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What are the main concerns of the PhD student regarding her career direction?
The PhD student is concerned about whether to pursue a career in internet companies or state-owned enterprises, especially since her academic performance is not strong. She is also influenced by her boyfriend, who is considering job options in Tianjin, where they plan to settle in the next 3-5 years.
Why does the PhD student consider moving to Tianjin?
The PhD student and her boyfriend, both from smaller cities, find the cost of living in Beijing too high. They prefer a northern city and believe Tianjin offers a better quality of life and is more suitable for them.
What advice does the professor give to the PhD student about her career?
The professor advises the PhD student to prioritize her own career development and not be influenced by her boyfriend's desire for stability. She suggests that the student should aim to maximize her potential by staying in Beijing and pursuing opportunities in the tech industry, rather than settling for a lower-paying job in Tianjin.
What is the professor's opinion on the PhD student's plan to switch to a research institute after working in the tech industry?
The professor is skeptical about the PhD student's plan to switch to a research institute after working in the tech industry. She advises the student to focus on making money first and gaining experience in the tech industry before considering such a transition.
What is the professor's view on the PhD student's relationship with her boyfriend?
The professor expresses concern that the PhD student's mindset and career aspirations are being negatively influenced by her boyfriend, who seems to prefer a more laid-back lifestyle. She suggests that the student should reconsider the relationship if it is hindering her personal and professional growth.
What advice does the professor give to the public management student about his career path?
The professor advises the public management student to focus on excelling in his current field and to aim for a PhD if he is interested in a career in academia. She also suggests that he should consider applying for a position at a university or pursuing further studies abroad with a full scholarship.
What is the professor's advice to the student who is considering a career shift to law?
The professor advises the student to stick with his current field of public management, as it offers opportunities for stable employment, especially in government roles. She warns against switching to law solely for better job prospects, as the field is highly competitive and may not align with his interests.
What does the professor suggest to the student who is considering a career in academia?
The professor suggests that the student should aim for a PhD and consider a career in academia, but she also cautions that the student should be aware of the challenges and demands of being a university professor, which may not be as free and flexible as he imagines.
What is the professor's opinion on the student's plan to pursue a PhD while working in a state-owned enterprise?
The professor is critical of the student's plan to pursue a PhD while working in a state-owned enterprise, especially since the student has not yet contacted any potential advisors. She suggests that the student may not be ready for such a commitment and should reconsider his career goals.
What is the professor's advice to the student who is considering a career in academia?
The professor advises the student to focus on excelling in his current field and to aim for a PhD if he is interested in a career in academia. She also suggests that he should consider applying for a position at a university or pursuing further studies abroad with a full scholarship.
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- 互联网大厂与体制内的比较
- 个人发展与伴侣规划的平衡
- 理性看待职业发展与经济因素
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- 如何对博士申请的复试进行准备？
- 读博会是“无聊”工作的出路吗？
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01:36 博士毕业对未来方向感到困惑，受到男朋友的影响，职业方向该如何选择？
12:08 互联网大厂 V.S. 国央企，当下应该怎么选？
21:02 体制内工作半年，不想躺平，对未来的就业和职业发展很迷茫该怎么办？
29:55 进厂之后发现单位发不出工资，要继续在这里吗？
33:17 未来想要从事自媒体，现在应该如何做准备？
37:31 怎么才能不焦虑：不随着自己的收入增加，改变自己的消费水平
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47:37 如何准备博士申请复试？
52:58 地方国企工作中看不到未来的方向，读博会是出路吗？
57:48 公共管理专业在读未来就业方向是什么？