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S13 E3: [Odessa] Like a Trophy

2022/5/26
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Odessa: 我与 Carl 的关系始于他迷人的外表和虔诚的信仰，但很快我发现他存在诸多问题，例如在性方面对我施压，在性行为中无法达到高潮，持续时间很长，给我带来痛苦和不安全感。他经常在发生分歧时选择沉默，或者故意说一些伤人的话。他与前女友有不恰当的联系，并且违背了我在色情方面的界限。在蜜月期间，他承认在整个恋爱期间一直在观看色情片，这让我感到深深的背叛。怀孕期间，由于妊娠剧吐，我们的性生活变得不可能，我感到解脱。之后，我注意到他和一名未成年学生关系密切。最终，他告诉我他不再爱我，要离开我，这让我非常震惊和痛苦。在经历了这些之后，我才意识到我的性生活并不正常，我受到了严重的性虐待，而我的纯洁文化背景和对婚姻的期待让我迟迟没有意识到这些问题。 Carl: Carl 的观点主要通过 Odessa 的描述间接呈现，他表现出在性方面缺乏控制，无法处理冲突，以及对色情成瘾。他违背了与 Odessa 达成的协议，并且在面对 Odessa 的担忧时，选择逃避或回避。他与前女友的不当联系，以及与未成年学生的密切关系，都显示出他缺乏责任感和边界感。他最终离开 Odessa，并声称不再爱她，这表明他无法处理这段关系中的问题。

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Odessa met Carl in college through mutual friends. Carl was charming and involved in church, which attracted Odessa due to her own religious involvement. They quickly became inseparable and started dating seriously.

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