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Don’t Let Toxic Money Situations Keep You Trapped

2025/1/8
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Jade Borshaw
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Rachel Cruze
专注于个人财务教育和预算管理的金融专家。
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Jade Borshaw: 在信用卡上共同署名存在风险,如果一方不还款,另一方将承担责任。如果信用卡只在一人名下,另一人使用并保证还款,但实际上没有还款,则持卡人将承担全部责任。建议立即注销所有以自己名义持有的信用卡,并保持财务独立,避免因伴侣行为造成财务损失。 Rachel Cruze: 建立信用记录的唯一原因是为了负债,而最好的理财方式是不负债。不需要信用记录就能生活,只有需要负债时才需要信用记录。 建议立即注销所有以自己名义持有的信用卡,并保持财务独立,避免因伴侣行为造成财务损失。债务是一种产品,并非必需品,其被过度营销。尽快还清现有车贷,之后尽量用现金购车;租房时可提供其他财务证明代替信用记录;购房时可选择无信用记录的贷款方式。不需要信用评分就能获得住房贷款,贷款机构可以通过手动审核评估借款人的还款能力。即使不考虑无债务生活,也不应在信用卡上署他人姓名,以避免无法控制的风险。 Katie: 与男友共同使用信用卡,男友负责还款,但担心男友不还款带来的风险。

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Why is sharing credit cards with a boyfriend or girlfriend a risky financial move?

Sharing credit cards with a partner, especially when not married, is risky because both parties are legally responsible for the debt. If the relationship ends and one person racks up debt, the other is still liable. Additionally, if one person fails to pay, it can negatively impact the other's credit score and financial stability.

What is the alternative to needing a credit score for major purchases like a home?

Manual underwriting is an alternative to needing a credit score for major purchases like a home. This process involves lenders reviewing your financial history, such as rent payments, utility bills, and other proof of financial responsibility, to determine your eligibility for a mortgage without relying on a credit score.

Why is it important to keep finances separate before marriage?

Keeping finances separate before marriage is crucial because it protects both individuals from financial liabilities that may arise if the relationship ends. Combining finances before marriage can lead to shared debt and legal complications, especially if one person mismanages money or fails to pay bills.

How can someone handle a parent who repeatedly asks for money?

To handle a parent who repeatedly asks for money, it's important to set boundaries and have an honest conversation. Offer to help them create a budget or financial plan instead of giving cash. If you're not in a financial position to help, be clear about your limitations and focus on your own financial stability first.

What should someone do if they discover their spouse has been secretly spending retirement savings?

If someone discovers their spouse has been secretly spending retirement savings, it's crucial to address the issue immediately. This involves having an open and honest conversation about financial transparency, seeking professional counseling, and possibly separating finances temporarily to rebuild trust and protect individual financial security.

Why is co-signing a loan for a friend or family member a bad idea?

Co-signing a loan for a friend or family member is a bad idea because it makes you legally responsible for the debt if the primary borrower fails to pay. This can negatively impact your credit score, limit your ability to take out loans for yourself, and strain relationships if financial issues arise.

What are the risks of day trading with borrowed money?

Day trading with borrowed money is extremely risky because it can lead to significant financial losses. If the trades go poorly, the borrower may be unable to repay the debt, leading to credit card debt, damaged credit scores, and strained relationships. It can also create a cycle of gambling-like behavior, where the individual continues to borrow in hopes of recouping losses.

What are the current trends in the housing market for 2025?

In 2025, mortgage rates are expected to continue dropping, making it a favorable time for buyers. Housing prices are predicted to remain steady or experience modest growth due to low inventory. Foreclosures are expected to stay low, and buyer demand may rise as interest rates decrease, creating more competition in the market.

What should someone prioritize when deciding between paying off a car loan or saving for an apartment deposit?

When deciding between paying off a car loan or saving for an apartment deposit, prioritize based on immediate needs. If the apartment deposit is essential for housing (a 'four walls' necessity), focus on saving for that first. However, if the car loan is manageable, consider splitting funds between both goals to make progress on debt while preparing for future housing needs.

How can parents teach their teenagers about budgeting without being overly controlling?

Parents can teach teenagers about budgeting by modeling good financial behavior and having open conversations about money. Allow teens to make their own spending decisions, even if they make mistakes, as this helps them learn valuable lessons. Encourage saving and goal-setting, but avoid being overly controlling to foster independence and financial responsibility.

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A woman in Austin, Texas calls in concerned about her boyfriend using her credit cards. The hosts discuss the risks of shared credit cards, particularly in unmarried relationships, and emphasize the importance of financial independence and avoiding debt.
  • Risks of shared credit cards in unmarried relationships
  • Importance of financial independence
  • Debt is a product, not a necessity

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Jade Warshaw & Rachel Cruze answer your questions and discuss:

  • "My boyfriend and I share credit cards,"

  • "How do I tell my dad he can't borrow from me?"

  • "When is a 401(k) match too good to pass up?"

  • "My husband spent our retirement behind my back,"

  • Housing Market Predictions for 2025

  • "We co-signed on a house and now we're stuck,"

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