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Esther Calling - It Feels Like My Siblings Abandoned Me

2024/5/20
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Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel
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女嘉宾：作为家中最小的孩子，她承担了照顾患病父母的大部分责任，感到孤独和怨恨。她努力压抑自己的负面情绪，担心表达愤怒会破坏家庭和谐，并影响母亲的病情。她与姐姐的关系因姐姐的婚事和对她的性取向的排斥而紧张。她渴望得到母亲的认可和支持，但又担心表达自己的需求会让母亲感到压力。 Esther：Esther 指出女嘉宾应该表达自己的愤怒和不满，并坚持自己的价值观和行为准则。她鼓励女嘉宾专注于自己与母亲的关系，暂时忽略与兄弟姐妹的比较。她建议女嘉宾直接向母亲表达自己的需求和感受，并认识到自己对家庭的贡献，以及自己独特的价值。Esther 帮助女嘉宾理清思绪，让她意识到自己有权表达自己的需求，并有能力处理与家人的关系。 Esther: Esther引导女嘉宾认识到她有权表达自己的感受，并帮助她找到平衡家庭责任和个人需求的方式。Esther 强调家庭中处理愤怒和冲突的重要性，并鼓励女嘉宾与母亲进行坦诚的沟通，表达她对支持和理解的需求。Esther 也帮助女嘉宾重新审视她与兄弟姐妹的关系，并鼓励她寻求外部支持，以更好地应对家庭压力。

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A young woman discusses feeling overwhelmed and lonely while caring for her ailing parents, and resents her siblings for not helping as much.

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In this Esther Calling, Esther speaks to a young woman grappling with the burden of caring for her ailing parents and the feelings of resentment she feels towards her older siblings. But the true cause of this family conflict goes much deeper than who is showing up and who is not.

Esther Callings are a one time, 45-60 minute interventional phone call with Esther. They are edited for time, clarity, and anonymity. If you have a question you would like to talk through with Esther, send a voice memo to [email protected].

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