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Dr. Samuel Wilkinson on Why Life Is a Test of Good and Evil | EP 581

2025/3/6
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John R. Miles: 本期节目探讨了生命意义的议题,以及人际关系在其中扮演的关键角色。我们讨论了社会日益与真实的人际互动脱节,以及这种脱节如何导致更多痛苦。我们还探讨了如何通过有意识地选择和行动来提升生活意义。 Sam Wilkinson: 我分享了我个人的经历,以及我的宗教背景和在耶鲁大学的工作如何塑造了我对生命意义的理解。我挑战了进化纯粹随机的观点,并提出证据表明进化中存在引导发展的原则。我讨论了人类本性的双重性——自私和利他、合作与侵略——以及如何通过做出更好的选择来驾驭这种双重性。我还强调了人际关系对幸福和意义感的重要性,以及生命作为一种在善恶之间做出选择的考验。最后,我提供了将日常行动与更深层次的目标相结合的实用策略。 Sam Wilkinson: 我认为,科技的进步虽然带来了很多好处,但也导致了社会原子化和人际互动减少,这削弱了人们的意义感和目标感。人们常常错误地判断什么能带来快乐,而长久的满足感关键在于牢固的人际关系。家庭关系在其中扮演着至关重要的角色,而婚姻则有助于加强父亲与亲生子女之间的联系。我们应该更多地关注那些微小的选择,因为它们会随着时间的推移而累积,影响我们的性格和发展。我们需要认识到自身存在的弱点,并努力克服它们,而不是专注于他人的不足。

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In this episode of Passion Struck, host John R. Miles sits down with Dr. Sam Wilkinson to explore the profound impact of human connection on our sense of meaning and purpose. Dr. Wilkinson discusses the detrimental effects of our society's increasing disconnection from real human interaction and the overemphasis on individualism that has paradoxically led to more suffering. This conversation delves into Dr. Wilkinson's personal background, particularly the pivotal role his religious upbringing and mission work have played in shaping his career and approach to his work at Yale. Tune in to uncover valuable insights on how intentionality and in-person interactions can help you become the best version of yourself.

Link to the full show notes: https://passionstruck.com/samuel-wilkinson-life-is-a-test-of-good-and-evil/)

Key takeaways:

  • Evidence suggests that evolution is not purely random; patterns in nature indicate guiding principles that shape development.
  • The crisis of meaning is exacerbated by technology, which has led to atomization and disconnection from face-to-face interactions.
  • Affective forecasting shows that people often misjudge what will bring them happiness; strong relationships are key to lasting fulfillment.
  • Family relationships are emphasized as a source of meaning and purpose in life.
  • Micro choices and daily decisions significantly impact long-term happiness and character development.
  • The role of marriage is highlighted as a cultural mechanism to strengthen bonds between fathers and their biological children.

Connect with Dr. Sam Wilkinson: https://medicine.yale.edu/profile/samuel-wilkinson/)

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