You’ve probably heard the phrase before that “nice guys finish last.” But is there any truth to it? That’s what we’re talking about in today’s show. We’re going to discuss how being overly agreeable has the potential to diminish sex appeal, while also interfering with one’s own sexual pleasure. As my guest today likes to say, nice guys need to learn how to say no sometimes.
I am joined once again by Caitlin V), a sex and relationship coach specializing in helping men overcome sexual difficulties. With over 150MM views on YouTube) and nearly a million subscribers, she has become a leading voice in the field. Her TV show, Good Sex), is available for streaming now on Discovery+ and Max.
Some of the topics we explore include:
What does being a “nice guy” actually mean?
Do nice guys really finish last when it comes to sex and dating?
How do you walk the line between being confident and assertive in the bedroom without venturing into entitlement?
How can men start to embrace their sexual desires more authentically?
You can check out Caitlin’s website) to learn more about her work.
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