Deep Dive
What should women do when facing workplace sexual harassment?
Women should be brave and assertive when facing workplace sexual harassment. It's important to avoid being alone with the harasser and to clearly communicate discomfort. If the situation escalates, it's crucial to report the behavior or seek legal action. In the podcast, a listener shared her experience of quitting two jobs due to harassment, emphasizing the importance of prioritizing personal safety over job security.
Why is it difficult for some women to leave a cheating partner?
Some women struggle to leave a cheating partner due to emotional attachment, the length of the relationship, and the fear of starting over. In the podcast, a listener shared her experience of forgiving her boyfriend after he cheated multiple times, citing the emotional bond and memories of happier times as reasons for her reluctance to break up. Despite his repeated infidelity, she found it hard to let go, even though he continued to seek attention from other women.
How can someone deal with a partner who is financially stingy?
Dealing with a financially stingy partner requires open communication and understanding of each other's financial situations. In the podcast, a listener expressed frustration over her boyfriend's insistence on splitting small expenses like a $10 meal and a $7 drink. The hosts suggested that if financial compatibility is an issue, the listener should either accept the situation or consider finding a partner whose financial habits align better with her expectations.
What advice was given to someone struggling with unemployment and self-doubt?
The hosts advised the listener to take time to adjust their mindset and not rush into a job they don't want. They emphasized that a few months of unemployment in the grand scheme of life is not significant and encouraged the listener to focus on finding a job that aligns with their goals and interests. The hosts also shared stories of others who faced similar struggles, highlighting the importance of perseverance and self-belief.
How can someone handle a partner with a volatile temper?
The hosts suggested that the listener try to understand the root cause of their partner's temper and communicate openly about their needs and expectations. They emphasized the importance of mutual emotional support and creating a positive environment at home. The hosts also advised the listener to avoid bringing work-related stress into the relationship and to focus on building a harmonious family life.
What should someone do if they suspect their partner is not fully committed to having children?
The hosts recommended that the listener have an open conversation with their partner about their desires and concerns regarding having children. If there are underlying issues, such as stress or health concerns, they suggested seeking medical advice or counseling. The hosts also emphasized the importance of mutual understanding and support in navigating the challenges of trying to conceive.
How can someone deal with a roommate who spreads rumors?
The hosts advised the listener to be cautious about what they share with the roommate and to use the roommate's tendency to spread information strategically. They suggested that the listener could selectively share information to control the narrative or avoid sharing sensitive details altogether. The hosts also emphasized the importance of not letting gossip affect one's self-esteem or mental well-being.
What advice was given to a working mother struggling to balance her career and passion for dance?
The hosts suggested that the listener prioritize her well-being and find a balance between her career and passion. They recommended discussing the possibility of reducing her workload or seeking support from her partner to allow more time for her dance classes. The hosts emphasized the importance of not losing oneself in the responsibilities of work and family, and encouraged the listener to continue pursuing her passion, even if it means making some sacrifices.
How can someone handle the embarrassment of wearing counterfeit clothing?
The hosts advised the listener to focus on the comfort and style of the clothing rather than the brand. They suggested that the listener could gently guide their mother to buy clothes without obvious logos or patterns to avoid future embarrassment. The hosts also emphasized that the listener should not let the opinions of others dictate their self-worth, and that true confidence comes from within, not from the labels on their clothes.
- 职场性骚扰的严重性
- 勇敢、果断地应对骚扰
- 保护自己，避免单独相处
- 权衡工作和自身安全
Shownotes Transcript
又是一期听友投稿互动啦！
但是今天投稿的故事，真的让人血压升高：
性骚扰的领导、反复出轨的男友、抠门的对象，
以及爱挂脸的老公……
就这些，还有人说自己“舍不得”？
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- 恶臭的职场性骚扰，我该怎么办？
我刚实习那会儿遇到过一个领导，经常会在工作中说些下流的话，比如“给我生个孩子吧，小萝莉”“你的身材真好，胸又大了”……
他训话的时候，会上手拍拍你的肩膀，我另一个同事被他借口说姓名牌歪了而摸了胸口，这份工作我受不了于是直接辞职了。
第二份工作，过年的时候领导给我们发现金红包，把我们一个个叫过去发，我当时没有想那么多就跟过去了。然后，他竟然不经意摸到了我的私密部位。
后来听我同事说，之前有个女同事在样板房被这位领导侵犯了，女生报警后，是他的老婆和女儿来处理这件事，结果赔了很多钱给那个女生，女生也从此离开了这座城市。
- 反复出轨的男友，我就是放不下！
我是一名刚刚毕业的大学生，和男朋友谈了四年的异地恋，就在大约半年前我发现他出轨了，精神肉体算都有吧，但是后来我选择了原谅。
后面我也去他的城市找过他，发现他跟别的女生说他没有女朋友，然后也有约其他女生出来喝酒，但是我一直狠不下心分手。
他说他一直爱的是我，其他女生类似于生活中的调味品，我用他手机把其他女生都删掉时，他也毫无反应，他说我才是最重要的，其他女生都无所谓。
这半年来反正一直在纠结纠结，我每次想彻底断都断不掉，一想起我们之前很幸福的时候还是会舍不得，每次他找了其他女生被我发现后求我别分手，我真的狠不下心。
各位主播开骂吧~555
- 对象月薪三千，太抠门啦！
身为一名普通本科的大三生，我现在非常迷茫，目前只过了四级，没拿过奖学金、没参加过比赛、教资也没过……我觉得自己一无所有，不知道是要考研、考编还是就业。
跟男朋友的感情也不知道如何处理，感觉他不好的一点是有点抠门，之前跟他出去吃饭，我点了十块钱的套餐，一起喝了杯六七块的奶茶，他就提出让我AA，我觉得有点无语……
他是上班族，月薪三千左右，不稳定的提成大概一千，他在攒钱，所以对钱比较计较，我不知道要怎么处理~
这期主播说话可能会有点重，因为我们真的希望部分投稿的听友能够清醒一点！**你们都值得更好的❥(^_-)**搜索公众号【浪radio】加入节目听友群
