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How to Have the Manners and Charm of a Proper English Gentleman

2025/5/27
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William Hanson: 我成为礼仪老师并非有意为之,而是源于童年时期对礼仪书籍的兴趣以及后来在学校教授礼仪的经历。小时候,我梦想成为坎特伯雷大主教、间谍或新闻播音员。12岁时,祖母送给我一本礼仪书,我发现它非常有趣,并开始购买更多相关书籍。16、17岁时,学校邀请我教低年级学生餐桌礼仪,我欣然接受,因为这可以代替体育活动。英国在礼仪教育方面一直处于领先地位,瑞士的精修学校也提供类似的服务,但以滑雪为特色。过去,英国的绅士会进行欧洲旅行以完成学业,而女士们则接受礼仪方面的教育。20世纪是精修学校的鼎盛时期,但许多传统习俗,如在国王和王后面前鞠躬,已经过时。

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British etiquette expert William Hanson defines manners as fundamental requirements for being human, while etiquette is a set of rules that can vary across cultures. He emphasizes that etiquette enhances well-mannered behavior and notes the growing interest in etiquette among young people.
  • Manners are fundamental to being human; etiquette is a set of rules that vary across cultures.
  • Etiquette enhances well-mannered behavior.
  • Young people show increasing interest in etiquette.

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The British just seem like a classier bunch. Part of it is that winning accent. But it's also because English culture has long been steeped in the tradition of learning and practicing etiquette.

Here to share some of the essentials of modern etiquette that are important no matter which side of the pond you live on is William Hanson, a British etiquette expert and the author of Just Good Manners). William shares the difference between manners and etiquette, and why young people are especially interested in both. He then takes us through how to introduce yourself and others, the history behind the "no elbows on the table" mantra, the rules of small talk, some overlooked guidelines for table manners, how to enter a conversational circle at a party, considerations for elevator etiquette, and much more. Whether you're dining at a fancy restaurant or just want to navigate social situations with more confidence, William's insights will help you present yourself with the panache of a proper English gentleman.

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