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Working While Parenting a Teen: Not What I Expected

2024/11/18
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Amy Gallo
通过播客和媒体贡献,帮助女性应对工作场所中的心理健康挑战。
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Danna Greenberg
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Amy Gallo分享了她在养育青少年女儿Harper过程中的挑战和感悟,例如女儿在学业、朋友、感情等方面遇到的问题,以及由此产生的情绪波动对Gallo工作的影响。Gallo认为,尽管养育青少年比预想的更具挑战性,但也带来了独特的回报,例如女儿为她的职业成就感到骄傲。Gallo强调了职场妈妈在平衡工作和家庭生活中的不易,并呼吁社会更多地理解和支持职场妈妈群体。 Danna Greenberg作为组织行为学教授,从研究和个人经验出发,分析了青少年子女的情感需求对职场妈妈的影响。她指出,青少年时期的情感波动会增加职场妈妈的情绪劳动,进而影响她们的工作状态。Greenberg建议职场妈妈们找到适合自己的平衡工作和家庭的方式,并积极与家人、同事和上级沟通,以获得更多支持和理解。她还强调了建立支持网络的重要性,以及允许孩子犯错和学习的重要性。

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Amy and Danna discuss the emotional intensity of parenting teenagers while working, highlighting the lack of research and support for working mothers in this phase.
  • Emotional labor with adolescents is more stressful than with younger children.
  • There is little research on the impact of parenting teenagers on working mothers.
  • Positive feedback from older children can be energizing, but the emotional demands are high.

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Do you expect and hope that you’ll have more time for yourself and for your career as your kids become teens and young adults? Amy G did. However, she didn’t fully anticipate the emotional intensity of being a working mom of a teenager. Responding to seemingly urgent texts, keeping track of an ever-changing after-school schedule, and being an on-call problem-solver would affect anyone’s ability to focus, including hers.

There’s little research on or conversation about this phase of working motherhood, and Amy wants to help other working moms not not only get through it but enjoy it as much as possible.

She’s joined by Babson College professor Danna Greenberg, who’s the co-author of Maternal Optimism and a mother of three twenty-somethings. Amy and Danna talk though questions like, *How do I recover my focus after my kid calls to unload? How might I counter people’s judgy comments about how involved (or not) I am in my teen’s life? How can I avoid becoming my kid’s de facto boss? *

Guest expert:

Danna Greenberg is a professor of organizational behavior at Babson College and the co-author of the book Maternal Optimism: Forging Positive Paths through Work and Motherhood).

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