Explore the surprising family ties that connected Abraham Lincoln to the Confederacy. While Lincoln fought to preserve the Union, his wife, Mary Todd Lincoln, had siblings who sided with the South—raising suspicions about her loyalty. Discover how these family divisions reflected the greater turmoil of a nation at war and uncover the personal struggles of the Todds and the political challenges they created for President Lincoln during the Civil War.

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Episode Sources

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Out of the Mines, courtesy of Ross Gentry, Asheville, North Carolina.

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Episode 160 Lincoln’s Rebel Relatives: When Family Stood on Opposing Sides