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DON'T WASTE YOUR LIFE - Powerful Jim Rohn Wisdom You Need to Hear

2025/5/8
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Jim Rohn: 我认为努力工作的意义不在于完成任务本身,而在于探索自身潜能。为什么我们要如此努力工作?为什么我们要学习那么多课程?为什么我们要读那么多书?为什么我们要进行那么多的自律训练?答案就在于:为什么不呢?为什么不看看自己能读多少书,能学多少课程,能掌握多少技能?为什么不看看自己能为市场、朋友和家人创造多少价值?为什么不看看自己能成为怎样的人?为什么不看看自己能走多远,能看到多少,能赚多少,能分享多少?为什么不呢?这就是我们所有人在美国所拥有的传统,特别是现在我们得到了这个非凡的机会,我们要充分利用它。任何你不用就会失去的东西。如果你把你的胳膊绑在你的身体上,时间长了,你就再也不会用了。对这只胳膊来说,一切都结束了。现在可能还没结束,但对这只胳膊来说,一切都结束了。保持这只胳膊使用的唯一方法是什么?继续使用它。如果你放弃,你就会自动失败。同样,你的胳膊适用,你的大脑思维方式也适用。所有的人类美德也一样。未被使用的雄心壮志会衰退。未被使用的强烈情感会减弱,它不会增长,只会减弱。未被使用的信仰会减少,这是一个规律。未被使用的活力会减弱。未被使用的能量会减少。让我快速列举四种情绪,它们可以在一天内改变你的生活。情绪是强大的。有时只需要一点点就能改变你整个人生的方向。好的,它们是:第一,厌恶。强大的情绪。厌恶说,我受够了。看,那可能就是那一天。你能够说“我受够了”的那一天,可能不是它结束的那一天,而是它开始的那一天。这就是当那个小女童子军在我25岁的时候离开我家门口时我说的话。我对她撒了大谎,她走了,我说:“我不想再这样生活了。”我受够了说谎和贫穷。从明天开始,你打算做些什么来改变你的人生方向?好问题。从明天开始,你打算做些什么来改变你的人生方向?现在看,如果你从明天开始不做一些能有所作为的事情,猜猜会怎么样?它会保持不变。这样你就可以猜到未来五年会是什么样子。看看过去五年。因为除非你明天做出重大改变,否则未来五年将会像过去五年一样。或者改变一点点,或者改变一些东西,或者不要改变。是时候做出选择了。你可以做任何你想做的事情。但很高兴知道,任何一天你都可以改变你的一生。成功不是你追求的东西。成功是你成为的东西。我们都想成功,成功是媒体中反复出现的主题。但是,你有没有花时间去定义成功对你来说真正意味着什么?你想成为一个什么样的人?这是我对成功的个人定义。成功是你努力成为最好的自己的时候。做你爱做的事情,并为世界做出你最好的贡献。你对成功的定义是什么?成功往往是人们追求名利,只是在多年的努力工作后才意识到这些目标并没有给他们带来真正的满足感,而且他们常常感到空虚。你需要花时间来决定成功对你意味着什么。不要让社会、媒体、你的家人或朋友来为你定义它。只有你自己知道成功对你意味着什么。问问你自己,我怎样才能在做我喜欢的事情的同时为人们服务?想想你能付出什么,而不是你想得到什么。正如圣经所说,施予,你就会得到施予。人生的意义是什么?一般来说,关于人生的意义有两种想法。我们生来就有一个特定的目的。我们必须赋予我们的人生意义。我喜欢这两种想法,我不知道哪一种是正确的,但这并不重要。伟大人生目标的主要特征。以下是一些你可能想考虑的伟大人生目标的特征。永恒的。如果你可以使用时间机器回到过去或未来,你的人生目标将保持不变。普遍的。如果你出生在世界上的另一个地方,你的目标仍然是一样的。鼓舞人心的。你的人生目标应该真正鼓舞人心,让你能够充分发挥你的潜力,体验真正的满足感。当你的目标真正与你产生共鸣时,你所做的事情实际上感觉不再像工作了。超越你的自我。我们大多数人工作是为了谋生,为了获得认可,或者为了得到社会的认可。真正的人生目标应该源于爱,而不是恐惧。当你有一个明确的人生目标时,你不再因为恐惧而行动。害怕不够好,不值得,不够聪明。虽然我们不太可能完全摆脱我们的自我,但我们应该尽量从爱的角度出发行动,这在我们控制自我时是可能的。要问自己的有力问题。让我给你提供几种可以帮助你确定你的人生目标的方法。我怎样才能利用我的问题?想想你如何才能赋予你的问题和挑战以意义。与其抱怨问题,不如经常利用它来了解它给你的人生带来的意义。维克多·弗兰克尔在他的书《追寻人生的意义》中观察到,在他纳粹集中营期间出现的一种奇怪现象,那些身体非常强壮的人往往比那些身材矮小、瘦弱的人死得早得多,仅仅是因为那些身材矮小的人找到了他们痛苦的意义。我怎样才能做我喜欢的事情并获得报酬?你喜欢做什么?你如何才能找到一种以此为生的方法?你知道吗,“热情”这个词的意思是“内在的神”?如果你不真正热爱你的工作,就不可能非常成功。如果你不追随你的热情,在多次失败后,你就无法继续前进。只有强大的理由才能让你在逆境中继续前进。拥有激情会带来满足感,这才是真正的成功,而不仅仅是金钱或名声。我怎样才能更好地服务?你如何才能为社会创造更多价值?不要再想着你能从社会得到什么。想想你想为社会付出什么。如果你拥有世界上所有的金钱和时间,你会做什么?你有多么热爱它,以至于你会花钱去做它?拿一支笔和一张纸,回答以下问题:我的人生目标是什么?不要想太多,只要写出你脑海中想到的任何东西。继续这样做,直到你写下的句子让你哭泣。不要忘记生活中唯一重要的事情,那就是快乐。现在让我告诉你成功的秘诀。失败的公式,在短短一个月内每天重复几次错误的判断,就会开始软弱,开始灾难的过程。你可以想象六年后会发生什么。现在是成功的公式。每天练习一些简单的纪律。如果你今天决定吃苹果而不是吃好时巧克力棒,我告诉你,你已经开始改变你的人生了。如果你坚持这个过程,不仅是你的健康习惯,还有你的金钱习惯,你的沟通习惯,你的销售习惯,你的管理习惯,以及你拥有的其他所有习惯,如果你开始这个过程,消除错误,并用实践的纪律来代替它,我告诉你,你可以立即开始这个改变人生的过程。如果你不设计你自己的生活计划,你很可能会落入别人的计划。你猜他们为你计划了什么?不多。你可以成为你生活的受害者,也可以成为你生活的创造者。你想成为哪一个?我们许多人没有意识到生活中一个非常重要的因素。一切都是选择的问题。你对你的生活的所有方面都负有责任。你是否放弃了你的权力?每次你未能对生活的任何方面承担责任时,你都会把你的权力交给周围的环境和人。每次你扮演受害者的角色时,你都会使自己失去权力,并限制你改变自己和前进的能力。不承担责任意味着你拒绝承认你至少对发生在你身上的大部分事情有一定的控制权。你拒绝寻找让你的生活变得更好的可能性。承担责任并不总是容易的,因为它要求你告诉自己真相,接受你可能做错了什么,或者你本可以做得不同。从情感上来说,责备他人或环境比从自身寻找你可能犯下的缺点和错误要容易得多。由于某种原因,责备他人或环境感觉更自然。拒绝承担责任并放弃我们的控制会给我们一种虚假的解脱感。它也保护了我们的自我。责备他人总是比改变更容易。然而,责备他人是个人成长的巨大障碍。如果你不能改掉这个习惯,并开始扮演你生活的创造者,而不是参与者,你就不太可能实现你的人生目标。承诺承担你生活的全部责任,即使在你并不真正相信你负有责任的情况下也是如此。承担额外的责任可以确保你不会忽略生活中成长和改变的可能性,并且能够充分赋予自己权力。承担责任从来不意味着责备自己或责备自己。这种态度很可能会适得其反,导致自我破坏。让你放弃,并给你更多不改变和前进的借口。承担责任就是接受现实,并意识到你至少有一定的能力去改变它。我是否对所有事情都负有责任?我知道你在想什么。如果我完全无法控制的事情发生在我身上怎么办?如果我的丈夫或妻子在恐怖袭击中丧生怎么办?我对此负责。虽然你对这件事不负责任,但你对选择如何应对这件事负有责任。你可以从悲剧中找到意义,继续你的生活,或者你可以生活在过去,整天想着如何追踪恐怖分子并报仇。复仇是许多电影的当前主题,对许多人来说很有吸引力。然而,复仇是一种自我游戏,毫无疑问是世界上最具破坏性的行为之一。复仇是平静心态的对立面,无法带来满足感。马丁·路德·金曾经说过:“黑暗无法驱散黑暗,只有光明才能做到这一点。仇恨无法驱散仇恨,只有爱才能做到这一点。”不幸的是,我们往往过于关注报仇、报复或正确,而不是关注快乐。然而,你应该意识到,最终,你原谅他人并继续前进的原因并不是因为你是一个非常善良和完全无私的人。这是因为你明白这是与自己和平相处的唯一途径。宽恕只不过是对自己的爱的宣告。这是你对自己做出的承诺的关键部分,无论发生什么,你都要快乐。发生在你身上的事情会发生在你身上。问题是,你打算怎么办?你打算让它们毁掉你的生活吗?还是你打算从中建立力量和意义?只有你能决定。我邀请你花一些时间来确定你生活中那些你通过有意识地或无意识地拒绝承担全部责任而放弃权力的领域。你的家人或朋友可能会在生活中支持你,但最终你总是孤单的。现实是没有人来拯救你。没有人可以为你结婚,为你而死。不要默认地生活。创造你的生活。

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Why? We all ask why we should work this hard. Why take that many classes? Why go to school that many years? You know, why take the notes? Why read the books? Why work that hard? Why put yourself through the push-ups and the disciplines? Why? Good question, why? Best answer to why, I think, is the second question. Why not? Why not see how many books you can read, how many classes you can take, how many skills you can develop?

Why not see how valuable you can become to the marketplace, to your friends and to your family? Why not see what you can make of yourself? Why not see how far you can go, how much you can see, how much you can earn, how much you can share? Why not? That's the heritage all of us have in America, especially is to see what we can make out of our lives now that we've been given this extraordinary opportunity. Whatever you don't use, you lose.

If you tie your arm to your body, leave it there long enough, you'll never use it again. It's over for the arm. Now may not be over, but it's over for the arm. The only way to keep the use of this arm is what? Keep using it. If you quit, you lose automatically. Now the same thing that goes for your arm goes for your brain mentality. The same thing goes for all the human virtues. Ambition unused declines.

Strong feelings unused diminish. It doesn't grow, it diminishes. Faith unused decreases. It's a law. Vitality unused diminishes. Energy unused decreases. Let me just quickly give you a list of four emotions that can change your life in one day. Emotions are powerful. Sometimes it doesn't take much to alter your whole life direction.

Okay, here they are. Number one, disgust. Powerful emotion. Disgust says, I have had it. See, that could be the day. The day you can say, I've had it. And whether you've had it with something small or something major, the day you can say, I've had it, may not be the day it ends, but the day it begins.

That's what I said when that little girl scout left my door when I'm 25. I give her the big lie, she leaves, I say, "I don't want to live like this anymore." I've had it with lying and being broke.

Starting tomorrow, what are you going to do that'll make a change in your life's direction? Good question. What are you going to do starting tomorrow that'll make a difference? Now see, if you don't do something starting tomorrow that'll make a difference, guess what? It's gonna be the same. And see, that way you can guess what the next five years are going to be like. Look at the last five. Because the next five are going to be like the last five unless you, major key, tomorrow change it all.

or change a little or change something or don't change. It's choice time. You can do whatever you want. But it's nice to know any day you wish you can change your whole life. Success is not something you pursue. Success is something you become. We all want to be successful and success is a recurrent theme in the media. However, have you taken the time to define what success really means to you? What kind of person do you want to become? Here is my personal definition of success.

Success is when you work on becoming the best you can become. Do what you love and give your best contribution to the world. What is your definition of success? Success is too often people seek fame, recognition and money just to realize after years of hard work that those goals don't bring them real fulfillment and often they are left feeling empty. You need to take time to determine what success means for you.

Don't let society, the media, your family or your friends define it for you. Only you know what success means to you. Ask yourself, how can I serve people while doing what I love? Think about what you can give, not about what you want to get. As the Bible says, give and it shall be given unto you. What is the meaning of life?

Generally, there are two types of thinking regarding the meaning of life. We were all born with a specific purpose. We have to give meaning to our life. I like both ideas and I don't know which one is true, but it doesn't really matter. Main characteristics of a great life purpose. Below are some characteristics of a great life purpose that you might want to consider. Timeless.

If you could use a time machine and go back in time or into the future, your life purpose would remain the same. Universal. If you were born in a different part of the world, your purpose would still be the same. Inspiring. Your life purpose should be truly inspiring and allow you to unleash your full potential and experience a real sense of fulfillment. When your purpose really resonates within you, what you are doing doesn't really feel like working anymore. Transcend your ego.

Most of us work in order to make a living, to gain recognition or to feel accepted by society. A true life purpose should come from a place of love, not fear. When you have a clear life purpose, you don't act out of fear anymore. Fear of not being good enough, not being worthy, not being smart enough.

Although we are unlikely to completely get rid of our ego, we should try to base our actions from a place of love as much as we can which becomes possible when our ego is under control. Powerful questions to ask yourself. Let me give you several ways that can help you identify your life purpose. How can I leverage my problems? Think about how you can give meaning to your problems and challenges.

Rather than complaining about a problem, it is often possible to take advantage of it by seeing the meaning it brings to your life.

Viktor Frankl in his book "Man's Search for Meanings" observed the odd phenomenon during his time in a Nazi concentration camp where individuals that were physically very strong often died long before smaller, skinnier and weaker individuals simply because the smaller guy had found meaning to his suffering. How can I get paid to do what I love? What is it that you like to do? How can you find a way to make a living out of it?

Did you know that the word enthusiasm means God within? It is impossible to be very successful if you don't really love what you do. If you don't follow your passion, you won't be able to keep moving forward after multiple failures. Only a strong why will allow you to keep going despite the hardships. Having passion will lead to fulfillment, which is real success, not just money or fame. How can I better serve?

How can you create more value for society? Stop thinking about what you can get from society. Think about what you want to give to society. If you had all the money and time in the world, what would you do? What do you love so much that you'd pay to do it? Take a pen and a piece of paper and answer the following question: What is my life purpose? Don't overthink, just write whatever comes into your mind.

Keep doing it until the sentence you write makes you cry. Don't lose sight of the only thing that matters in life, being happy. Now let me give you the secret to success. The formula for failure, a few errors in judgment repeated every day for one month starts the weakness, starts the disaster process. You can imagine what happens in six years. Now here's the formula for success. A few simple disciplines practiced every day.

And if you decide today to go for the apple instead of the Hershey bar, I'm telling you, you have begun the process of turning your life around. And if you keep up that process, not only with your health habits, but with your money habits and with your communication habits, with your sales habits and management habits and every other habit that you've got, if you'll start that process, eliminate the errors and replace it with disciplines practiced, I'm telling you, you can start this process of life change immediately. If you don't design your own life plan,

Chances are you'll fall into someone else's plan. And guess what they have planned for you? Not much. You can be either the victim or the creator of your life. Which one would you like to be? Many of us fail to realize one very important factor in life. Everything is a matter of choice. You are responsible for all areas of your life. Are you giving your power away?

Each time you fail to take responsibility in any area of your life, you give your power away to circumstances and people around you. Each time you play the victim, you disempower yourself and limit your ability to change yourself and move forward. Not taking responsibility means that you refuse to acknowledge that you have at least some control over most of the things that happen to you.

You refuse to look for possibilities to make your life better. Taking responsibility is not always easy because it requires that you tell yourself the truth, that you accept the fact that you may have done something wrong or that you could have done things differently. Emotionally speaking, blaming people or circumstances is much easier than looking within yourself for possible shortcomings and mistakes you might have made.

For some reason it feels more natural to blame people or circumstances. Refusing to take responsibility and letting go of our control gives us a false sense of relief. It also protects our ego. It is always easier to blame others than to change. However, blaming others is a huge impediment to personal growth. You are unlikely to reach your goals in life if you cannot get rid of this habit and start acting as the creator of

rather than a player in your life. Commit yourself to take full responsibility for your life, even in situations where you don't really believe you are responsible. Taking extra responsibility ensures that you are not overlooking possibilities for growth and change in life and are fully empowering yourself. Taking responsibility never means beating yourself up or blaming yourself.

That kind of attitude is likely to be counterproductive and result in self-sabotage. Leading you to give up and giving you further excuses not to change and move forward. Taking responsibility is accepting the reality and realizing you have at least some power to change it. Am I responsible for absolutely everything? I know you are thinking.

What if something I have absolutely no control over happens to me? What if my husband or wife gets killed in a terrorist attack? I am responsible for that.

While you are not responsible for this event, you are responsible for the way you choose to react to it. You can find meaning from the tragedy and move forward with your life or you can live in the past, thinking all day long about ways to track the terrorists down and take your revenge. Revenge is a current theme of many movies and is appealing for a lot of people.

However, revenge is an ego game and without a doubt one of the most destructive behaviors in the world. Revenge is the antithesis of peace of mind and cannot bring fulfillment. Martin Luther King once said, "Darkness cannot drive out darkness, only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate, only love can do that."

Unfortunately, too often our focus is on taking revenge, getting even or being right rather than on being happy. However, you should realize that in the end, the reason why you forgive people and move on is not because you are an extremely nice and completely selfless person. It is because you understand that it is the only way to be at peace with yourself. Forgiveness is nothing more than a declaration of love to yourself.

It is a critical part of the commitment you made to yourself to be happy no matter what. Events that happen to you happen to you. The question is, what are you going to do about it? Are you going to let them ruin your life? Or are you going to build strength and meaning out of them?

Only you can decide. I invite you to take some time to identify areas of your life where you are giving power away by refusing consciously or unconsciously to take full responsibility. Your family or your friends may support you in life, but in the end you are always alone. The reality is that nobody is coming to save you. Nobody can get married for you and die for you. Don't live your life by default. Create your life.

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