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Past Lives | Gina’s Story Part 2
2025/3/11
You Probably Think This Story’s About You
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Brittany Yard
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Gina
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Viv
Gina: 我和Viv在20多岁时相爱，但由于我的情感不成熟和Viv的不稳定关系，我们最终分手，我搬到西雅图，试图摆脱这段痛苦的回忆。多年后，我们再次在工作中相遇，最初我努力避免与她有任何接触，因为我害怕重蹈覆辙。然而，一次偶然的Facebook联系，我们开始重新沟通，并逐渐放下过去，最终成为朋友。在这个过程中，我意识到自己过去在感情中总是追逐和被抛弃，这与我童年缺乏安全感有关。通过自我反思和心理治疗，我逐渐学会爱自己，并建立健康的边界。
Viv: 我和Gina的第一次相遇充满激情，但由于我当时的不成熟和对感情的处理方式不当，导致了我们的分手。之后，我经历了多次不健康的恋爱关系，直到我意识到自己需要改变。我开始接受心理治疗，努力处理自己内心的创伤和不安全感，并开始学习如何建立健康的人际关系。Gina再次联系我时，我感到意外，但我们最终放下过去，成为朋友。
Brittany Yard: 作为Gina的朋友，我一开始并不支持她联系Viv，因为我担心她会再次陷入痛苦的循环。然而，看到她们最终和解并放下过去，我感到欣慰。她们的故事展现了自我疗愈和情感成长的力量，也提醒我们，一段感情的结束并不意味着一切的结束。
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Brittany Yard: 'When she told me that she had reached out to you and was talking to you again, my first reaction was like, don't do that. Like, why are you going to start this cycle again? You've come so far.'
Gina: 'I just put what felt like everything into that relationship.'
Viv: 'I was a placeholder.'
Gina: 'Even moving a thousand miles away from Viv didn't fix everything.'
Gina: 'It hit me after that when I left Colorado that trip, I was like, "I can't do this again." This person doesn't love me the way I deserve or need to be loved.'
Viv: 'I finally hit my breaking point...I put myself into therapy.'
Gina: 'I had no intentions of...this is my in. No, it was just, you're popping up on my socials.'
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