演生活会让人感到孤独，并且很难与家人保持联系。我渴望与妻子建立亲密关系，但巡演生活让这变得很困难。巡演结束后回到家，妻子需要时间来适应我的存在，这让我感到难过。 Tim McTague: 我认为巡演会让人停止成长，需要有意识地做出成长的决定。巡演会让人失去对物质、金钱和时间的价值感。巡演会影响人际关系，因为人们可能不了解自己，也不知道如何与伴侣共存。巡演会让人用即时满足来代替目标。重要的是要认识到巡演可能带来的影响，并尽可能避免这些影响。在巡演中保持忠诚是一种罕见现象，但应该是标准协议。有些人会试图破坏稳定的关系，这使得陷入诱惑变得容易。重要的是，伴侣要彼此迁就。重要的是，在开始巡演之前阅读相关信息，以避免陷入困境。有些教训只能通过经验才能学到。

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This chapter explores the incredible journey of Underoath, delving into their 24 years together, the countless shows they've played, and the unique challenges of maintaining personal relationships while constantly touring. It touches on the emotional toll of this lifestyle and the band's unusual intimacy with each other.
  • Underoath has been playing together for 24 years, possibly playing 3000-4000 shows.
  • The bandmates have spent more time together than with their families, leading to feelings of guilt.
  • Touring creates a unique intimacy between bandmates unlike any other relationship.

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Aaron Gillespie is the drummer, vocalist, and songwriter for Underoath.

Tim McTague is the lead guitarist, backing vocalist, and songwriter for Underoath.

Sex, drugs, and rock & roll, the dream every young man grows up hearing about. But is it all it’s made out to be? Aaron and Tim, from one of Metal’s most legendary bands, Underoath, have lived that life. The shows, the parties, the chaos, but also the sleepless nights, the fractured relationships, & the moments of wondering if it’s all worth it. Behind the noise & fame, what does the rockstar life actually cost?

Expect to learn the origins of Underoath and what life is like on the road, how touring in a band affects your relationships with the ones you love and how it takes a toll on your mental health, what the rollercoaster of success is like and how the guys were able to deal with fame, the top 5 deathbed regrets of rockstars, what the songwriting scene is like In Nashville at the moment, how men can age peacefully & well, and much more...

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