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Terri Cole on Breaking Free From High-Functioning Codependency EP 520

2024/10/15
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Terri Cole: 本书探讨了高功能依赖症(HFC)的定义、特征和行为模式,以及如何通过提高自我认知、设定边界和培养自我关注来打破这种模式。作者结合自身经历和临床案例,深入分析了HFC患者的思维方式和行为习惯,并提出了具体的应对策略,例如:进行怨恨清单,练习正念冥想,采用‘让他们做他们想做的事’的策略等。作者强调,高功能依赖症并非软弱的表现,而是边界问题,需要积极主动地改变自身行为模式,才能获得内心的平静和幸福。 John R. Miles: 访谈围绕高功能依赖症展开,探讨了其与传统依赖症的区别,以及在不同类型关系中的表现形式。访谈中,主持人与嘉宾共同分析了高功能依赖症患者的常见行为模式,例如:主动提供建议、过度自我牺牲、自动迎合、预期性计划、过度运作等。同时,访谈也探讨了高功能依赖症患者与自恋者之间的关系,以及如何识别和避免这种关系。最后,访谈总结了摆脱高功能依赖症循环的策略,包括:自我同情、自我关注、设定边界、正念练习等。 John R. Miles: 本期节目重点关注高功能依赖症(HFC),探讨了其定义、特征、行为模式以及与自恋型人格的关系。节目中,嘉宾Terri Cole分享了其在治疗高功能依赖症患者方面的经验,并提出了具体的应对策略,例如:进行怨恨清单,练习正念冥想,采用‘让他们做他们想做的事’的策略等。节目还探讨了高功能依赖症患者如何克服根深蒂固的信念、价值观和行为模式,以及如何建立健康的关系边界。

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In this enlightening episode of Passion Struck, host John R. Miles welcomes back renowned therapist and author Terri Cole to discuss her latest book, "[Too Much](In this enlightening episode of Passion Struck, host John R. Miles welcomes back renowned therapist and author Terry Cole to discuss her latest book, ))." Terri dives deep into high-functioning codependency (HFC) and how it affects our relationships and personal well-being.

Discover the traits of HFC, the reasons behind the compulsion to fix others, and the importance of self-consideration. Terri shares powerful insights and practical exercises to help you break free from the cycle of over-giving and start prioritizing your own needs.

**Full show notes and resources:   **https://passionstruck.com/terri-cole-break-high-functioning-codependency/)

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In this episode, you will learn:

  • The definition and traits of high-functioning codependency
  • How to recognize when you're taking on others' problems
  • Practical steps to cultivate self-consideration and set healthy boundaries
  • The significance of understanding your relational blueprint

Connect with Terri Cole**: **https://www.terricole.com/)

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