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YOU OWE IT TO YOU IN 2025 - Powerful Denzel Washington Motivation

2025/5/28
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Denzel Washington: 我认为人生需要冒险才有价值。正如纳尔逊·曼德拉所说,安于现状,过着平庸的生活是找不到激情的。在你们求学、申请大学、选择专业和规划人生的过程中,肯定有人告诉过你们要给自己留条后路。但我从不理解这种想法,如果我注定要跌倒,我不想退缩,我要向前倒,至少这样我能看清前方。人生难免失败,要接受它。你会失败,你会输,你会感到尴尬,你会一事无成。我知道这可能不是毕业典礼上的传统致辞,但我还是要告诉你们,拥抱失败吧,因为它是不可避免的。在演艺事业中,我总是面临失败。我曾试镜百老汇音乐剧的角色,对我来说简直是完美,除了我不会唱歌。但我不断失败,最终我意识到,只要坚持下去,总会成功的。去年,我在百老汇出演了话剧《藩篱》,并获得了托尼奖,而且我不用唱歌!更重要的是,演出地点正是我30年前第一次试镜失败的剧院。所以,各位毕业生,你们有能力取得成功,但你们是否有勇气去失败呢?如果你不失败,说明你根本没有尝试。我的妻子曾告诉我一句名言:要想获得从未有过的,就要做从未做过的事。莱斯·布朗曾用一个比喻:想象一下,当你躺在病床上,你的床边站着代表你未实现潜力的幽灵,那些你从未付诸行动的想法的幽灵,那些你未曾使用的才华的幽灵。他们愤怒、失望和沮丧地站在你的床边,他们说:我们来到你身边,是因为你本可以让我们重见天日,但现在我们却要和你一起走向坟墓。所以,我今天想问问大家,当你们走到生命尽头时,会有多少幽灵围绕在你们的床边?我是一个积极的人,我认为要利用好你所拥有的一切。最简单的事情就是抱怨和放弃,但我总是努力将挑战转化为机遇,目前来看效果还不错。平庸的人议论他人,优秀的人讨论事件,伟大的人探讨思想。能做到的人去做,做不到的人议论能做到的人。你能做到吗?还是你只是一个在场边议论他人的人?你能挺身而出吗?我从不把事情看作是问题,而是看作是机遇。当别人说“她做了这件事”时,我会说“你有一个机会”。当别人抱怨世界时,我会说“你有一个机会去做出改变”,因为你永远不知道谁在看着你。更重要的是,不要为了被看到而去做事。为你的目标祈祷,为你所承诺的事情而奋斗。恐惧只不过是被污染的信念。在这个充斥着推特和网络暴力的世界里,我们至少应该反思我们所做的一切,并尽力去改变现状。我不责怪任何人,我反省自己。从另一个角度来看,我们拥有一个多么好的机会,因为明天将是你余生的第一天。今天是你余生的开始,这可能会让你感到害怕,因为外面的世界很残酷,但人生只有一次,所以去做你热爱的事情吧。你内心渴望成为任何你想成为的人,无论是台前还是幕后,这种渴望是上帝赋予你的天赋,它已经属于你了,去争取它,勇敢地去失败吧!不要害怕失败。有一个智商测试是这样的:用五条线连接九个点,而且笔不能离开纸面。唯一的解决方法就是跳出框框。所以,不要害怕跳出框框,不要害怕进行创新性思考,不要害怕勇敢地去失败,勇敢地去追逐梦想。但请记住,没有目标的梦想只是空想,最终只会让人失望。所以,要有梦想,更要有目标。在通往成就的道路上,纪律和坚持是必不可少的。在目标和成就之间,是纪律和坚持。我祈祷你们每天晚上都把鞋子放在床底下,这样早上你们就必须跪下来祈祷。你们必须全力以赴,无论是时间、才华、祈祷还是财富。请记住,你永远不会在灵车后面看到搬家公司的车辆。你无法带走任何东西。埃及人尝试过,但他们最终被抢劫一空。所以问题是,你要如何利用你所拥有的?我不是在问你拥有多少,而是在问你要如何利用你所拥有的。你们当中有些人是商科专业的,有些人是神学专业的,有些人是护士,有些人是社会学家。有些人有钱,有些人有耐心,有些人有善良,有些人有爱心,有些人有忍耐力。无论你拥有什么天赋,你要如何利用它呢?为了实现你的目标,你必须运用纪律(你们已经做到了)和坚持,每天都要坚持,而不是只在周二努力几天。你必须每天都为之努力,每天都为之计划。你一定听过这句话:我们不是计划失败,而是失败于计划。努力工作是成功的关键,成功人士都是非常努力的。我和你们一样,我所拥有的一切都无法让我在这个世界上多停留一天。分享你所知道的,启发你能启发的人,不断向能帮助你的人寻求建议。培养这些习惯。对我来说,一个很好的习惯是“说话要慢”。看,我甚至都说不出来。我们都有需要改进的地方,我们都在不断进步,所以要利用好你所拥有的工具。永不放弃,没有承诺,你永远无法开始;但更重要的是,没有坚持,你永远无法完成。继续努力,永不放弃,跌倒七次,就站起来八次。安逸比困难更威胁进步。所以,继续前进,继续成长,继续学习。再见,在工作中见。力量、领导力、权力、权威、指导和耐心是上帝赐予我们男人的礼物。我们必须珍惜这些礼物,而不是滥用它们。我今天早上祈祷能成为一个更好的倾听者,但效果不太好。人无完人,跌倒了就要重新站起来。是的,我曾站在高山上,我曾被祝福。但那是一条危险的道路,而且在高处是很孤独的。我们走到今天这一步,不是为了崩溃和失败。我是一个赢家,我一定会赢。你内心真正的渴望,你渴望帮助他人、成长和赚钱的渴望,这就是上帝赐予你的天赋,它已经属于你了。努力做出改变。在这个世界上,你要么是有价值的人,要么是无足轻重的人。永不放弃,没有承诺,你永远无法开始;但更重要的是,没有坚持,你永远无法完成。这并不容易,如果很容易,就不会有丹泽尔·华盛顿了。所以,继续努力。继续奋斗,永不放弃,跌倒七次,就站起来八次。安逸比困难更威胁进步。所以,继续前进,继续成长,继续学习。再见,在工作中见。虽然这可能会让你感到害怕,但也会给你带来回报。所以,你必须全力以赴,无论是时间、才华、祈祷还是财富。因为承担风险不仅仅是找工作,还要知道你所知道的和不知道的,要对人和想法保持开放的态度。要想获得从未有过的,就要做从未做过的事。你所抓住的机会、你所遇到的人、你所爱的人以及你所拥有的信仰,这些都将定义你。我发现,人生中没有什么比冒险更有价值的了。纳尔逊·曼德拉曾说过,安于现状,过着平庸的生活是找不到激情的。在你们求学、申请大学、选择专业和规划人生的过程中,肯定有人告诉过你们要给自己留条后路。但我从不理解这种想法,如果我注定要跌倒,我不想退缩。我要向前倒,至少这样我能看清前方。这就是我的意思。雷吉·杰克逊在他的职业生涯中被三振了2600次,是棒球历史上最多的。但人们记住的不是他的三振,而是他的本垒打。向前倒吧。托马斯·爱迪生做过1000次失败的实验,你知道吗?我不知道。因为第1001次实验成功发明了电灯泡。向前倒吧。勇敢地去失败吧。今天是你余生的开始,这可能会让你感到害怕,因为外面的世界很残酷,但人生只有一次,所以去做你热爱的事情吧。抓住机会,在专业领域内,不要害怕跳出框框,不要害怕进行创新性思考,不要害怕勇敢地去失败,勇敢地去追逐梦想。但请记住,没有目标的梦想只是空想,最终只会让人失望。所以,要有梦想,更要有目标。生活目标、年度目标、月度目标、每日目标。我每天都会给自己设定一个目标,有时只是为了不骂人。目标可以很简单,但一定要有目标,并且要明白,为了实现这些目标,你必须运用纪律和坚持。为了实现你的目标,你必须运用纪律(你们已经做到了)和坚持,每天都要坚持,而不是只在周二努力几天。你必须为之努力。努力工作是有效的。你永远不会在灵车后面看到搬家公司的车辆。无论你赚多少钱,你都无法带走任何东西。埃及人尝试过,但他们最终被抢劫一空。你无法带走任何东西。重要的不是你拥有多少,而是你如何利用你所拥有的。我们都有不同的天赋。你们有些人会成为医生,有些人会成为律师,有些人会成为科学家,有些人会成为教育家,有些人会成为护士,有些人会成为传教士。在这个世界上,最自私的事情就是帮助他人。为什么说它是自私的呢?因为帮助他人会给你带来快乐和满足感,没有什么比这更好的了。不是珠宝,不是豪宅,不是汽车,而是帮助他人带来的快乐。这才是快乐的源泉,这才是成功的真谛。只要你想要,你就能拥有。所以,去争取它,努力去实现它。当你成功时,不要忘记回馈社会,帮助他人。每个人都要教导另一个人。请记住,做得多并不意味着做得好。不要将忙碌与进步混淆。我的母亲告诉我,原地跑步是永远无法到达目的地的。所以,继续努力,继续拥有目标,继续进步。

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Denzel Washington uses a powerful analogy of ghosts representing unfulfilled potential to motivate listeners to pursue their dreams and make a difference in the world. He emphasizes the importance of action over inaction and encourages listeners to seize opportunities rather than complain about problems.
  • The analogy of ghosts representing unfulfilled potential.
  • The importance of taking action and seizing opportunities.
  • The idea of turning problems into opportunities.
  • The encouragement to make a difference in the world.

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It's time to break free and wake up to your potential. Download Mindset Daily Motivation today and start taking control of your life. I found that nothing in life is worthwhile unless you take risks. Nothing. Nelson Mandela said, there is no passion to be found playing small and settling for a life that's less than the one you're capable of living.

Now I'm sure in your experiences in school and applying to college and picking your major and deciding what you want to do with life, I'm sure people have told you to make sure you have something to fall back on. Make sure you got something to fall back on, honey. But I never understood that concept, having something to fall back on. If I'm going to fall, I don't want to fall back on anything except my faith. I want to fall forward. I figure at least this way I'll see what I'm going to hit.

You will fail at some point in your life. Accept it. You will lose. You will embarrass yourself. You will suck at something. There's no doubt about it. And I know that's probably not a traditional message for a graduation ceremony, but hey, I'm telling you, embrace it. Because it's inevitable. And I should know. In the acting business, you fail all the time. Early on in my career, I auditioned for a part in a Broadway musical. Perfect role for me, I thought.

except for the fact that I can't sing. But I continued to fail and fail and fail. But it didn't matter because you know what? There's an old saying, you hang around the barbershop long enough, sooner or later you're gonna get a haircut. So you will catch a break, and I did catch a break. Last year, I did a play called Fences on Broadway. Someone talked about it. Won the Tony Award. And I didn't have to sing, by the way. But here's the kicker. It was at the Court Theatre.

It was at the same theater that I failed that first audition 30 years prior. The point is, and I'll pick up the pace, the point is every graduate here today has the training and the talent to succeed. But do you have the guts to fail? If you don't fail, you're not even trying.

I'll say it again. If you don't fail, you're not even trying. My wife told me this great expression. To get something you never had, you have to do something you never did.

Les Browns, a motivational speaker, he made an analogy about this. He says, imagine you're on your deathbed and standing around your deathbed are the ghosts representing your unfulfilled potential. The ghost of the ideas you never acted on. The ghost of the talents you didn't use. And they're standing around your bed angry, disappointed, and upset. They say, we came to you because you could have brought us to life, they say.

and now we have to go to the grave together. So I ask you today, how many ghosts are going to be around your bed when your time comes? I'm a positive person. I think that you have to take what you're given and do something with it. You know, the easiest thing to do is complain about it and give in to that. But I try to turn that into something positive, and so far it's worked. Small minds discuss other people. Good minds discuss events. Great minds discuss ideas. Those who can do...

Those who can't talk about those who can. Now, can you or can you not? Are you just one that sits on the sideline to talk about other people or can you step up? I never looked at things as problems. I look at them as opportunities. You know, someone, ah, well, she did this and I'm like, well, what an opportunity you have. Yeah, yeah. Yeah, well, the world, you know, because they did this and she said that. Yeah, well, what an opportunity you have to make a difference because you never know who's watching.

But more importantly, you shouldn't do it to be seen. You know, pray about it. Whatever it is you're committed to, fight for it. What did you say? Fear is nothing but contaminated faith. That's right. Fear is nothing but contaminated faith. In this Twitter tweet meme, mean world that we've created for our children, the least we can do is consider what we've done and think about it.

the young people, the future. And individually, collectively do the best we can to try and turn this thing around. I blame no one. I look in the mirror. On the other side of it, what an opportunity we have because tomorrow's the first day of the rest of our lives. Today's the beginning of the rest of your life and it can be very frightening. It's a new world out there, it's a mean world out there and you only live once. So do what you feel passionate about.

That itch that you have to be whatever it is you want to be, in front of the camera, on the stage, behind the stage, that itch, that desire for good is God's proof to you. Sit already to indicate that it's yours. You already have it. Claim it. Fail big. That's right. Fail big. Don't be afraid to fail. There's an old IQ test was nine dots and you had to draw five lines with a pencil within these nine dots.

without lifting the pencil. The only way to do it was to go outside the box. So don't be afraid to go outside the box. Don't be afraid to think outside the box. Don't be afraid to fail big. To dream big. But remember, dreams without goals are just dreams. And they ultimately fuel disappointment. So have dreams, but have goals. Goals!

on the road to achievement cannot be achieved without discipline and consistency. You understand? Between goals and achievement are discipline and consistency. I pray that you all put your shoes way under the bed at night so that you got to get on your knees in the morning. So you got to get out there

You got to give it everything you got whether it's your time, your talent, your prayers or your treasures. Because remember this, you will never see a U-Haul behind a hearse. I'll say it again. You will never see a U-Haul behind a hearse. You can't take it with you. The Egyptians tried it and all they got was robbed. So the question is,

What are you going to do with what you have? I'm not talking about how much you have. Some of you are business majors. Some of you are theologians, nurses, sociologists. Some of you have money. Some of you have patience. Some of you have kindness. Some of you have love. Some of you have the gift of long suffering. Whatever it is, whatever your gift is, what are you going to do with what you have?

In order to achieve your goals, you must apply discipline, which you have already done, and consistency every day, not just on Tuesday and miss a few days. You have to work at it every day. You have to plan every day. You've heard the saying, we don't plan to fail. We fail to plan. Hard work works. Working really hard is what successful people do. I'm just like you, you know.

What I have will not keep me on this earth for one more day. Share what you know, inspire who you can, seek advice from... If you want to talk to one someone, talk to the one that can do something about it constantly. Develop those habits. Here's a good one for me, slow to speak. See, I can't even say it. We all got something that we're working on. I'm a work in progress.

like anyone else and take the tools that you're given. So never give up. Without commitment, you'll never start. But more importantly, without consistency, you'll never finish. Keep striving, never give up, fall down seven times, get up eight. Ease is a greater threat to progress than hardship. Ease is a greater threat to progress than hardship. So keep moving, keep growing, keep learning.

See you at work. Strength, leadership, power, authority, guidance, patience are God's gift to us as men. We have to cherish that, not abuse it. I prayed this morning to be a better listener. Didn't work so well. It's where human, you get back up. Yes, I've been high up on the mountain. I've been blessed.

But that's a slippery slope. Yeah. And it's lonely up there. You know, people don't know that side of it. We did not come this far to just break down and lose now. I'm a winner. I'm going to win. True desire in the heart, that itch that you have, whatever it is you want to do, that thing that you want to do to help others and to grow and to make money, that desire, that itch, that's God's proof to you. Sit beforehand already to indicate that it's yours.

aspire to make a difference. You are what you are in this world. That's either one of two things. Either you're somebody or you're nobody. Never give up. Without commitment, you'll never start. But more importantly, without consistency, you'll never finish. It's not easy. If it were easy, there'd be no Denzel Washington. So, keep working.

Keep striving, never give up, fall down seven times, get up eight. Ease is a greater threat to progress than hardship. So keep moving, keep growing, keep learning. See you at work. While it may be frightening, it will also be rewarding. So you got to get out there. You got to give it everything you got, whether it's your time, your talent, your prayers, or your treasures. Because taking risk is not just about going for a job.

It's also about knowing what you know and what you don't know. It's about being open to people and to ideas. To get something you never had, you have to do something you never did. Because the chances you take, the people you meet, the people you love, the faith that you have, that's what's going to define you. I found that nothing in life is worthwhile unless you take risks. Nothing.

Nelson Mandela said there is no passion to be found playing small and settling for a life that's less than the one you're capable of living. Now I'm sure in your experiences in school and applying to college and picking your major and deciding what you want to do with life, I'm sure people have told you to make sure you have something to fall back on. Make sure you got something to fall back on, honey. But I never understood that concept, having something to fall back on. If I'm going to fall...

I don't want to fall back on anything. I want to fall forward. I figure at least this way I'll see what I'm going to hit. Fall forward. This is what I mean. Reggie Jackson struck out 2,600 times in his career, the most in the history of baseball. But you don't hear about the strikeouts. People remember the home runs. Fall forward. Thomas Edison conducted 1,000 failed experiments. Did you know that? I didn't know that. Because the 1,001st was the light bulb.

Fall forward. Fail big. Today is the beginning of the rest of your life and it can be very frightening. It's a new world out there. It's a mean world out there. You only live once. So do what you feel passionate about. Take chances. Professionally. Don't be afraid to go outside the box. Don't be afraid to think outside the box. Don't be afraid to fail big. To dream big. But remember, dreams...

Without goals are just dreams and they ultimately fuel disappointment. So have dreams but have goals. Life goals, yearly goals, monthly goals, daily goals. I try to give myself a goal every day. Sometimes it's just to not curse somebody out. Simple goals but have goals and understand that to achieve these goals

You must apply discipline and consistency. In order to achieve your goals, you must apply discipline, which you've already done, and consistency every day, not just one Tuesday and just a few days. You have to work at it. Hard work works. You'll never see a U-Haul behind a hearse. I don't care how much money you make, you can't take it with you. The Egyptians tried it. They got robbed.

That's all they got. You can't take it with you. And it's not how much you have. It's what you do with what you have. We all have different talents. Some of you will be doctors, some lawyers, some scientists, some educators, some nurses, some preachers. The most selfish thing you can do in this world is help someone else. Why is it selfish? Because the gratification, the goodness that comes to you, the good feeling, the good feeling that I get

from helping others. Nothing's better than that. Well, one of two things, but nothing's better than that. Not jewelry, not big house I have, not the cars, but it's the joy. That's where the joy is in helping others. That's where the success is. And anything you want good, you can have. So claim it. Work hard to get it. When you get it, reach back. Pull someone else up. Each one, teach one.

Remember, just because you're doing a lot more doesn't mean you're getting a lot more done. Remember that. Just because you're doing a lot more doesn't mean you're getting a lot more done. Don't confuse movement with progress. My mother told me, she said, yeah, because you can run in place all the time and never get anywhere. So continue to strive, continue to have goals, continue to progress.

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We got you. Visit Verizon today. Price guarantee applies to then current base monthly rate. Additional terms and conditions apply for all offers. When you're a forward thinker, the only thing you're afraid of is business as usual. Workday is the AI platform that transforms the way you manage your people and money today so you can transform tomorrow. Workday, moving business forever forward.