This week, Ash is joined by bestselling author and renowned love expert Arielle Ford for a rich and heartfelt conversation about modern love, soulmates, and what it really takes to build a lasting, meaningful relationship.

Arielle and Ash debunk the myth that love is all about instant chemistry and butterflies. Instead, they explore how real, mature love is rooted in shared values, conscious choice, and emotional alignment. Drawing from personal stories including Ash’s own experience in a slow-burning relationship. This episode offers a refreshing look at love for anyone navigating dating in their 30s or 40s and craving something deeper than surface attraction.

Together, they explore the art of communicating early relationship needs, balancing ambition within partnerships, and letting go of outdated expectations. You’ll learn practical tools like Dr. Aron’s “36 Questions” to foster intimacy, how to identify non-negotiables, and why choosing a partner based on character not just charisma is essential for a thriving love life. Plus, Arielle shares a sneak peek at her latest book, The Love Thief, and the inspiration behind its powerful message.

In This Episode, You’ll Learn:

Why lasting love is a choice, not just a feeling.
How to move past the myth of "fireworks" in dating.
The value of slow-burn relationships and emotional maturity.
Tools to deepen connection early on, like Dr. Aron’s “36 Questions.”
How to balance ambition and support within a partnership.
Why clear communication and shared life goals matter most.

Connect with Arielle Ford

Order The Love Thief Book here: https://www.arielleford.com/the-love-thief/

Website: https://www.arielleford.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/arielleford_author/?hl=en

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ArielleFordFanPage/

Connect with Ash:

https://www.instagram.com/ashleystahl/

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[RELATIONSHIPS] Ep. 461 How to Find Lasting Love (Without the Fireworks) with Arielle Ford