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How to Be Kind to Yourself

2025/3/6
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Rob Dial: 我经常听到人们说他们对自己很苛刻,甚至像对待敌人一样对待自己。与其追求‘爱自己’,不如先‘接纳自己’。自我接纳是通往自爱的关键,因为我们对自己的不满往往源于对某些方面的不接纳。 缺乏自爱并非天生,而是后天习得的。婴儿时期,他们通常快乐无忧,只有在饥饿、疲倦或弄脏自己时才会不开心。这表明缺乏自爱是后天习得的。 我们对自己的不接纳源于童年时期被‘驯化’的经历。父母为了让我们适应社会规范,常常会通过批评或情感奖惩来引导孩子行为,导致孩子认为自己本来的样子是不够好的。平均而言,孩子在童年时期受到的批评是赞扬的八倍,这使得他们更容易认为自己不够好,需要改变自己以获得父母的爱。 这种‘驯化’过程会让孩子逐渐压抑真实的自我,以符合父母的期望。长大后,我们仍然会寻求外界的认可,例如好成绩、成就、外貌等,这实际上是我们在寻求内心的认可和接纳。 真正的自我接纳意味着接纳真实的自己,无论富有或贫穷,成功或失败,外在条件不会改变我们的价值。我们应该像欣赏自然一样欣赏自己,接纳自己的所有方面,包括缺点。自我接纳并不意味着停止自我提升,而是以一种更积极的心态去追求目标。 重新发现内心的孩子,做自己喜欢的事情,是通往自我接纳的重要途径。反思童年经历,找出那些导致自我否定和不接纳的事件,并尝试重新发现真实的自我,这有助于我们更好地接纳自己,提升生活品质。

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Are you way too hard on yourself? In this episode, I break down why self-love feels so hard—and why self-acceptance is actually the key to changing that. Most of us were raised to believe we weren’t enough, and that belief still runs our lives. But what if you could finally break free from it? 

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