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S10 E1: [Bailey] I'm going to f*cking kill you

2021/10/7
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Bailey: 我在橙县长大,那里的生活重心在于财富和物质,人们很看重收入、房产和度假地点。在2006年的一天晚上,我在一家夜店遇到JD,他一开始表现得很有魅力,但随后的一些言行让我感到不安,例如他不断炫耀自己的手表,猜测我的体重试图奉承我,以及拒绝带我去快餐店。我根据一本约会指南的建议让他来接我,事后后悔不已。当我们到达他家时,我发现他住的是单身公寓,意识到自己处于危险之中。他谎报了自己的名字,这让我更加警惕。当我在他家浴室呕吐时,他试图闯入浴室,并阻止我离开,还抢走了我的手机。我逃离了他,但邻居没有帮助我,这让我意识到自己必须自救。我成功地拿回了手机并逃到了加油站,并报警。一个神秘女子帮助我找回了被盗的物品。警察对我的遭遇缺乏同情和帮助,但出租车司机表现出同情和关心,让我感到温暖。几周后,JD给我打电话,表现得若无其事,让我感到震惊。后来,我在网上看到他的通缉令,得知他强奸了其他女性。我向警方提供了证词,但发现之前的报案记录丢失了。我得知JD犯下更多罪行,感到庆幸的同时也为受害者感到难过。JD最终被判终身监禁,这让我感到安心。我批评社会对女性的偏见和怀疑,并鼓励女性相信自己的直觉,及时逃离危险。我也对邻居没有提供帮助感到失望,并呼吁人们在看到女性处于危险时伸出援手。我在福音派基督教家庭长大,这种环境让我在人际关系中过于顺从,容易成为受害者。我将教育自己的孩子,在感到不舒服时,可以拒绝并说不。我花了很长时间才寻求专业帮助,并鼓励其他人寻求心理治疗。 Tiffany Reese: 倾听内心的直觉可以救命。Bailey的故事强调了这一点。

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Bailey recounts meeting JD at a club and their subsequent date, which included red flags and uncomfortable situations.

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This week survivor Bailey shares her story.

Bailey met “JD” while out at a bar with her friend. Following the advice of a little infamous dating help book, Bailey insisted JD pick her up for their first date which turned out to be a series of regrets that haunt her on a night she barely escaped with her life.

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