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‘Modern Love’: "Materialists" Director Celine Song Believes in Love at First Conversation

2025/6/29
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Celine Song: 作为一名导演和曾经的媒人,我发现爱情是一个既简单又复杂的谜题。简单在于,当我们坠入爱河时,一切都自然而然地发生,我们无法控制自己的情感。但复杂之处在于,现代社会充斥着对约会市场价值的追逐,人们试图通过外貌、财富和社会地位来提升自己,但这与真正的爱情无关。我从做媒人的经历中体会到,人们用来描述理想伴侣的语言,与实际坠入爱河的体验并不一致。我经常被问及爱情的秘诀,但我并没有答案,因为爱情是一种古老而深刻的体验,它让我感到自己像个傻瓜,不得不完全臣服。对我而言,爱情不是一个名词,而是一个动词,一种需要每天实践的行为。就像今天,我忘记带AirPods,我的丈夫主动跑上楼去帮我拿,这虽然是小事,但体现了他对我的爱和关心。真正的浪漫并非华丽的约会或昂贵的礼物,而是体现在日常生活的细节之中。 Anna Martin: Celine的电影和她的爱情观都非常引人入胜。她既能写出感人至深的爱情故事,又能深刻地剖析爱情的本质。Celine认为,爱情不是一个可以轻易获得的物品,而是一种需要不断付出和经营的实践。她强调,真正的爱情体现在日常生活的细节之中,例如丈夫帮妻子拿AirPods这样的小事,也能体现出深厚的爱意。Celine的观点与我们通常在电影中看到的浪漫爱情有所不同,但却更加真实和贴近生活。她的作品和观点引发了我们对爱情的思考,让我们重新审视爱情的真谛。

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The director Celine Song won over audiences and critics alike with her first feature film, “Past Lives,” the semi-autobiographical tale of a married Korean American woman meeting up with her former childhood sweetheart. Now Song is back with another story about love called “Materialists.” This time the main character is a matchmaker, a job that Song did briefly in her early 20s.

On this episode of “Modern Love,” Song reads Louise Rafkin’s Modern Love essay “My View From the Margins),” about a relationship columnist who can’t figure out love in her own life. And Song tells us how neither falling in love at age 24 nor making a career of writing about love has brought her any closer to understanding it. “It’s the one thing that makes me feel like a fool,” Song says.

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