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The 3 Emotional Skills That Make You Successful In Life

2025/6/27

The School of Greatness

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Gary Vaynerchuk

国际知名的社交媒体专家和企业家，专注于现代营销策略和数字品牌建设。

Lewis Howes

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Gary Vaynerchuk: 我对自身作为人的品质更看重，而不是作为商人。金钱、名誉、成功和粉丝不会改变你，只会暴露你。真正的可持续成功来自于你对自己的爱和接纳，无论你的财务状况如何，无论你的粉丝数量多少。我从小就与自己相处得很好，这让我能够应对生活中的各种挑战，包括事业上的起起伏伏。我不害怕失败，这与我作为企业家的成就有着直接的关联。我虽然喜欢善良，但我把太多的慈善带到了工作中，这导致我很难对表现不佳的员工坦诚相待。我意识到，我需要在工作中更加坦诚，即使这很难。我最近开始更多地关注自己的内心，这让我感到平静、富足和被爱。我最近出版了一本新书《与我相遇》，这本书教人们情感责任和情感智力。我认为，人们需要学会自我认知、感恩和责任感。自我认知是通往自爱的门户，它能帮助你了解自己的优势和劣势。感恩能让你更加珍惜你所拥有的一切。责任感能让你为自己的行为负责。竞争力也是非常重要的。我们不能妖魔化竞争，因为它能激励我们不断进步。我们应该学会在竞争中保持积极的心态，并从中学习和成长。我坚信，只要你积极地寻找，你就能找到快乐和幸福。爱是值得为之奋斗的。你必须摧毁那些阻碍你前进的东西，即使这很难。我将继续努力付出多于索取，并希望能够为世界留下积极的影响。 Lewis Howes: 我现在感受到前所未有的平静、富足和爱。人们比以往任何时候都更感到压力和不知所措，试图跟上算法的变化。在社交媒体上追逐成功是不可持续的，人们应该保持健康并爱自己。Gary Vaynerchuk 的成功经验以及他对于自我认知、感恩和责任感的强调，为我们提供了宝贵的启示。他强调了自我认知的重要性，以及如何通过与亲密圈子的沟通来提升自我认知。他还强调了感恩和责任感的重要性，以及如何通过积极的心态来应对生活中的挑战。 Gary Vaynerchuk 的经历和观点，为我们提供了宝贵的经验和教训，帮助我们更好地理解如何建立可持续成功，以及如何培养高情商。

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Gary Vaynerchuk discusses the unsustainable nature of chasing social media success and the importance of self-love. He emphasizes that sustainable success comes from enjoying the process and not letting external metrics define you. He shares his personal journey and how his strong self-love has helped him navigate the ups and downs of his career.

Sustainable success is achievable when enjoyment and self-love outweigh external validation.
The relationship with losing directly correlates to entrepreneurial potential and long-term achievement.
External metrics like followers, revenue, or rankings shouldn't define self-worth.

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Building a $350 million business while staying emotionally grounded seems impossible, but Gary Vaynerchuk reveals how radical self-love became his secret weapon for sustainable success. In this raw conversation, Gary opens up about his biggest professional weakness - his inability to give candid feedback to employees he cares about - and how this "kryptonite" nearly sabotaged his leadership at VaynerMedia. He shares the moment he realized that being "too nice" was actually hurting the people he was trying to protect, forcing him to confront the difference between charity and candor in business relationships. This episode delivers a masterclass in emotional intelligence for entrepreneurs, creators burning out from chasing algorithms, and anyone trapped in the validation cycle of social media success..

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In this episode you will learn:

How to build sustainable success without being defined by external metrics like followers, revenue, or rankings
The three core emotional skills that determine your capacity for both business success and personal fulfillment
Why your relationship with losing directly correlates to your entrepreneurial potential and long-term achievement
How to conduct a "self-intervention" dinner that will reveal your blind spots and accelerate your self-awareness
The coming revolution in content creation through AI voice translation and virtual influencers that will reshape attention

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