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How to Find Your Purpose: Stop Searching and Do This Instead

2023/2/9
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Jamie Kern Lima: 人生的每一步都是有安排的,即使看起来毫无关联,它们最终会帮助你实现目标。 即使事情看起来毫无意义,也相信一切都是为了你而发生。 目的并非一个最终目标,而是在过程中服务他人,特别是那些曾经历过类似困境的人。 她的目的不是成为企业家,而是帮助女性认识到自身的价值。 她意识到,她的目的不仅仅是推出化妆品,更是要帮助女性建立自信,并以此为基础建立了自己的品牌。 每个人都是独一无二的,所以即使别人做过类似的事情,你也能以独特的方式去做。 人生中最艰难的时刻,要么是为了让你更有力量去迎接未来的成功,要么是为了让你在未来帮助那些经历过同样困境的人。 人生的成功与否取决于你是否倾听内心的声音,而不是外界的否定。 不真实的行为会带来失败,而真实的行为虽然不能保证成功,但却是通往成功和目标的途径。 目的并不总是与工作相关,它可以存在于生活的各个方面。 不要等待完美,而要迈出第一步,并从中感受。 拒绝是上帝的保护,它能让你变得更强大,更能欣赏美好的事物。 真正的力量在于展望未来,而不是沉湎于过去。 你需要持续地去表达、倡导和解释你的目标,直到它成为现实。 Mel Robbins: 她强调了直觉和坚持的重要性,以及如何从过去的经历中吸取教训,并将其转化为未来的动力。 她鼓励听众相信自己,并相信一切都是有安排的。 她分享了Jamie Kern Lima的成功故事,并从中总结出了宝贵的经验教训。 她指出,Jamie Kern Lima的成功并非偶然,而是她坚持自我,相信直觉,并不断努力的结果。 她鼓励听众不要害怕失败,要勇敢地追求自己的梦想。 她强调了人际关系的重要性,以及如何通过帮助他人来实现自身的价值。 她分享了Jamie Kern Lima的慈善事业,并赞扬了她对社会的贡献。 她鼓励听众要相信自己,并相信自己能够创造美好的未来。

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Today’s episode is a masterclass on finding your purpose, listening to your gut, and never giving up (no matter what other people say).

 

So many of you write in asking for advice about purpose that I’ve decided to introduce you to a guest whose life story is the epitome of purpose.

 

You’re about to meet a woman who went from serving up stacks of pancakes at Denny’s to creating a billion-dollar product that would help millions of women around the world feel confident in their own skin. 

 

It was such a success that L'Oréal recently bought her company for $1.2 billion dollars.

 

I’m talking about none other than Jamie Kern Lima, the founder of It Cosmetics.

 

And if you think that her purpose in life was to create a cosmetics company, you’d be wrong.

 

The topic of purpose is essential and misunderstood, so today I’ll teach you how to truly find your purpose using Jamie’s inspiring story and tactical tools every step of the way.

 

In fact, her takeaways are so good that I refer to her as the “Professor of Purpose,” because by the end of this episode, you’ll be closer to finding yours.

 

Learn how today. Class is in session with one of the most successful self-made women today.

 

Xo Mel 

 

For episodes notes and resources, go to melrobbins.com/podcast)

 

In this episode, you’ll learn:

 

  • 4:10: Feel like there’s something bigger you’re supposed to do? Jamie did too.
  • 5:30: Like it or not, here’s why your current job is important to your future you. 
  • 6:29: Your setbacks are more valuable than you think.
  • 8:30: Jamie nails what “purpose” actually is and why most of us think of it in the wrong way.
  • 12:00: Big takeaway: your steps are ordered exactly as they should be.
  • 15:40: Why Jamie’s 1.2 billion dollar idea almost didn’t happen and the ‘AHA’ moment that changed everything.
  • 18:45: That modern-day beauty movement we love? It was done FIRST by Jamie.
  • 20:20: If you’re feeling stuck, here are the words you need to hear TODAY.
  • 22:00 How do you go from AHA to actually getting started?
  • 28:00: How to face your #1 critic (yourself) and start trusting your gut.
  • 33:10: A profound reframe on the hardships you have experienced.
  • 34:00: Jamie’s story of one of the most painful rejections she ever experienced and the life-changing lesson she learned about intuition.
  • 47:50: The expert advice Jamie defied to instead go with her gut.
  • 53:15: Listen to Jamie’s advice if you have been rejected over and over.
  • 56:30: Here’s the perfect way to frame your true power.
  • 58:20: Stop thinking about purpose in this way. Here’s the truth about finding your purpose.
  • 1:01:15: 2 exercises to help have your own ‘AHA’ moment.
  • 1:04:00: Why going after your dreams is YOUR responsibility.

 

Take my free 5-day challenge – The Wake Up Challenge – to walk you through getting started with these tools: www.melrobbins.com/wakeup).

 

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