Rob Dial: 我发现,临终者最常见的遗憾是“我希望我活出真实的自我,而不是别人期望我活成的样子”。很多人一生都在追求父母和社会期望的道路,为了融入群体而压抑真实的自我,不敢追求内心的激情。我希望大家能从这些遗憾中吸取教训,勇敢地活出真我,不要让别人的看法左右自己的人生。我们应该忠于自己的内心,去做自己热爱的事情,不要等到临终时才后悔没有活出真实的自我。
This chapter explores the most common regret among the dying: not living a life true to oneself. It emphasizes the importance of living life on one's own terms and pursuing passions, despite societal expectations or fear of judgment. The chapter highlights the significance of self-discovery and prioritizing personal fulfillment over external validation.
Most common regret: not living a life true to oneself
Importance of living life on own terms
Prioritizing personal fulfillment over external validation