Amanda Goetz started her career as a non-traditional marketer at Ernst & Young, which brought her from Chicago to New York City. She then managed a brand for a celebrity wedding planner, David Tutera, where she handled licensing deals, a reality TV show, and a podcast. This experience sparked her passion for multi-channel marketing and led her to launch her first startup, a wedding tech company, in 2011. She later joined The Knot, where she played a key role in transitioning the company from a media company to a two-sided marketplace, focusing on emotionally connective marketing.
Amanda Goetz founded House of Wise after going through a divorce and having three kids under four during the COVID-19 pandemic. She noticed women struggling to balance their lives and created a wellness company centered around gummies that symbolized self-care. The brand focused on empowering women to take control of their sleep, sex, stress, and strength, using gummies as a tool to signal self-worth and prioritize personal well-being.
Amanda Goetz built a strong community around House of Wise by creating a hybrid affiliate program called 'Wise Women.' These women became the backbone of the brand, participating in Slack channels, town halls, and expert sessions on topics like sleep and sex. The community-driven approach was essential, especially since the brand couldn't rely on paid marketing due to its CBD focus. This model allowed members to feel part of something bigger and fostered deep connections among them.
Amanda Goetz emphasizes the importance of intention and transition when balancing multiple roles. She advises focusing 100% on one task at a time (the focus formula) and honoring the transitions between roles, such as shifting from work mode to parent mode. She highlights the planning fallacy (overestimating what can be done in a day) and the urgency fallacy (thinking everything is urgent) as common pitfalls. By setting clear intentions and allowing for transitions, individuals can avoid guilt and shame while managing their various responsibilities.
The biggest mistake people make when building a community is not setting clear boundaries and managing expectations around access to the community leader. Amanda Goetz notes that many community leaders, especially those who are people-pleasers, feel obligated to go above and beyond for members, which can lead to burnout. Establishing boundaries early and ensuring the community is about peer-to-peer connections, rather than just access to the leader, is crucial for long-term success.
Amanda Goetz's approach to emotionally connective marketing involves creating brands that resonate deeply with their audience by focusing on self-love, relationships, and personal growth. At The Knot, she transformed the brand from a transactional wedding platform to one that emphasized emotional connections, even while she was going through a divorce. Her philosophy centers on adding emotion to brands and ensuring they impact the end user in meaningful ways, rather than just being transactional.
The 'hero to host' concept refers to shifting the focus from the community leader being the central figure (the hero) to facilitating connections among members (the host). Amanda Goetz explains that successful communities thrive when members connect with each other, rather than relying solely on the leader. This approach involves creating opportunities for peer-to-peer interactions, such as introducing members with shared interests, and measuring success by the number of meaningful connections made within the community.
Amanda was the former head of brand for The Knot – the global leader in weddings. Previously, Goetz served as a startup founder building availability software for the wedding industry after spending years analyzing companies for Ernst & Young’s Entrepreneur Of The Year program. She also worked for celebrity wedding planner David Tutera as Head of Marketing developing the go-to market strategy for his brands, licensing deals and client partners.
She has built an audience of over 150,000 in the startup and business community, learning to live a life of ambition and success without subscribing to today’s hustle culture. She launched a newsletter called 🧩 Life’s a Game with Amanda Goetz to help high performers learn actionable tips for living a life of intention.
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