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If you want to make God laugh, tell him your plans. 如果你想要让老天爷笑，你就告诉他你的计划。

Everything will be alright in the end. If it’s not alright; it’s not the end. 事情最终都会好的。如果不好，代表还不是终点。

God doesn’t give us what we want; he gives us what we need. 老天爷不会给我们要的；他给我们需要的。

（English Interview from 9:23）

What about love??? Lily2023年的爱情运势呢？

Bella: That sounds like it makes sense. See what's going on currently with the planets. Oh, there'll be plenty of opportunities for love for you. Plenty. But they might not come right away, to be honest. You might have to wait a little bit. Let's see, you might have to wait a little bit. I think now you're really focused on, so when Capricorn season starts, you are gonna be shining. You're gonna be the best version of yourself. You're gonna be glowing because all the planets are moving into your first house of self. You're gonna have Venus there. So you're gonna look more beautiful. You're gonna be more radiant than ever. People are gonna be drawn to you. So this could be a good time for flirtation, for putting yourself out there for having fun. People will be very drawn to you and magnetized to you. So it could be a good thing.

这听起来很有道理。查看行星当前正在发生的事情。哦，你会有很多爱的机会。很多。但老实说，他们可能不会马上来。你可能需要稍等片刻。让我们看看，你可能需要稍等片刻。我想现在你真的很专注，所以当摩羯座季节开始时，你会发光。你会成为最好的自己。你会发光，因为所有的行星都在进入你的第一宫。你会在那里有金星守护。所以你会看起来更漂亮。你会比以往任何时候都更加容光焕发。人们会被你吸引。因此，这可能是调情的好时机，让自己尽情享受乐趣。人们会被你深深吸引。所以这可能是一件好事。

But I would say that now you are gonna be focused on your business, very much so. You may have had… you may have felt like money wasn't flowing as easily as maybe you would want it to, or maybe as easily as it was in a pastime that's gonna change next year because you had something blocking your money house, which was kind of frustrating for you. So maybe you weren't getting cash flow as easily. But once this Saturn leaves your house of wealth, you're gonna start to see more abundance in your life, more success. You're gonna also wanna be thinking about putting down roots somewhere. Do you think that you're gonna keep traveling for a while? Or are you focusing on maybe staying in one place?

但我要说的是，现在你将专注于你的事业。你可能有过这样的经历，你可能觉得钱不像你希望的那样容易流动，或者可能像过去一样容易流动，明年（2023年）会改变，因为你有一些东西阻碍了你的金钱宫，这让你有点沮丧。所以也许你没有那么容易地获得现金流。但是一旦土星离开你的财富宫，你就会开始看到你的生活更加丰富，更加成功。你也会想在某个地方扎根。你认为你会继续旅行一段时间吗？还是你专注于待在一个地方？

Lily: I’m going to travel. Yeah. Oh, I have listed all the countries that I want to travel next year already.我要去旅行。是的。哦，我已经把明年想去的国家都列出来了。

Bella: Really? Oh, what are they? 真的吗？是哪些呢？

Lily: Five, six countries in Asia. So I'm leaving Guatemala before Christmas. So I'm going back to Iceland for a couple days, hanging out with my friends, celebrating Christmas. And then I will go to Japan. And from Japan, three months in Japan, probably one or two months in Korea. I want to move down to Vietnam, probably Thailand a little bit. I heard it's a great place for digital nomads. And then mm-hmm <affirmative>, go to Indonesia, maybe visit the Philippines, maybe go to India.

亚洲五或六国。所以我要在圣诞节前离开危地马拉。所以我要回冰岛几天，和我的朋友出去玩，庆祝圣诞节。然后我会去日本。而来自日本，在日本三个月，在韩国大概一两个月。我想搬到越南，可能是泰国。我听说这是数字游牧的好地方。然后去印尼，也许拜访菲律宾，或者去印度。

Bella: Well maybe I'll join you in one of these places. That sounds amazing. Oh wait, I just saw something. Okay. In May of next year. Can you wait that long? Yes. You have Jupiter moving into your fifth house of love and romance and Jupiter. Woohoo. Yes. Jupiter is the planet of expansion, of luck, abundance. You're gonna feel very flirty. You're gonna wanna have a lot of fun. This is the perfect time to go out to date. That's the best time for love when Jupiter's in the fifth house. So that's gonna happen around May. If you can wait six more months, I mean it could happen before, but then there's gonna be a very strong <laugh> potential for it. This is gonna be a great time.

好吧，也许我会在这些地方之一加入你，听起来很棒。哦，等等，我刚刚看到了什么。好的。明年（2023年）五月。你能等那么久吗？你有木星进入你的第五宫爱情和浪漫和木星。哇哦。是的。木星是扩张、幸运、丰富的行星。你会觉得春天来了。你会想玩得很开心的。这是约会的最佳时机。当木星在第五宫时，这是爱情的最佳时机。所以这将在五月左右发生。如果你能再等六个月，我的意思是它可能会在之前发生，但之后会有非常强大的潜力。这将是一段美好的时光。

Lily: And I think so too. I think so too. I probably need a couple months to heal from the last one. I think May I will be very ready.

我也这么认为。我也这么认为。我可能需要几个月的时间才能从上一次痊愈。我想我会做好准备的。

Bella: Oh yeah, no, it's really good that you're taking time in between relationships to heal, to kind of reflect on what you've learned. Because a lot of people just jump from one relationship to the next. And that's not the healthiest thing because you didn't really go over what you just learned and see how you've grown. And you just bring the problems from the old relationship to the new relationship without working on them in between. So I don't think that's the best way to handle it, but a lot of people do. So what can I say?

哦，是的，在情感关系之间花时间治愈自己，反思你所学到的东西，这真的很好。因为很多人只是从一种关系跳到另一种关系。这不是最健康的事情，因为你并没有真正复习你刚刚学到的东西，也没有看到你是如何成长的。而你只是把旧关系中的问题带到新关系中，而不在两者之间进行处理。所以我认为这不是处理它的最佳方式，但很多人都这样做。但除了无奈又能说什么呢？

Lily: Exactly! I did that in my past. I'm not very proud of that. And now I just feel like, yeah, I need to change the approach, give myself enough time to process the feelings. And I think everybody has their own timing. It's not necessary to hurry. I hate when people saying that, oh, just get onto (under) the next one. Forget about the last one. And I know it wouldn't work for me. It's probably you would feel a little bit better at that time, but then afterwards you still feel like, ah, I still have a lot of shit to work on.

确切地！我过去就是这样做的。我对此并不感到自豪。现在我只是觉得，是的，我需要改变方法，给自己足够的时间来处理这些感受。我认为每个人都有自己的时机。没必要着急。我讨厌人们这么说，哦，忘记上一个的最好方式，就是继续下一个。我知道这对我不起作用。可能那个时候你会觉得好一点，但是后来你还是觉得，啊，我还有很多个人的问题要处理。

单词记忆：

opportunities 机会 | opportunity 机会（单数）

glowing 容光焕发的｜glow 发光

radiant 发光

magnetize 有磁性/力吸引｜magnetized 有吸引力的

put down roots 定居

list 列出、清单｜我的睡衣上的标语：Amazing in Bed 在床上很厉害 I can sleep for days (因为我可以睡好几天）、You’re on my to-do list 你在我的待办事项上

digital nomad 数字游民｜online entrepreneur 线上创业家 location-independant

heal 疗愈｜heel 脚跟

handle 处理

approach 方法

Bella 她的IG是：https://www.instagram.com/astrobellaluna/

Email: Astrobellaluna@gmail.com

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