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Dating sucks right now

2024/8/16
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Myesha Battle
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路人: 约会应用肤浅,只注重外表,存在尬聊和被放鸽子等问题。 Myesha Battle: 约会应用设计存在缺陷,游戏化机制导致人们疲惫,商业模式优先考虑盈利而非促进用户建立关系。 此外,女性在约会应用中更容易遭受骚扰和暴力,导致她们选择休息,'Boy sober'趋势反映了这一现象。 约会应用的吸引力正在下降,Z世代对应用的依赖程度较低,而千禧一代和X世代仍然是主要用户。 建议人们不要过度依赖约会应用,而是丰富生活,积极参与线下活动,增加与他人建立联系的机会。 大多数人仍然通过社区联系来结识伴侣,应该积极参与社区活动,例如小组活动、聚会等。 内向的人可以通过参加小组活动来拓宽社交圈,并保持开放的心态与他人交流。 处于恋爱关系中的人应该帮助单身朋友寻找伴侣。 应该勇敢地表达自己的爱意,即使被拒绝也无需气馁,这是一种正常的经历。 每个人都值得被爱,约会中的错误经历也是学习和成长的过程。 主持人: 约会应用不再有效,人们普遍对其感到不满,很多人依赖约会应用,却感到沮丧和失败。 即使在现实生活中被陌生人邀请约会,也应该尝试,这是一种增加社交的机会,即使结果不尽如人意,也能带来乐趣。 人们缺乏线下社交空间,这导致了孤独感蔓延,也影响了人们建立联系的能力。

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Dating apps have become a source of frustration for many. People are tired of the superficiality, ghosting, and endless swiping.
  • Dating apps are widely disliked.
  • People find dating apps superficial.
  • Ghosting and small talk are common complaints.

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But it doesn't have to. Myisha Battle, a sexologist and host of KCRW’s How's Your Sex Life?, tells us how to move beyond the apps.

This episode was produced by Hady Mawajdeh, edited by Amina Al-Sadi with help from Lissa Soep, fact-checked by Matt Collette, engineered by Patrick Boyd, and hosted by Noel King.

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