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Is It Weird for Adults to Have Imaginary Friends? (Replay)

2024/12/1
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Stephen Dubner
以《怪诞经济学》系列著名的美国作家、记者和广播电视人物。
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Angela Duckworth:研究表明,人们对他人了解越多,就越觉得他人也了解自己,这会减少自身匿名感,并解释了为什么人们在单向关系中会感受到亲密感。单向关系的积极方面在于它可以帮助人们练习社交技巧、改变偏见,并提升自信心。但消极方面是人们可能会过度依赖虚拟世界,忽略现实生活,甚至产生错觉。 Stephen Dubner:单向关系,特别是来自媒体的单向关系,会让人们产生一种与媒体人物建立了真实关系的错觉。这与传统的单向关系(如对皇室的关注)不同,现代媒体营造了一种自愿的脆弱和亲密感。人们在单向关系中产生的“如果我了解你很多,你也一定了解我很多”的错觉,并非完全是错觉,而是一种认知捷径。戴安娜王妃之死引发的全球哀悼,体现了人们在单向关系中情感的过度投射。 Rebecca Lee Douglas:单向关系可以帮助人们应对孤独和抑郁,尤其是在疫情期间。对我来说,播客成为了我重要的朋友,帮助我度过了在英国留学期间的孤独和抑郁。

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What is a parasocial relationship?

A parasocial relationship is a one-sided interaction where one person feels a sense of connection or friendship with someone who is unaware of their existence, such as a celebrity or podcast host.

Why do people feel a sense of intimacy in parasocial relationships?

People often assume that if they know a lot about someone, that person must also know them, creating a false sense of reciprocity. This is supported by research showing that knowledge about others reduces one's sense of anonymity.

How do parasocial relationships affect mental health?

Parasocial relationships can be positive for mental health, especially in times of loneliness, as they provide a sense of connection and companionship. However, excessive reliance on them can displace real-life interactions.

What does research say about the impact of parasocial relationships on prejudice?

Research by Bradley Bond shows that audiences can develop socio-emotional bonds with out-group television characters, which can influence attitudes and behaviors similarly to direct interpersonal contact, potentially reducing prejudice.

How do AI relationships fit into the concept of parasocial relationships?

AI relationships, like with Alexa or Siri, are considered a form of parasocial interaction. However, as AI becomes more advanced, it could evolve into a more complex form of friendship, blurring the lines between parasocial and real relationships.

What role do imaginary friends play in childhood development?

Imaginary friends help children practice relationships and understand social dynamics. They serve as a way to explore interactions and build social skills, similar to how parasocial relationships can function for adults.

How did parasocial relationships help one listener cope with loneliness?

A listener found solace in podcasts during a lonely period in England, feeling a sense of companionship and humor that helped her through clinical depression. This demonstrates how parasocial relationships can serve as a mental health tool.

What are the downsides of excessive parasocial relationships?

Over-reliance on parasocial relationships can lead to a vicarious lifestyle, where real-life experiences and interactions are replaced by media consumption, potentially hindering personal growth and social development.

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Why does listening to No Stupid Questions feel like you’re hanging out with your best friends? Why did the whole world take it personally when Princess Diana died? And how do “parasocial relationships” affect your mental health?