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不吃内耗的苦了!如何养成高能量体质 | EP068

2024/11/30
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奥尔良猪翅
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朱翅: 内耗是一种普遍现象,许多人都有类似的经历。不必给自己贴上疾病标签,先接纳自己的情绪,再寻求解决方法。调解情绪不是压抑情绪,而是接纳情绪,并控制情绪对自己的影响。处理负面情绪就像治感冒,不必一开始就用猛药,可以先尝试一些简单的自我调节方法,例如喝VC、姜茶等。 长期内耗会导致负面情绪积累,并伴随不健康的应对行为(熬夜、酗酒、暴饮暴食等)。寻求专业帮助(心理医生)可以帮助缓解内耗带来的不健康行为和负面情绪。先尝试自我调节,如果无效再寻求专业帮助。 野生: 微笑抑郁症是一种普遍现象,许多人都有类似症状,不必过度焦虑。每个人都会有内耗的阶段,这很正常,不必过度焦虑,先接纳自己。如果内耗严重影响生活,应寻求专业帮助;如果只是轻微内耗,可以尝试与朋友交流或寻找其他方法自我调节。调解情绪不是压抑情绪,而是接纳情绪,并控制情绪对自己的影响。处理负面情绪就像治感冒,不必一开始就用猛药,可以先尝试一些简单的自我调节方法。 内耗的一个共通点是:不善于表达,习惯自己消化负面情绪,高估自己的消化能力。长期内耗会导致负面情绪积累,并伴随不健康的应对行为(熬夜、酗酒、暴饮暴食等)。寻求专业帮助(心理医生)可以帮助缓解内耗带来的不健康行为和负面情绪。 野象小姐: 面对职场霸凌,可以选择辞职、仲裁或法律途径维权,不要认为自己“没得选”。积极求职是摆脱职场困境的有效方法,多投递简历,增加成功几率。面对职场霸凌,如果无法忍受,也可以选择“骂回去”,利用网络平台发声。陷入负面情绪时,从简单的小事做起(例如按时起床、吃早餐),逐步恢复状态。情绪不好时,更要注重养生,避免暴饮暴食、熬夜等不健康行为。 运动可以促进血液循环,让大脑没有时间去想负面情绪。将负面情绪转化为创作灵感,转移注意力,走出低谷。将负面情绪转化为创作素材,获得成就感和经济回报。所有情绪都是正常的,不要让负面情绪陷入恶性循环,要学会转化负能量。人的能量有周期性变化,情绪低落是正常的,不必过度焦虑。在能量低落时,要远离负能量的朋友,多与积极的朋友相处。负面情绪是信号,要学会安抚内在的小孩,温柔对待自己。内耗是一种“亏本买卖”,要及时察觉并改变。内耗时会感到舒适和安全,因为熟悉,但要尝试新的事物,走出舒适圈。自卑可能是舒适圈,但要相信未知不一定都是伤害。恐惧是兴奋的最高形式,迈出第一步,你会发现内心的期待。内耗是因为不够关注自己,要先满足自身需求,再考虑他人。在无法改变现状的情况下,改变可以控制的部分,让自己获得一些小确幸。不要将自身需求投射到他人身上,要学会照顾自己。两性关系中,女生容易陷入内耗,是因为社会观念的影响。主动追求并不意味着掉价,要保持积极主动,但也要有自己的底线。将追求对象比作项目,主动推进,保持积极心态。内耗是能量的浪费,要将目标和行动统一起来。主动追求,享受过程,不必过度在意结果。积极主动,不纠结结果,保持高效。勇敢做“坏人”,筛选掉不认同你的人,收获认同的声音。面对职场霸凌,积极反击,维护自身权益。在某些方面“发疯”,但在其他方面展现长处,可以获得别人的包容。在某些方面表现不好,可以在其他方面弥补,不必过度内耗。积极寻求帮助,分享内耗经历,互相学习。

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Key Insights

What is 'smiling depression' and how common is it?

Smiling depression refers to individuals who appear happy and optimistic in public but struggle with depression internally. It is quite common, especially among those who feel the need to maintain a facade of happiness. Symptoms include self-attack, self-denial, and difficulty in social interactions.

What are some practical tips for dealing with emotional exhaustion and burnout?

Practical tips include accepting your emotional state, engaging in self-care activities like drinking herbal teas or using a hairdryer to warm your body, and seeking social support. If symptoms persist or worsen, professional help should be considered.

Why is it important to avoid unhealthy behaviors when feeling emotionally low?

Unhealthy behaviors like staying up late, crying excessively, or binge drinking can exacerbate emotional distress and lead to a vicious cycle of negative emotions and poor physical health. Maintaining a healthy routine can help stabilize mood and improve overall well-being.

How can one effectively manage workplace stress and difficult bosses?

Effective strategies include seeking support from friends outside of work, mentally detaching from the situation by imagining the boss as a character in a story, and considering legal actions if the boss's behavior crosses into harassment. Additionally, focusing on job searching or improving one's resume can provide a constructive outlet for stress.

What are the benefits of physical activity in managing depression and emotional health?

Physical activity helps by releasing endorphins, which are natural mood lifters. It also provides a sense of accomplishment and can improve sleep patterns, which are often disrupted by depression. Engaging in regular exercise can significantly reduce symptoms of depression and anxiety.

How can one transform negative emotions into positive outcomes?

Negative emotions can be transformed by channeling them into creative outlets such as writing, art, or other forms of expression. This not only helps in processing the emotions but can also lead to personal growth and the development of new skills or hobbies.

What is the significance of understanding one's emotional cycles?

Understanding emotional cycles helps in recognizing that feelings of low energy or depression are temporary and part of a natural ebb and flow. This awareness can reduce the intensity of negative emotions and help in planning activities that align with one's emotional state.

How can one deal with feelings of being undervalued or ignored in personal relationships?

Dealing with feelings of being undervalued involves focusing on self-care and self-appreciation. It's important to communicate needs clearly and to seek relationships where mutual respect and appreciation are present. Engaging in activities that boost self-esteem can also be beneficial.

What strategies can be employed to handle workplace bullying effectively?

Handling workplace bullying can involve documenting incidents, seeking support from HR or legal avenues, and maintaining professionalism. Publicly addressing the issue, as in the case of the woman who responded to rumors with humor and facts, can also deter bullies and garner support from colleagues.

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This chapter explores the prevalence of 'smiling depression,' its symptoms, and the importance of self-acceptance. It emphasizes that experiencing periods of low energy and internal conflict is normal and doesn't automatically indicate a serious mental illness.
  • Prevalence of 'smiling depression' and similar symptoms.
  • Importance of self-acceptance and avoiding self-diagnosis.
  • Seeking professional help only when experiencing physical symptoms impacting daily life.

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00:32 微笑抑郁症有多普遍?

09:33 北医三院专家的朴素建议:少学习

15:26 为什么越倒霉,越要感谢水逆!

16:15 Q&A回答听友提问:

上班好烦,被领导虐,怎么改变现状、调节情绪?

22:23 一定不要在情绪不好的时候还不养生

32:11 负面情绪也有很多好处,如何发掘和利用

34:42 人的心理能量是有四季更迭的

38:15 反常识:恐惧是兴奋的最高形式。

41:57怎么样拆解当下的困境和内耗

45:05 你不开心,是因为不够关注自己

57:59 为什么两性关系里,女生会常常变成内耗的那个?

52:16 主动不会败北,只会稳赚

54:22 遇到职场霸凌,大美女的满分反击案例!

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