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S10 E6: [Maribelle] Dating Website Predator

2021/11/11
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Tiffany Reese: 本集讨论了胁迫性控制的定义和特征，强调了其严重性和普遍性，并提供了相关的资源链接。胁迫性控制是一种策略性的人际暴力，用于持续压迫和恐怖主义，以灌输恐惧和控制。它通常基于性别权力，受害者常常难以摆脱这种控制。施虐者使用各种策略来控制受害者，例如限制金钱、监控沟通、孤立、煤气灯、情感虐待、控制身体自主权、威胁儿童或亲人等。虽然在一些国家胁迫性控制是违法的，但在美国除非伴随其他犯罪行为，否则不被视为非法。 Maribel: 我在Plenty of Fish上认识了Hunter，他一开始对我进行爱情轰炸，但后来展现出控制欲和暴力倾向。他编造了虚假的身份和背景，包括他失去妻子和儿子的谎言，以及他拥有多家公司和工程学位的谎言。他让我辞去工作，与他一起四处奔波，并逐渐控制我的经济和生活。我发现他的谎言后，他试图掩盖真相，并继续控制我。他的行为逐渐升级为身体和精神虐待，包括言语侮辱、肢体暴力和跟踪。最终，我摆脱了他，但他的骚扰和跟踪持续了一年之久，给我带来了巨大的精神创伤。这个经历让我更加警惕周围环境，也让我变得更加坚强。

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Maribel describes meeting Hunter on a dating site and the initial stages of their relationship, highlighting the early signs of Hunter's controlling behavior.

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This week, survivor Maribelle shares her story.

Maribelle met her charming southern gentleman boyfriend, Hunter, on a dating website. As an OG Crime Junkie, when Maribelle noticed the red flags started to pop up, she put on her detective hat and discovered Hunter was a dangerous pathological liar and a soon to be stalker.

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HealthLine: How to Recognize Coercive Control)

Medically reviewed by Timothy J. Legg, PhD, PsyD) — Written by Cindy Lamothe) on October 10, 2019

Battered Women: Coercive Control and the Defense of Liberty) — Written by Evan Stark, Ph.D, MSW, Professor, Rutgers School of Public Affairs and Administration, Prepared for Violence Against Women : Complex Realities and New Issues in a Changing World, Les Presses de l’Université du Québec (2012)

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