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Mistakes Are Meant to Teach Us Something

2025/6/5
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Belinda: 我在一段长达30年的不健康婚姻中挣扎，我的前夫沉迷于毒品，无法维持工作，并且总是对我进行语言暴力，导致我甚至无法完整地表达自己。我意识到自己应该更早地离开这段关系，但我一直忠于婚姻的承诺。现在我意识到，我需要为自己在这段关系中所做的决定负责，包括选择留下并生孩子。我正在努力从这段经历中学习，并在新的关系中避免重蹈覆辙。 Dr. Laura: 你需要为自己浪费30年生命负责，不能只归咎于前夫。30年后才承担责任是不够的。你不仅伤害了自己，也伤害了你的孩子。重要的是要认识到你在婚姻中做出的错误决定，并从中吸取教训。不要用忠诚或誓言来为不健康的婚姻辩护。重要的是要相信自己的力量和智慧，这样才能在未来的关系中做出更好的选择。你和你的新伴侣都需要承担过去的责任，才能建立健康的未来。

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Belinda, a 59-year-old caller, recounts her 30-year marriage to a man with drug addiction and low self-esteem. Dr. Laura challenges Belinda to take responsibility for staying in such a damaging relationship for so long, despite the negative impact on her mental health and the involvement of their children.
  • 30-year marriage to an abusive partner
  • addiction and low self-esteem of the partner
  • negative mental health impact on Belinda
  • impact on children

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The problems surrounding Linda's failed marriage are seeping into her current romance. 

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