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Mark Manson
Mark Manson: 我认为对我生命影响最深刻的原则就是,我对生活中的一切负责,无论是不是我的错。很多人混淆了责任和过错,但它们是不同的。过错通常是过去的,是外部的,而责任是现在的和未来的。例如,我走在悉尼的街上,忘记了车辆行驶的方向,被车撞了。虽然这不是我的错,但我有责任康复,照顾自己的健康,决定是否起诉司机。即使面对社会不公,我仍然有责任做出积极的反应,照顾好自己和他人,并尽力做到最好。如果有人想开始承担责任,我的建议是找出你能控制的事情,并计划如何做得更好。对我而言,安·兰德的作品让我意识到个人赋权的重要性,我们有道德责任为自己和他人做得更好。
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Mark Manson's first rule is about taking responsibility for everything in your life, regardless of fault. He explains the difference between fault and responsibility and how to start taking responsibility for your actions and outcomes.
- Responsibility vs. fault: fault is external and past tense; responsibility is present and future tense.
- Take responsibility for what you control, plan to improve it.
- Even if you are a victim of injustice, you are responsible for your response.
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