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Before You Waste Another Year of Your Life, Get Serious About Healing Your Past

2023/3/2
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The Mel Robbins Podcast

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Mel Robbins: 本期节目探讨了直面恐惧、治愈过去创伤的重要性,以及如何摆脱过去的束缚,获得真正的平静、幸福和成功。嘉宾Lewis Howes分享了他克服童年创伤、建立成功的播客《伟大心态》的个人经历,以及他对于伟大、成功的独到见解。 Lewis Howes: 伟大的定义是:发现自身独特天赋和才能,追逐梦想,并对周围的人产生最大影响。在追逐梦想的道路上,疗愈过去的创伤至关重要。我童年时期经历了学习障碍、校园霸凌和性侵犯,这些都造成了我严重的自我怀疑和不安全感。我曾感到情绪崩溃,仿佛在情感上溺水。克服情绪困境的关键在于:一、坚持内心的声音,即使微弱;二、积极疗愈过去的创伤和痛苦,从而获得内在和外在的自由。成功与伟大不同,成功是自我的,而伟大是关乎他人的,并能带来内心的平静和满足感。疗愈的过程是学习如何克服身体和情绪上的痛苦,让神经系统在外部混乱中保持平静,并从整合的经验中做出反应,而不是基于过去的创伤。接纳自己包括接纳自身的不足,长期压抑的童年性侵创伤,导致我在日常生活中过度反应和缺乏情绪控制。在一次工作坊上,我首次公开讲述了童年性侵经历,这不仅帮助我自身疗愈,也帮助其他同样经历创伤的男性。真正的伟大不仅仅在于成就,更在于内心的平静和对自身价值的认可。我通过冥想练习,清晰地看到了理想伴侣的形象,这为我的爱情生活带来了积极的转变。通过五个月的密集疗愈,我最终克服了长期困扰我的胸痛,并获得了内心的自由和平静。 Mel Robbins: 本期节目中,Lewis Howes分享了他如何从人生低谷走出来,如何从一个一无所有的年轻人成长为成功的播客主持人,以及他对于疗愈、成功和伟大心态的深刻理解。他强调了内在平静的重要性,以及如何通过疗愈过去创伤来获得真正的幸福和成功。他还分享了他如何克服童年性侵犯的创伤,以及他如何找到真爱。

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Lewis defines greatness as a journey to discover one's unique gifts and talents, pursuing dreams, and making a maximum impact on others.
  • Greatness is about discovering and pursuing one's dreams while impacting others.
  • Lewis emphasizes the importance of inner peace and emotional freedom in achieving greatness.

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This is an episode about how to face the things that you’re scared to admit, or as in the case of my guest today, have never publicly spoken about.

Today, you and I are going on a healing journey so that you can put the past where it belongs: in the rearview mirror.

You deserve healing.

It’s the only pathway for experiencing true peace, happiness, and the greatness you’re capable of.

So, I’m introducing you to a friend of mine who had some serious sh*t to face and has spent the last several years addressing the things that used to drag him down.

Do not miss this deeply personal conversation.

It is profound. It is relevant to your life and packed with so much wisdom. And we jump right in. 

There are so many mic-drop moments, it would be hard for me to pick just one, because my guest today was so unguarded and generous.

You may know him, but you’ve never heard him like this before.

I’m talking about Lewis Howes, host of the award-winning podcast, The School of Greatness, which just celebrated its 10-year anniversary and has over 500 million downloads.

His brand new book, The Greatness Mindset, teaches you how to discover your own unique gifts and talents, but more importantly, how to do the work to heal.

And look, this conversation is “unguarded” and covers sensitive topics (particularly perhaps for the men in your life). So if this isn’t for you right now – please skip this episode.

I cannot wait to hear your favorite and most meaningful parts of this unforgettable conversation with Lewis.

Xo Mel

In this episode, you’ll learn: 

  • 3:00: After all the work he’s done, how does Lewis define greatness?
  • 4:50: If you’re drowning emotionally, here’s what to do.
  • 6:00: One of the most profound ways to start accepting yourself.
  • 8:00: If you were bullied or didn’t do well in school, you’ll relate to this.
  • 13:00: Almost all of us have an identity crisis at some point in our lives.
  • 14:43: Here’s what happens when success never feels fulfilling.
  • 15:40: What does it feel like to be “at peace”?
  • 19:30: Listen to Lewis describe the surprising places he felt his past trauma.
  • 21:00: Here’s how Lewis came to terms with being dyslexic.
  • 23:40: If you haven’t healed trauma, here’s how it can come out in your day to day life.
  • 28:20: Lewis describes the first time he shared his trauma out loud.
  • 37:00: No matter what you do, you don’t feel like you’re enough. Here’s what to do.
  • 37:35: Here’s what’s incredible about seeing your own value.
  • 40:30: Lewis started a podcast when podcasts were not really a thing. This is how it began.
  • 42:30: The wake up moment that led to The School of Greatness.
  • 45:15: Do this when you want to change your career or start a business.
  • 46:30: I love this way of thinking about winning.
  • 48:30: Out of hundreds, this is the interview guest that had the most impact.
  • 50:30: Lewis only found real love after doing this first.
  • 53:00: What does it mean to no longer abandon yourself?
  • 54:00: Most men struggle with this because they were never taught how.
  • 56:30: The powerful words Lewis said at the start of his current relationship.
  • 58:00: The moment in Lewis’ therapy that changed everything.
  • 60:00: The surprising place where Lewis found men who felt emotionally free.

 

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