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The theme is say less people whose you know you know they could they couldn't tell back little bit before we get into IT though, I want to say one thing, we saw your comments and we fixed this. I don't know in some of the earlier episodes yeah this didn't think up right but now they're perfect. So you know thank you guys for your um for your criticism .
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All right. So they say less. Let's get into IT. Here's our first one. Am I the ashok for telling my girlfriend that it's not a good look to wear her bon in public? no.
喂。 Like how you say that as I am wearing like a version. Obama, basically we .
quickly did a survey, I guess.
So I didn't want to do my hair today. Okay.
there's something about saying saying bonnet ah that. He know I.
A twenty two year old man, have been dating my girlfriend, trinity, a twenty two year old woman, for about a year now. We met in college and have been dating ever since then. For context, I am a White mail, and SHE is mixed with african american and native american onto the problem.
My girlfriends hair is super thick and curly, and he often wears IT in a huge afro or will add extensions every couple of months. SHE spends hours on perfecting IT and has so many hair care products. I don't know how we can differentiate what he needs. I've come with her to the beauty supplies for a couple of times, and I was overwhelmed by how many products he needs in one run, often costing around two hundred dollars or more, depending on what he needs.
I personally only use a bottle of shampoo, conditioner and maybe palm mid on occasion yesterday, SHE ran out of hair for her extensions brads and needed to go on a quick run in order to get more SHE put on some coffee clothes and her bond and told me SHE don't be only out for a max of twenty minutes or so since the stories. And that far away here is where I might be, the asshole. I told her to leave her bond here, and she's only going to be gone for a couple of minutes.
When he asked why, I told her that he looked kind of units together with her born IT on and should wear something like a hat instead. He then said that I was her choice to wear her bona whenever SHE wanted to, and that I didn't know what I was talking about, considering I don't even need to wear one myself. SHE then explained that IT was to protect her hair and the progress you made.
But I don't understand why something like a baseball cap couldn't do the same thing. Since IT protects mine, SHE hoped and said that it's not the same thing. And to worry about myself before telling her what is considered put together or not, he came back around thirty minutes later and continued her hair.
I tried to talk to her, but he gave me the cold shoulder and said that he was focusing. I kind of got frustrated and told her that he was getting upset over nothing. SHE then told me to get out and told me that I have no business and telling her what he can get upset over.
SHE hasn't talked to me since then, but she's posted on social media of her extensions. I tried to call her, but he didn't answer. I think she's blowing everything out of proportion.
It's literally just a bonn IT SHE could have warned something else. M. I, D at all. yeah. yeah.
Where do we start?
My god, we will start with out how long IT takes to get these extensions in. So everyone is on the same, behave. So IT takes IT. First off, let's get up for tune for doing her own extension.
Grading her own hair is .
already a test that not a lot of people are able to do. That cost a lot of mind to get IT done. Our own kiana and this office desperate her own hair and country.
How long does IT take? Twelve hours? yeah. IT takes about twelve hours to break a has .
mentioned she's like, saturday, I brade my hair yeah and I like, oh, okay, like, let and .
that's a whole sunday .
all the whole I SHE .
seemed focus and say, yeah, it's you got a focus you to fuck that partner .
it's bad .
over the part is that you want IT. I never want a baseball cap in about eight years myself because I wrote fit I, I, I don't know. I said.
Take a time, take a time. I don't .
know what had saying, like you and I were not going to wear the same head. And the try not life, we just film. I put a head on buker IT look crazy IT looks IT looks wild because they fit on my head right when you get the extensions.
And he could probably hat, but to quit about a IT is that there's a lot of less. It's a lot of fabric, right, of space, lot space. And you can .
throw with everything.
throw a lot of things in there. So twenty eight makes IT twenty day. why? You just thread all up in there whatever progress you had, you know, because you probably had the whole back and then he had a little top now at the top and he's like, baby, look at what put on the head.
I don't get why he cares so much. Like, you know, she's going out to run errent. Why does he care what he looks like when .
she's going to run? no.
I think the man is bringing up a very clear example of respectability politics. Often times it's basically lake um black women are supposed to um act a certain way to be seen as respect to be as respectable to be seen as like um I guess like inland with society, right. So it's it's um people not wanting like black women who have corn rose in the workplace.
Like if you look at like disney lands old guidelines of lag, what was accepted and what is not, I think that's a good indicator of lag. They're like, oh, no dread logs, no logs. Like things like that. I'm having straight hair is like cut a part of that whole conversation to so .
IT almost like us in this guy. Like what's the difference in a baseball cap on IT and him being like, like there's no difference. They're really like.
yeah one is a culturally tied and one is a baseball hat.
Uh, well, the verdict, the verdict was as well. Uh, everyone else agrees. The first comment I see here is you're the assail.
You're the assessment, are the asso. You're the assault off. No, SHE can't wear something else. Bonus are little designed to protect black hair in a way that others, that other caps cannot.
But besides that, how on earth is that your business? What SHE wears out? And about hell, if he wanted to go out a bikini or in a gray smoke, it's none of your business if you think he looks put together or not.
Jesus Christ, someone, I said you're the assets. First of all, you don't get to tell anyone what they should or shouted where. Secondly, your racism is showing if IT were a White woman wearing a hat, you wouldn't be telling her how on campus he looks.
He responded saying, I really didn't think I was being racist by telling her what I thought wearing abon IT is like wearing pj pants to me, something that you were sleep. If i'm wrong, then I will gladly take the blame, but I had no meaning to harm her. I think getting frustrated with her was wrong, but I sincerely thought I was just telling her what I thought.
I love my girlfriend dearly. I love everything about her, her culture, her hobby, everything I did not mean to hurt her whatsoever. Please let me know what I can do.
Has he ever asked her why he wears you to sleep?
And I am getting the sense that he doesn't ask too many questions. He tells her stuff. There is an edit here, he added IT, saying.
we're not together.
He hasn't come back.
He has not come back. Door, I didn't .
realize that I was being racist. Explanation mark. Explanation mark. I did not mean any harm to her whatsoever, and I really want to make IT up to her.
I feel like a moron for even saying anything about IT, and I overstepped. I do not have the right to say anything about her appearance at all, and I wasn't trying to be controlling either. I really do want to make IT up to her, regardless if we are together or not. By the end of this, there's another edit you .
should get corn rose. Oh my god, like rust, a ferry .
and hair yeah just .
nats edges lots of jail in there. You can get IT nice and tight and it'll stay. And for a while, maybe a week.
he'll be .
bored in a week. Oh no. A the second edit, he goes, thank you for your comments. I realized that I had my head up my eyes, and I plan on educating myself regardless if we end up breaking up or not.
I'm going to the shop he goes to tomorrow to pick up some of the hair products that he uses. So SHE has more of IT, and I will be personally apologizing to her. I really did not know that hair was a part of her culture, as SHE hasn't really brought IT up before.
But now I know i'm going to try and do Better personally and talk to some of my african american friends about helicopter as well to get a Better understanding of the american. I love her so much. I did not mean to hurt her like that. Thank you for helping me understand Better.
Baby, i'm so sorry. Here's some blue magic. I know that you like to use this, and I just, I went to this, I went to the beauty store, I went to the beauty supply, and the woman at the kind of SHE helped me find this. And I I just will love to be back in your life as possible.
Baby, i've got that same moisture for you.
Look, I know I can never understand, but I hope you understand this.
Suggest so this this was posted like only a month ago, just twenty two. Do you think it's acceptable at all for twenty two year old men to not understand something of like this, do not understand that that hair is a huge part of black culture?
Is he in america?
Um yes, i'm assuming because he says because of how often he says african american and name yes yeah yeah.
I think I think he needs to know think is Better twenty two, he's an adult.
Yeah, yeah, I I agree. And also they clearly been together for, uh, they've been together for they've been dating for about a year now, so a whole year.
But he also said he has black friend. He has african american.
Yes, say that he'll be asking them lot of questions like.
so why do you wear your hair like that?
How do you start coming?
I'll tell me your secrets. No, you want to see my here. You you want to see why. You want to see why we wear this. You want to be a secret.
yes. 谁？
谁？ Oh my life 吧。
Something like what you talking about that looks good.
beautiful, beautiful.
looks look .
beautiful. Thank you. I think, you know, like even if he has not had the proper education, I just feel like after a year, you notice, even without the conversation, he should notice this thing and be like, oh like, yeah, this is clearly very important to you yes, notice behaviors you observe your partner and like he just feels like he's been not paying attention .
at all yeah because especially if she's well, if he does her own hair or mean he says that SHE knows as he gets her hair done every couple months so either he's not around when he does IT or SHE kind of like leaves and comes back and it's like, oh my god, so beautiful like and doesn't know thing about the process me one one .
day she's gone. The next day he has grades .
obviously like that. Was that my favorite part of, like getting bread sometimes I was in college, and I remember I had one, a nigeria, over a winter break.
And I came back with a brazen and this girl, I will not name her as he came into the office we are all working and oh my god, IT looks like rope and he was um IT was just after, uh, cheque's video came out like, what is the White women say? A blackwood should I go say? And IT was, we had literally just watched IT and then he came t like, the timing was beautiful, like, you cannot IT was IT was honestly very sweet.
Like, I don't called anything, get there. But the time he came in, right? And I go like, really, because your hair .
is so long. And 这个 i .
agree IT。
I I IT came .
out this way.
came out this way.
That's pretty funny.
You know, the thing to use, like they're so many, like people ask wild questions sometimes, but it's like weeks or have been a thing for a really long time so they to not understand like how a wag works is also, I don't think super like acceptable. I don't need you know how to install a wig, but like there are wigs that are not costume wigs out in this war yeah I also just think like the .
overarching thing and we see and so many stories is like you just don't need to make comments about people's appearance like you don't you don't need to concern yourself with IT like I think that's also the easy out for so much of this. You know he is just was an appropriate and .
like i've feel like it's one thing to like ask questions. Like it's I feel like with your friends like it's okay to ask questions. Like I I some friends I have asked some questions and I gladly will answer the question to my friend. But the part that pisses me off is that he's getting upset of about her reaction because like you also, you don't know, you don't understand why she's upset and now you're upset that she's even she's not giving the time a day like, pick one fuck you this man yeah.
yeah. exactly. All right. Next one, am I the assets for accidentally hijacking my friend's proposal? alright.
okay. So this happened a few weeks ago, and i'm still feeling guilty about IT. I, twenty seven year old woman, have a close friend.
Let's call her sera. She's twenty nine. We've been friends since college, and she's always been there for me through thick.
And then recently, SHE started dating this amazing guy, john, who's thirty, who seemed perfect for her. They've been together for about a year, and IT was evident that they were very much in love. John contacted me secretly, revealing his plans to propose to serve during a romantic weekend and get away.
He was incredibly excited about IT and want everything to be perfect. We exit back and forth, and I could tell how much thought and effort he was putting into IT. I was honor to be the confidence for this special moment.
Fast forward to the weekend, and we all arrived at this pictures. Cb, in the woods, the atmosphere was magical, and the scene was set up for the proposal. We spent the day expLoring the surrounding nature, and in the evening, sereni headed back to the cabin to fresh ing up while john pretended to be busy with something else.
While sa was getting ready, I thought I would be fun to surprise with a little princess em prank. I sneakily grabbed the ring from john's bag, thinking i'd playfully pretend to propose to our, and then she'd see the real deal when john pop the question. So when Sarah came out of the bathroom, I got down on one knee and with a joking smile, I said, Sarah, will you marry me to my horror series? Face turned pale and SHE seemed genuinely confused and upset SHE stammered out of confused.
What as john, who is standing behind her with the ring box in hand, looked modified? I genuinely didn't mean the cosy harm. Should I do anything else to make IT up to them? Or is IT best to give them space help? 呃。
That is an interesting situation.
So the account was suspended. So there's no nothing else and we're not get anything else from that. Oh, my. Look， I love a good prank. But to literally take the ring is, is that bold?
Yeah, it's what is that what the what are the kids saying these days? Pick me energy. Is that? Is that IT? It's very much lake. You just can't .
sit down and .
let her have her gotten moment. Who's cuss me? You, no, this is the time for me to my new print because I want na be in the because I was single last speech. Someone single last, but to another IT was not the right time.
And this way we come fresh.
Don't get.
The wing, I really like the her use of accidentally in her title for this when IT doesn't feel very accidental. A one of the top comments is you're the assets. You didn't accidentally do anything.
You went through someone else's belongings knowingly to do something that was not yours to do your way. Someone else said you're the assets. That's an epically stupid way to end a friendship. Last is someone said SHE seen jealous is that her friend found an amazing guy and wanted to find a way to rule in the whole thing for her.
Yeah, I feel like that something worth having a fight over, I would like, you know, take her .
outside and fighter.
I don't know, allegedly.
哎。 I would be shocked if, like, this is a singular event from this person. I would be shocked like I feel like this stuff happens every time, every step of the way.
Oh, there's a comment from A P. I can assure you i'm going no contact with them for about a month or so. I believe this would heal heavy wounds. I think that no contacts problem last long.
And then there's an obvious lying you're not supposed across when IT comes to like purpose special, someone like tells you about the proposed and made definite across that.
Have I the'd ever been the confident and someone's proposal?
Now i've never seen a proposal in your life for.
yes, yes, I mean, not the confident, but like i've been a part of a surprise proposal for and when I say, I said, tell me where to go, when to go, where to be because i'm not about to be the one that is the one crossing. Like I said, i'll be early, not on top like I was like, I don't want to be crossing the street at the wrong time where it's like why why is jacky at this at this museum at six P M on on thursday, I was like, i'm not about to .
I would be terrified of somewhat if I had to be part of like a plane. I haven't, but i'd be terrified. Like, ah, I would question all of my acting ability.
I think i'd go out the window. I'd be screwed. I'd probably overact like shit and i'd like, wow, what's up, Bobby? Hi, should I go the party I would ruin IT, accidentally, accidentally. Yes, actually.
Thankfully, like when I was involved with my friends surprised proposal, like SHE, SHE lives in the east coast. So we had like, caught up in ali. And then SHE had faced him, her sister, because I am close with their family, SHE left the restaurant or at, and then her sister called me like the proposal happening. And I think god tell me, like there for an hour, was to be like, so let's me so how does they.
how are your rings? How are your fingers feeling today?
Oh, then your now set is trash. Girl.
you, yeah, for no reason.
Get a feel. Go like, i'm glad to be really me. Uh, so so far we have two people .
who could have just not said or done something and they couldn't .
show up in general, Frankly.
right? Let's go out of this next one. This comes from a relationship advice. This is twenty nine year old woman, ah, my girlfriends tricked me into breaking up with the one that got away, thirty old men eight years ago. I have an opportunity to reconnect with him now, should I? How long go eight years ago?
How does he get tricked?
Yeah.
are very sorry. I'm so, so. Like that can be IT.
Let me guess. I knew boat, not real name, a thirty year old month. Since we were both eleven years old, we both grew up in a small town, and our families were, and we became very close friends.
We were the next door neighbor, best friends, that started dating in our junior year of high school. He took me to prom, to homecoming dance, and we both picked a college that was in the state that had majors who were both interested in him. I, our family's friends, our preacher, everyone expected us to get married when we went off to college.
The college went to with three hours from our town, and IT was closer to a major city in our state, about a half an hour from a big, from the big city. And IT was a bit of a culture shock for the two of us. Bohai issues at first, making new friends.
But I sort of job with with the gales and class. My new friends didn't think much of bow. They kept telling me I could do Better than bow.
They thought bow was a slow widget. He's not. He's just shy with new people.
They thought he was too religious. He never was in their faces. He asked only once if they could recommend a church in the area.
They said, bow would just pull me back down to our small town. Anker me with children, and we both be stuck as hicks. Oh.
we hold up. No, right?
No, i'm just written IT. IT reached the boiling point on my twenty first birthday. Two of my girlfriends came to me claiming they saw boat cheating on me.
They were stone face. They kept to their stories, and I foolishly believed them. I confronted bow and started screaming at him.
Boat didn't apologize. He didn't big and plead. Instead, he got cold in mad.
He said that he never trusted my friends and that they were playing me. And he thought I was Better than this. I didn't believe him, and I let him walk away.
He promised that if I took their word without even looking at them critically, that we were over and he kept his word from that day, he wouldn't even look at me. He wouldn't talk to me. He wouldn't acknowledge existed for the rest of college.
He never dated anyone. He just worked, went to class and graduated early. My friends, they set me up on a ton of dates. I had a bit of a wild college ride, something I am a bit ashamed of. Now, honestly, once I graduated, I tried to get established in life, but my college friends, they'd kept just wanting to hang out, chill or party IT honestly got tiring. And I couldn't believe I had the energy to do this for nearly four years while getting an education.
IT was when I was twenty three that one of the girls called me a stick in the mud and said something along the lines of, I can't believe we went through the effort of breaking you up with bow if you were just going to become a wolf. Our I couldn't believe IT SHE went into detail about how easy IT was, and I felt disgusted. I didn't give bow another thought after the breakup, I thought he was a cheater, and I told my family who told his family and its strange, his relationship with his mom for many years.
But after that point, I couldn't stop thinking about him. I told my family the truth about what happened with bow. This apparently helped repair the relationship.
Bow head with his mother. Apparently boys mom liked me quite a bit. And SHE went out of her way to sabotage bose relationship with any girl he brought over to meet the parents.
My mom said bose bomb did IT very discretely. But after finding out the truth, bozo omb came clean and bow nearly cutter out of his life. He apparently bag completed and was able to work from a work from there.
I have many unfinished draft of emails to both, some saying, I wish to catch up. Others begin for pleating for him to come to take me back. But any news I got on bow after the block with his mom has been sparse.
Boat doesn't do social media, and I had no idea where he lived. I found out this year that boy has been married for three years and has a two year old sun. He has moved back to our hometown.
And I saw at the grocery store when I went to visit my parents two weeks ago, he didn't see me, or at least I think he didn't. But there he was with his wife and child, and I instantly felt a sword of emotions, jealousy, rage, regret, depression. Even now, seeing him with his full family, I still want to beg in for a chance, which makes me feel awful.
But at the same time, I feel like I should at least say my piece. I talk to my mom about IT, and all he said was, the chickens come home to roost. Don't make trouble for bow.
I just know that if I can't talk to both one last time, I will regret IT for the rest of my life. What should I do? Should I contact bow?
I have watched this episode. A girl.
more girls like this is fully very .
gossip girl, yeah.
And my personal take on this is just like, hey, you fucked up big time years ago and you're twenty two and that's that guy that the you screwed over and that didn't work out with. He doesn't exist anymore that's a completely new person yeah there's been eight years that not the same person but she's not even saying like he wants to go to apologize. She's coming from a place she's coming from a place of like, oh, like I got to see my piece and see if like this can work and like, no, you're still thinking .
about yourself.
Maybe he leave his wife and son.
I want to know if he is still friends with these friends.
IT sounds like not. Yeah, that sounds like after they kind of like detail IT sounds like they were like we went all the to the trouble of breaking up with your boyfriend and all you are as a lane person like that we hate. I don't know it's it's movie level ridiculous, but those people exist.
I think this top comment really sums up up pretty well. They say in quotations, I have an opportunity to reconnect. How do you figure? Because I don't think that you do, which I also think it's like he is not responded to you. You saw at the grocery store once, no, you don't. He clearly does not want .
to talk in a small town at the grocery store. Look and stars. Hello, everybody knows when someone is back in town. Okay, look, if he don't want to see you, he knows you're back. He don't want to see.
yeah.
stars, it's gonna go back .
to start is all i've see .
this show is not OK someone else. I found out this .
year that bow has been married for three years and has a two year old sun. And that's where you need to leave IT. Seriously, he had people on both sides sabotage his relationships for so long.
Your friends, his mom, and at this point, your desire to seek another go with him will be more of the same. He's married, he's settled. He has a family.
While that happened, there's no one doing IT. And at this point you must deal. And someone else said, both mom is terrible. Your friends were terrible. You were terrible leaving alone I guess yeah, i'm of the mindset that like especially eight years ago, but past relationships, it's like whether however you feel about IT, like unless it's unless there's some secret that they don't know that maybe they're still haunted by that you need to go to be like just so you know this and apologized about this maybe but situations like this is like you got ta just walk away like, yeah, that's life.
That's how IT goes. You fucked up. You just got to eat IT.
And also but also I feel I feel like he was like this is if you believe these friends like this is me, this is so this, like, this is a test, right? Like, you're showing me your character and SHE failed the test, right? Like, let OK, let's say, like a divorce happens, right?
Like he is back on the market. Like that trust is absolutely broken. Like, gone.
I think he thinks he broke up with him and I think as you're saying in that moment he was like, oh, I I don't love you. I don't love this person. I'm done and I think she's comprehended now like.
he don't want .
her exactly.
There is an update .
though god.
so we're a hell is hot in here.
Are you okay today?
No.
I email ed bow last night. I'll put the content here. No email since is an email I will be put in, uh, punch since that's very important.
high. Boo, it's me. amy. explore. mark. I know it's been years since we talked, and I wanted to apologize for how we broke up period.
I also wanted apologize for how to spread back to our families period. I know now that traces, stephane were helped on breaking us up anyway. They could, and I can't begin to apologize for the heart IT has caused you.
I'll be back in town in a few weeks and was wondering if we could have a coffee and catch up. I want to know it's been going on with you in your life a period this morning. I got to apply from bow.
amy. I want you to know that I have forgiven you years ago. I hope you are doing well, but I would have to say no to coffee or catching up.
My wife and I have a strict rule that neither of us hanging out with exes. I hope you understand. Then I tried to nAiling him to say, he could for sure bring his wife with him, but he's not replied since I guess you're right.
There was no chance to reconnect. Yeah, yeah. I feel like that it's always I think it's more devastating when, like you can tell, he is so gone. There is no emotions. There's no rage. No.
it's .
different. It's like a that almost feels like a business email. Just like, sorry.
I can make the meeting. You know though the thing about IT is like SHE is reach. She's not reaching out for him.
She's reaching out for her healing because he's clearly he'd and moved on. It's her like that's why she's being persisted. yes. Like SHE is unsettled with IT in her spirit and so like he needs to record like you will bring your wife and like that thought about him.
then it's about you exactly.
Like you got a, you need to do that without involving him exactly.
I like, you know, I realized I like because he doesn't know that he he may not know that he is in town. He doesn't know that he saw him.
Are they are hello .
he sure but I do like that. He in this very in this very short email, he like included like my wife yeah like he made a sure to like communicate that to her and even still she's like A. Fighter of talk ture.
I just, I just wanted to say this .
makes her SHE drinks the wine. Yes, I just .
wanted to say, hi susie. I am so sorry. I loved you for all of those years, that decade I love and i'm so sorry about our love. I don't feel feeling anymore, but I just wanted to know there is a chance, like i'll always be here, but you have such a beautiful family and I feel so much Better.
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twenty two if you think it's ready is the .
place to figure IT out you're gona get tracked OK I twins you got I feel like .
I feel like in my thirties, I can say with a lot of confidence that if anything that you post when you're twenty to twenty two win, you're thirty year you're going to be like I just I can. We got hundreds .
of videos.
anything?
Oh my god. But if you post enough, maybe some of the things just get buried. You know, like you just got to keep. You always have to post so much.
I have a whole twitter account.
How to get rid?
I say, let me delete old girl is is a messing here? Get IT out. Just get IT.
Here we go. I twenty two year old woman, and my brother, a twenty year old men, are attending different colleges, but they're both in the same city on classmates with this guy, twenty two. Let's call him David.
He's really handsome, fit in, smart, but also quite the player most. My female friends have had one night stands with him, and there are rumors going around about him sleeping with half the college, including some of the teachers. So imagine my surprise when I found out that my brother started dating him.
He hasn't kept a secret that he's by and that he experimented with guys before. But I seriously didn't expect that my brother of all people, would be his, to be his type. I seriously thought they were going to break up pretty fast, as David doesn't seem like the type to settle down easily.
But surprisingly, he and my brother are still together after over half a year, and my brother has become really annoying during this period. Prety much always doing now is gush about David and act like he's the best thing since slice bread, not to mention how he's following him like a puppy, whatever they go together to an event. Yesterday was my brother's birthday, and he once again kept praising David, this time about his cooking skills.
Apparently he made him a special dinner in birthday cake, which I said that seemed cheap, and it's kind of worrying that his own boyfriend doesn't want to spend money on him. My brother intervened and said that he never really liked the material gifts for his birthday. And he's so glad that David picked up on that and he was willing to put so much effort to make him make his birthday truly special, which really made him hopeful about their future together.
I, however, wasn't impressed until my brother that he should hold his horses and that David isn't the type to settle down and he's probably just an experiment to him. My brother asked me what the hell I was talking about, and I told him about how he used to sleep with pretty everyone in college before they started dating, and that there are even rumors about him sleeping with teachers just to keep his great high. And considering that his grades haven't lowered since they started dating, I would be on guard around him if I was in his place.
My brother went silent and very much stopped talking with me for the rest of the day. But at night I got a message from David telling me to stop spreading fake rumors about him and to stop trying to sabotage his relationship with my brother. However, I don't really think I was doing any of that. All I did was just warn my brother about the possibility of getting misled by David down the line, but David doesn't see things that way and thinks i'm actively trying to sabotage them. So I the assets for expressing my concerns to my brother.
Yes, it's not about you. The fact that he added that he thought I was cheap .
situation is like.
okay.
what an in sae response, what the same response to? Yeah, he baked an entire cake for me. What a cheap mother .
fucker want to buy a cake?
He doesn't to buy a cake from rf, yeah, for you. And Bakery right there .
have a job. He had a cake. Wow, also SHE just ds, SHE sounds a little Better, be honest. SHE sounds, sounds litter .
and SHE .
sounds like he also wants to. David.
The top coming here is here the asso. I think you want David SHE responded, why would I want him? I can .
easily get someone much Better than him. She's that. SHE said David sly with half the campus, but he said with me.
that's true. He's up with everyone Better.
He's up with all of my friends.
Oh.
my god, I know you wants to fuck my brother. I.
Did someone else said you're the assets, unless you're friends that have definitely hooked up with David told you he's a jerk? All you have is wild speculation. Also, get your head out of your ask about the birthday gift making.
Dinner and cake is special. The monetary value has nothing to do with that being a thoughtful expression, SHE responded. They didn't tell me that, but they disagree with me that David acting very friendly with the teachers even further with them, with some of them. So of course, they're going to be some .
suspicions there. Okay, you're in college. You've got to get A A somehow, you know, mean.
yes, I saw him. He communicated with his teacher. Yeah.
kind of a yes, kind of no. Sometimes you got to be, look, you catch more bees with IT with honey. That what is that?
You catch more flies with honey. You catch more bees with honey. Sometimes got to give some people Better, honey.
that's what you do. And cause you ve got to smooth the professor because they will. Sometimes I just change great because they like you so much.
So entire .
professor, i've just been having a really hard time. What nice time you have on today. I just need another day and .
then SHE saw that she's like.
they're fuck are you? Yeah just day there's .
someone else said you're the aswell. You heard a rumor and unsubstantial rumor about him sleeping with his teachers for grades and you just decided that it's gospel. What is wrong with you?
Are you jees that he didn't want to hook up with you? Is that why you're slandering him to your brother? SHE responded, all i'm doing is looking out for my brother, and that's just because he has his head way up in the clouds around this guy to do IT himself.
Let the boy have a honeymoon face.
My god.
he's twenty. yeah. What about what you worry about?
What does the kids say? Lot of we've also .
been together for six months. David. David didn't like this guy. He would not be with him like IT IT seems like no IT seems like it's working out here and she's passed its working out. Yeah okay.
Next one, I, A thirty old man, regret telling my girlfriend, twenty six old woman, all my pet peeves towards our relationship and her, uh, so this was posted on relationship advice and also posted on, am I the x? Uh, M I D X is a subset for people that stories are crossed, posted up to there of people who do not realized they've already been broken up with. So like they are unaware that the relation is over.
And oh, so he's asking for a relationship advice and he's not in a relationship. Okay, so here we go. My girlfriend ve been dating for eight months now.
She's great and a wonderful person. It's just something SHE does that pieces me off a today, my bottle up emotions made her cry while he was on the phone with me. SHE ended the call by saying SHE had to do something, but I knew deep down I heard her feelings.
Once I start ranting about something, I just can't stop. Just understand, this is my first serious relationship. Here's what I told her.
I hate how you sleep till the moon on a saturday. I'm not a morning person, but ten am is the latest. If i'm going to do something, i'd rather do IT in the morning.
So we, so we have all day doing whatever. Your child was hungry and I decided to try to wake you up. But no, you couldn't be bother.
You kept sleeping on a saturday, so I gave her cereal. You didn't even get up and make breakfast for me and your child. I'm tired of our boring routine.
I want a sex field weekend. Get away without your child there. You know, last week we had sex twice.
We used to do IT six or seven times a week. But you stopped after I have my field. Then we can start having family vacations.
I'm so.
so yeah, I need to take a break up that first six, A, A, A. Is that done? Uh, you need a Better job. I'm so hard on you because I care. I want to make you a Better person.
He won't really quite asked me, do you think i'm not a good person? I tried to rex plain my sentence, but I heard her crying. Instead of listening to her, I kept going.
You make excuses. You always have your child around and you don't work with your family to coordinate anything. You can saying, yeah, eight months.
You keep saying my family is too busy on weekends. I hear excuses. Why don't you ask them or ask the child's dad side for help? The child doesn't know her dad.
She's not close to her family. I know I heard her really bad. I tried to make IT up by telling her our sex field, we can get away.
We can go anywhere that is in one hundred mile radius. She's just not talking to me. What should I do? What should I do to make IT up to her? I care about her.
I do, but I just get so frustrated with her actions. Um so that's where that one is. If it's like .
that eight months in.
妹妹 哄 你 下来。
she's wants to sleep till noon on a saturday and SHE and he has a child that eat cereal, not just like that, can't get the little things that, the little details. This is a child that can't get its own cereal. And so a small child OK yeah and he's upset that he has to get up and make cereal for himself and the .
baby yeah.
okay, okay and he's upset that okay. And this man is thirty.
He is thirty years old, but he did offer that they could go anywhere in our one hundred mile radio .
and have that .
so he could have this film. Yeah, that's a razor crazy. That's cr, I just have .
sex until I have my fill with my hole.
I exact he sexually frustrated that.
so just started ranting at her. We twenty a week.
we use our sex six or seven times a week without sex every day of the week. Now it's only two and not on .
saturday. man. I. Your kid.
I am a man that needs have with the woman updating every day.
I also need breakfast. Yes, and I wake up at six a, give me breakfast and hole.
It's crazy.
Eight months. And that's someone's said.
did you plan to say all these things together and like that? Uh, he said, no, I didn't. IT was just in the moment when I was angry at the world. I generally did not mean to say any .
of this to her, because his rock very blue, you know? Yeah, I was like here to someone .
else caught what we're talking about. After I have my fill, then we can start having family vacations. This, this is fucking disgusting.
SHE is not a toy for you to use until you're satisfied. She's not a machine who is obligated to dispense however much sex you want. I hope he sees sense and doesn't come back to you. There is no advice here to be had because you shouldn't be in a relationship with a woman at all when you view them as nothing more than flesh lights .
for your convenience or not a fleshlight someone .
else that I don't think redit can help because you don't seem to be a very good boyfriend. Then someone said, there is a reason why this poor girl was your first serious relationship when you are thirty years old. Oh, is that he?
Did he say that? Yeah, the first thirty eight months. I'm still not over that months. And I start, oh my god, there are so many layers. yeah.
Oh god.
yeah. sorry. Yeah, IT doesn't .
seem like he's prepared to date anyone, certainly not someone with a child.
No, no.
because he also seems like a baby himself.
Yes, he sounds like he wants his mom. White is the sex part. This is not at a piss, rex, is that the one?
Is that IT? Is that? Yeah, so I look, I I don't want appear inside this guy's mind at all.
I think I am. So we get to appear to IT.
Yeah, i've had my fill of this man.
I think so.
I think I think we're done. okay. So this next story comes from, uh, no stupid questions. Now this is a subway where people, the point of IT is like you get to ask very blant questions, maybe dumb questions, and no one's going to shame you for asking .
that question OK. And we want .
either will try.
Should I tell my co worker, her boyfriend is on grinder?
Wow.
we all work together and are all friends. I didn't immediately know, but I suspected he was up to something, and his girlfriend has two. Last night, I got underived proof in the form of pix.
I stopped chatting because I didn't feel comfortable continuing. He doesn't know IT was me because my pigs don't have my face and my tattoos are obscured to ensure stuff like this doesn't get back to me. Workplace friends with benefits ended bad before.
Don't want drama, but I feel bad for my friend. Should I try to tell her discretely? Should I just stay out of IT edit for clarification?
The profile doesn't have his picture. IT is Blake with basic information, as is mine. This is Normal on grinder.
The pictures I received our explicit, so I don't believe they are cat fish picks and I cannot share them legally or ethically. They are both monogamists and have a close relationship publicly. Well, that could be a private situation between them.
I don't believe IT is for a multum reasons. I believe the best course of action would be to pass along the message anonymous ly as not to involve myself. They've had a lot of problems before, mostly around the threat of cheating, rather than anything significant or proven, like talking to other female co workers too often or hugging male friends too long. So I believe a simple note will be enough. I mean.
are they close .
friend say he says at the top, we all work together and are all friends and he does say, I don't don't want driver but I feel bad for my friend right up so I don't know if it's super close friends, but friends.
I feel like he needs to tell her. But I can be anonymous .
like I like tell her .
straight up .
but probably a .
little or if not that .
then he needs to not maybe he needs to threaten the boyfriend what not thread, but like he needs to give potentially the boyfriend .
and opportunity .
to to talk to is interesting that I I A.
A ounds like a give you the Operator talk to her because I I will so we have some some more .
info in the comments here. Are you certain that he isn't aware of this already? And into IT, uh he said, uh, no and I have considered that it's kinda and open secret that he's a little by curious but they never talk about anything like that someone who said you should tell ler, however, be prepared that SHE may lash out shooting the messenger and all that.
Hopefully you will be grateful though he said, yeah, this is exactly why I am so hesitant on IT someone i'll said, maybe he's just looking for drugs. He said, really don't think so. We have the same weed plug, and you don't usually talk about hooking up or send explicit photos of your cell phone looking for a plug.
Can you find a plug on ground?
You can find everything on grinder. Like the black market or items um the comment .
here uh so you saw him on the APP, but you weren't messaging him ah he responded I was messaging a mostly empty account. It's very common to not put pictures on your profile and talk before sharing info like that. I didn't know with him until we agreed to share pix.
Mine didn't include my face or tatus. He did. So kiana did some research and he looked at this guy's profile. Turns out he works at a mire. They all we're going to morg they we're going to morg.
So in the morning where see you got up, you brought up gilmour girls and now we get to bring up six feet under and so we're hitting all the shows um do you do anything? Not no updates. So hopefully I hope .
somebody .
is I get his hesitation. Yeah, there's a body that's been found and that's not important and that's a Normal work day. Yeah okay, break IT in.
All right. Next story here. Am I the assemble for telling my fiance say SHE looked weird on our wedding night?
Go down down.
go V O K. okay. Uh, me, a thirty two year old man, of course. A i've a been dating sera twenty nine for over two years. I love red to death and SHE means the world to me. Also, SHE is a person who is comfortable with her skin and doesn't use a lot of makeup, which I really adore about her. And we always tell the truth to each other no matter what.
Okay, lisa key.
Yesterday was our wedding, and the moment I saw her there, I was shocked. SHE used a huge amount of makeup that I barely recognized her without hearing her voice. SHE saw my facial expression that I was acting a little out of the ordinary.
And he asked me what's wrong. I told her that it's nothing. But SHE looked a little weird with all that makeup on her face.
SHE tried to laugh IT off and started talking to her other friends. To be honest, that moment I really didn't think I said something wrong, especially SHE didn't say anything. However, when we went home, SHE started to give me the cold shoulder treatment.
I told her what's wrong, and he said it's nothing, and SHE doesn't feel well and he is tired. Eeta, to be honest, I think she's hiding something. And that got me wondering if what I said may be the reason. So am I idea? Ask her.
Yes, I feel like to say a little weird was too much you could say, oh, i'm not used to seeing you with all this make up you I never .
say I don't see you like this that off and the grade like also.
I feel like he's downplaying that it's their .
wedding day that is a very good point.
Like let's not for like you like he was a little tired after the wedding that they plan. They probably put a lot of money into .
the public makeup chair.
Yeah, i'd paid a lot of money for the wedding.
Make a yeah, he could have look like.
oh, that's right. Yeah.
oh, yeah.
yeah and then if, oh, if he told me that on our wedding day you look out of weird. And like, will death do us part SHE .
does one of the princess Diana wedding you wanted?
These are also, you get in all this makeup for photos, photos that you will have forever, that you will hopefully pass on to your children and your grandson. That and be like that will be what people remember you for. And he's saying, you look a little weird.
You like, that sucks and just really sucks. I feel like all that matters is if she's feeling good, like if SHE is, if she's love and how SHE looks, then it's like, who cares? Like but he just clearly seems super a uh a unaware of everything.
I feel like, okay, this is not all men. There is men of you add not all, then there's something about men and weddings and they get really weird around them. Is what thirty year old female here?
Excuse me, thirty one. There's something like it's the excessive drinking because they're super freak out. It's the, it's the this is my wife forever like so were my like of sexual. There's something about like men start acting really good of you run weddings but that you had a while we've been gage for. However, like I don't know, it's just I don't understand IT IT doesn't compute to .
me yeah I mean, I truly don't know what to say other than like, I guess what I could see that a lot of guys do is that men, I think, very often internalized a lot thoughts, right? So there's probably a lot going on in his head. So he probably isn't thinking about so much because he's probably got a lot going on in his head.
So he's saying really dumb things that if you thought about for one second, here you go. Oh, I should not say that, but he's almost not present. IT feels like a little bit yeah, but we have some comments here.
You're the assets. I find IT hard to believe you barely recognize your wife. SHE was the one in the wedding dress, he said.
He said, I meant IT as a metaphor that her face was totally different. Someone said you're the assets on the day. She's meant to feel beautiful and stunning and desirable to her new husband.
You pull a funny face and told her he looked weird. What if city start to a marriage? Poor sera.
He said, I didn't mean IT as if SHE isn't beautiful. I meant IT. It's just out of the ordinary. Since he never uses makeup, someone said, you definitely could have worded that Better. No one wants say you look weird on their wedding night, especially when you're expecting to feel beautiful and in love. SHE probably felt ugly for the rest the day and he said, I didn't mean he looked ugly. I meant it's different only yeah, but he doesn't know that like, yeah, like it's the day after their wedding and he's on redit typing this up and asking editors about this it's like, dude, yeah what like he .
has not they have not consented that marriage.
I also, you know, what makes me sad for the two is like, I feel like when I feel like you want to look good for your partner on your wedding day, right? So SHE was probably also very intentional about, like this is going to make me feel good and he's gonna love IT, right? Or it's like, oh, he loves my hair up or down or and also I feel good, right? Like I at least like from my perspective or that's what I would take into consideration. Like i'm also like presenting myself to my husband and so it's like great to put all this work in and like you're in the thousands of dollars dress and then for you.
like I know your I know yeah, devastating.
Yes.
not all man. Someone else said not all man.
yeah. Uh.
so there's an edit from the op said, thank you everyone. I rise how I totally fucked up and how my comment was misinterpreted. I will apologize to her and try .
to fix things a man, right?
Being a and go have sex.
Yeah, yeah. Go get your fill feel we'll see if any story can be worse than that guy.
that is a nightmare. But .
football, who ball that was before we certainly making these these youtube videos was a long time ago. Let us let us know in the comments if you want to stree visit some stories from back when we to do these on live streams, because pootty all. But although that was beyond ash le, that's a full on nightmare.
criminal. You guys have to call and down below. If you want to see football, we will read IT. All right.
here we go.
Am I the assets for yelling at my wife after SHE blow up my phone with calls because of a fire?
This was posted yesterday.
what? Not all, man.
that sentence played out in my head as I read this.
Just the yelling part got me. And why? You really yellow?
人， there's a fire the house suffered.
Stop yellow. Why fuck did you got me some time to tell me to the fire? Call the fire department.
Okay, listen, we can go anywhere in a hundred mile radius.
Right, thrown away .
because some of this made local news. And I don't want IT connecting back to me.
So too late. This is read IT.
Yeah, they can research. I work in a place where we are not allowed to have personal electronics on us at all, no phones, no smart watches, no pages. I've been working here for about six months, so my wife knows this and understands that we should not try to contact me by cell at work.
Phones are dropped off in our lockers that I typically have mine on. Do not disturb. Before this incident, my phone had never gone off in the locker before.
Recently, there was a pretty big fire at a secondary work site that I do work at occasionally, but that day I was working at the main building. Local news covered the fire before I found out about IT, because, again, no electronics, plus the work we do, ice lakes us a bit. So news travels pretty slowly.
There were a few casualties, a lot of seriously injured folk. My wife had been watching the news from home and started freaking out. I guess.
I guess .
he wrote, I guess um he called me twenty freaking times, which and I did not know this was possible over road my dnc and my phone was rained for a while in my locker. In the middle of my shift, I got called into my manager's office and was chewed up and written up from my phone, making so much noise, they told me to go take care of whatever IT was making my phone go off before I went back to work. I won't lie.
When I saw those twenty years calls from my wife, I was seriously pissed off. Like I said, he knows not to try to contact me directly and a cityut my chances of getting a razor promotion. I called her back and he was sopping and asking me if I was OK.
I said, of course, I was okay and asked, what the fuck was wrong with her to call me so many times. SHE was still crying and started talking about the fire. After that, I started half yelling at her about all the reasons that was done of her to call me.
When I got home, SHE was super upset with me. I apologize for yelling, but he refused to talk. She's been very chilly the past few days and is sleeping in our daughter's room.
I know IT was not the best decision to yellow her, but I still think my anger is justified. One, SHE knows I don't work in the secondary works, like very often. Two, he knows that I can be contacted directly, and he could have just called the office.
Three, twenty causses. Absolutely insane. Am I the assets? He knows that to work there very often. So there was a chance .
that I died .
yeah a first really quick. I just want to say also the assails is the boss that they you had employees die that day and you're like, hey man, your wife worried yeah .
you're get .
rid of up to yeah .
yeah it's stupid behavior twenty times .
also not that much if you think your partners dead fully dead from a fire yeah i'm guessing like some type of oil .
rig IT sounds like a fuck .
up IT ounds like a fuck up job where they don't respect it's something like that where they do not respect to you because that's crazy um I know .
nothing about mining. I think I was sorry. I just realized .
that was like what is something that sounds that sounds like I could be an oil rig? I don't know for for sure but just the type of job and the type of things that sounds like that he on a route here silent mode exists um which is true yeah but I also just think like my initial take on this is if if you people like IT was a serious fire yeah like yes she's sorry. SHE went through trauma that day like he was SHE all the office because he thought her husband was on fire. Like, you know, you're not going to think straight for a second there.
I used to call my mom, my mom. My mom is a nurse. Car for this just dump like, mom, where is this thing and it's like she's absolutely with patience like .
think yeah color blue did IT .
yeah I will come in for and he was never mean to me about IT like I just is just I mean you think rah lady especially if you see people literally die like obvious just yeah my dad is an airway engineer you can bring his phone to .
work here there so I have to call the office if you ever emergency but that he's relate to me that over over again but there's still times i'm calling him like mid David like White and picking up so yeah didn't have a on here yes yeah with .
cell phones the way they are now. I just feels I don't know we don't maybe don't view them as like the news necessary device that they are maybe at work at some of these jobs. I almost think though, with probably the job that he has, I think it's that they're like they're like they're going to slack on the job of the of their phones like make him lock away I mean stuff like oil riggs. They they don't .
treat like a person and also like .
distractions and cause accidents yeah yeah, like a fire. This is a, it's like scarey, severely dangerous jobs. Someone wrote, yes, you're the assets and so is your employer.
If something happens to your wife or daughter, how the fuck would they reach you? Would you make your little scene because you ve got called about IT too? SHE was stressed and crying. SHE panicked for a good time. But no, instead of we assuring her, you took your frustration out on her and thought, uh, half felt sorry will change something.
She's right to be pissed SHE cares about your safety and SHE might feel like you don't care about hers now, he responded, if he was an actual emergency and my wife and daughter were in trouble, I would have dropped everything and went to them. This was not an actual emergency. I just also .
won't been Better. SHE showed up, yeah, with the child at the worksite at the fire. Come to the fire and are they on .
the water? Where are they? Info is there is some kind of worksite number SHE could have called instead like, I understand her fear, but I have to feel like if the first ten calls on your cell didn't go through, then there must have been other options besides keeping keep calling the cell, especially if somewhere you only work very occasionally.
He is one of yes, SHE could have easily googled the company's name and the phone number there would have eventually connected her with my building so he could could ask me if he really felt he needed to and he said, weight, so you didn't even give her the number that he could call sh'd have to google IT herself. So in any emergency, since SHE absolutely cannot reach you by cell, you told her to google the number instead of giving her the correct person to call. Yeah, I do think your work sucks, but you also screwed up.
Yes.
yeah this guy is not I just it's within the context of hand being like yeah people died today and a luck or injured and it's like it's like, yes, so you understand the severity in the reality of this yeah but he doesn't seem to um wow that's crazy. I wonder how he would have felt.
He just didn't call at all, honest.
Yeah you didn't call me. You were people .
died at the right aren't 好。 I guess you didn't. I think he's upset modest employer and like how do that job is and he's taking me out on his wife. Maybe, or I don't know.
maybe I no, no. I think that I think that could be part of IT too. Like worth talking hypotheticals. I think his initial reaction is still weird to me, because I also wonder that makes me wonder what else yells about, mean, because like this thing, this is the thing that like IT is is not the math and math and like this man is.
I is right and sorry, he's not very emotionally mature here because he's mad about the consequences that he faced that day is but he's not thinking about like what her intentions or what the reality of what he did was but he's blaming her for what happened to him it's like but he wasn't of course he doesn't want course he wants you to get a raise. Man, she's your wife like, know you're in this together. Like I guess IT does also make up me question if he was at home with the kids and he was at her job, if there was ever a situation where he was somewhere and the potential that he was in severe danger and possibly died, how he would react um because this shines him in the light that he is not a very caring person in that he would show .
up to the job.
He does say he would show up, but I don't know .
I don't know he would register .
yeah that's a probably you probably find out .
about the fire .
when he came home or when .
he didn't come home. That's when he would figure out in the fire that I don't know. But like moon man.
that is the same where .
this video that ended up being the theme, well, that's IT. That's all of them.
how you guys feel. God.
that was a ride. That was a ride. These were insane.
These were a lot very messy. IT was messy.
I was messy. They all said a lot less. None of this would have happened.
None of IT. Well.
thank you both for being here. Um again, you guys are great. Um every time you hear it's it's awesome. I mean, these people are not but this is awesome here. Uh, mac, it's great to have you around so thank you.
Always fun being here.
Yeah as always, let us know what theme s you want to see, what subs you want to cover and next saturday, uh, courting and nowhere are going to be here and we heard your comments, it's going to a be a lot of sibling rivalry, sibling drama, uh, stories. So we'll see them all right. Goodbye.
my.