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S13 E9: [Sage] The Hinge Hustler

2022/7/7
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受访者讲述了她与一个在约会软件上认识的男子交往的经历。该男子伪造身份，编造家庭背景，并对她进行跟踪骚扰。他利用编造的悲惨故事博取同情，从而获得她的保护和忠诚。她忽视了朋友和家人对男友的质疑，选择相信男友的谎言。男友在未经她允许的情况下跟踪她，并试图控制她的社交圈，限制她与朋友的交往。在一次朋友聚会中，男友醉酒出现，并做出不当行为。男友吸毒，并试图隐瞒事实。在男友家中，男友对她实施肢体暴力，并试图性侵犯她。她运用从电视剧中学到的技巧，成功摆脱了男友的性侵犯企图，并用肘击男友，成功逃脱。男友在她家门口徘徊了一个小时，邻居们没有采取任何行动。她通过短信与男友分手，并避免了面对面接触。男友在她分手后多次试图闯入她的公寓，并留下信件和礼物。警方调查后发现，男友使用了假身份，编造的家庭背景和工作经历都是假的。男友有犯罪前科，包括吸毒、暴力袭击等。她在德克萨斯州申请限制令受阻。她对男友身份的揭露感到震惊和难以置信。通过约会软件认识的人，其真实性可能如同虚构人物一样。约会软件容易让人对虚拟形象产生错觉，降低警惕性。这段经历让她对自身产生质疑，并意识到自身安全的重要性。教会对她的遭遇漠不关心，让她对有组织宗教产生质疑。朋友的支持帮助她度过难关。男友仍然逍遥法外，并试图再次联系她。她通过寻求帮助和自我保护，逐渐恢复信心。她强调直觉的重要性，并建议受害者要积极自保。她建议受害者要详细记录所有证据，并寻求帮助。她建议人们谨慎使用约会软件，不要轻易相信网络上的信息。

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The speaker discusses her initial suspicions about Carter, including his inconsistent stories about his family and his use of sob stories to manipulate her feelings.

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