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There Is Only One Thing You Should Do This Week

2022/12/19
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一位专注于领导力和个人成长的著名_motivational speaker_和播客主持人。
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Mel Robbins: 本周唯一要做的事情是:什么也不做。现代人沉迷于忙碌,这会影响精力、动力、耐力和专注力,进而影响决策和人际关系。现代社会推崇高效率和忙碌,但过度忙碌并不一定带来幸福和健康。即使只是几分钟,有意识地什么也不做,也能帮助人们恢复精力。即使是Mel herself,也不知道如何有效地什么也不做。在充满高成就者环境中保持希望,需要认识到网络上展现的成就并非完全真实,并调整自身期望。网络上许多成功人士的建议并不适用于所有人的生活,需要根据自身情况调整。应该根据自身情况灵活运用建议,而不是盲目追求不切实际的目标。将休息视为“罪恶的快乐”是一种错误的观念,应该正视并学习如何放松。如何摆脱过度思考,享受生活?需要借助外部工具和方法来平静思绪。每天设定一个时间段,有意识地什么也不做,可以帮助人们放松身心,恢复精力。“什么也不做”与懒惰、拖延和找借口是不同的概念。

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This chapter explores the concept of "doing nothing" as a way to combat burnout and overwhelm. It acknowledges the difficulty of truly doing nothing in our busy lives and emphasizes the importance of incorporating moments of rest and stillness.
  • The importance of incorporating moments of rest and stillness into daily life.
  • The difficulty of truly doing nothing in our busy lives.
  • The concept of "doing nothing" as a way to combat burnout and overwhelm.

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I know you’re busy. Which is why today’s message is the one thing you need to hear right now.

 

I need this message too. We all do.

 

Because there’s only one thing I want you to do this week:

 

NOTHING.

 

That’s right. I want you to do absolutely nothing.

 

No, I’m not smoking anything funny when I say this. I’m dead serious.

 

Hear me out.

 

There is an art and a science to doing nothing, and we need to put it into our daily lives.

 

All this constant doing is impacting your energy, your drive, your stamina, and your ability to be present, which in turn affects the decisions you make and your relationships.

 

Look at it this way. What are you doing right now?

 

Because I bet you’re scrolling through podcast episodes to listen to as you jump on your Peloton, drive to work, fold laundry, organize your desk, or whatever it is you do when you multitask.

 

You and I live in a world that glorifies productivity and accomplishment. The busier we are, the more important we must be.

 

But all that busyness is not making you happier or healthier. In fact, you’re writing to me every day asking how to deal with burnout and overwhelm.

 

And look, I’m not exactly an expert. I struggle with this too, which is why I wanted to talk about it.

 

I can’t even take a freakin’ bath without feeling the urge to answer emails on my phone (and oftentimes, I do).

 

Like you, I have absolutely no idea how to do nothing.

 

But I know I need to learn how to turn off and unplug, even if it’s just for a minute.

 

This episode is the tough love that we all need. And it won’t require you to take a week off from work or be somebody who meditates all day. 

 

We’re going to talk about how to create moments of peace in your daily life, no matter how complicated it may seem right now.

 

So whether you’re on vacation, studying for exams, running your own company, raising a family, or you’re in between three jobs, this episode is for all of us. And it’s one you deserve.

 

Xo Mel 

 

In this episode, you’ll learn:

 

0:12: The only thing you should do this week – and why

10:02: How to remain hopeful when you’re in the trenches and surrounded by high achievers

13:19: The only advice you should be following

15:41: Should you listen to people who don’t understand your life?

17:36: How I handle jealousy

19:25: How to make time for rest when it feels like a guilty pleasure

24:00: How to get out of your head and into the moment

26:40: What you and I will do at 2:13 pm every day

33:29: The difference between laziness and procrastination (and how it applies to you)

 

For full show notes, go to melrobbins.com/podcast)