We're sunsetting PodQuest on 2025-07-28. Thank you for your support!
Export Podcast Subscriptions
cover of episode "厕所搭子"到"健身搭子":为何我们害怕落单?

"厕所搭子"到"健身搭子":为何我们害怕落单?

2025/6/5
logo of podcast 英文小酒馆 LHH

英文小酒馆 LHH

AI Deep Dive AI Chapters Transcript
People
A
Alan
L
Lulu
Topics
Lulu:我认为“搭子文化”是一种新的社交趋势,搭子不仅仅是朋友,更像是为了共同完成某项活动而存在的伙伴。例如,健身搭子、学习搭子等。这种关系可能不如传统友谊那样亲密,但却能满足人们在特定场景下的陪伴需求。我观察到,现在很多人都需要这种搭子关系,但可能又觉得难以启齿,害怕被认为没有朋友。 Alan:我理解“搭子”的概念,它类似于英语中的“buddy”或“mate”。在不同的语境下,这些词汇的含义有所不同。“Buddy”有时显得幼稚,而“mate”在英式英语中更常见,可以指朋友或同事。虽然我个人没有特别需要某种固定的“搭子”,但我认为这种关系在现代社会中是很普遍的,可以帮助人们更好地参与各种活动。

Deep Dive

Chapters
This chapter explores the meaning of the Chinese term '搭子' and its nuances. It compares and contrasts the concept with its closest English equivalents, such as 'buddy' and 'mate,' highlighting the cultural differences in their usage and connotations. The discussion also touches on the potential misunderstandings that can arise from direct translation.
  • The Chinese term '搭子' doesn't have a perfect English equivalent.
  • Words like 'buddy' and 'mate' offer close approximations but carry different connotations.
  • '搭子' often implies a less close relationship than 'friend,' and 'partner' carries romantic connotations.
  • The appropriate translation depends heavily on the context.

Shownotes Transcript

Hi everyone,欢迎来到酒馆在这里遇见更广阔的世界说见就见这个词踏实又浪漫酒馆因为有你们才变得更有意义 618 酒馆铺子周年庆相伴六年真诚让利买贵算我输活动期间全店部分精选买一送一同时每满 300 减 30 再叠加折上折关爱自己认真生活来微信小程序搜索酒馆铺子超值好价卷给你看我们在酒馆等你

Hi everyone and welcome back to Happy Hour 欢迎回来酒馆 Hi AlanHi Lulu, hi everyoneSo Alan, are you following up on, I don't know, the latest trends on Chinese social media?I don't really even follow up on the trends on English social media, to be honestYeah, you're ancientThat is true, that is trueAlan 对于这个 pop culture 完全是一无所知

所以我为了提出这些问题,今天我会谈谈一个新的 trends,某种新的 trends,叫大字文化。是的,我知道大字,是一种朋友,对吗?是的,是一种朋友,那种东西,基本上,我认为我们称他们大字,像健身大字,学习大字,因为他们不仅仅是我们的朋友。是的。

学习大字和喝酒大字这些东西

对,我们来谈谈那些,和英文上如何说那些东西。好的,所以大字的正常翻译是 buddy。对,你不可能称它为 partner。不。

So for example we would say gym buddy, study buddy, drinking buddy, travel buddy and so onBuddy to me always sounds a little bit childishYou know you have the buddy systemLike when you're little kids you go out and your teacher saidYou too should hold hands because there's a buddy systemTo be honest if you say buddy on its ownIt does sound very childishBut if you use it with friends

我意思是我们可以喝酒的朋友。那当然是我们。所以, buddy 的概念也有点美国的。例如,在英语中,我们不太说 buddy 。你说 mate ,对吗?我们会说 mate 。所以, classmate, schoolmate, and so on.你甚至说 workmate, flatmate。workmate 意味着同事。

对吧?对。约束。然后,一个宅配是一个你和室友共同宅配的。对。室友。合租的那种室友。而且,在你成长时,你有没有这种朋友,或者室友?我确实你有朋友。

当然,我还有我的最好的朋友,还有学生朋友。例如,在考试期间,我们总是一起去学校一起学习。坦白说,我们不太能在那里聊天。

Oh, so it's literally like a study group.Yeah, pretty much, pretty much.But we were still friends, but it's like what 搭子 actually means.It's kind of someone that you're not that close with.By the way, in English, in British English, when you say mate, it doesn't mean if it's a man or a woman, right?For example, you can call me your mate.Yeah, yeah.I would say...

The first thing we think of would be between men.I guess for women you could say girl pal or something like that.It sounds a bit.Yeah, but that's normally only between women.Yeah, I mean, I've said home girl before.Yeah, we don't say that.We don't say that in English.Well, not in British English at least.Yeah, but I can just say, well, she was my best mate.

对,完全没问题。完全没问题。你必须非常小心地不要用"伴侣"这个词,因为如果你说"她"或"他"是我的伴侣,人们会认为这是你的生活伴侣。是的。因为现在很多人都很接受不同性格的方式,所以如果你说男人或女人,如果你说"她"或"他"是我的伴侣,人们会认为你正在一起的长期关系。是的。除非你说什么

I was always...

呃... 像是一種長毛狗的独男性的那種啊~ 那這代表你沒有朋友嗎?我...有朋友

你是我朋友吗?是的,我是我自己的朋友。无论如何,我真的没有需要有一个午餐朋友。我当然有去吃午餐,但是我没有一个稳定的午餐朋友,或者健身朋友,或者喝酒朋友。也许是喝酒朋友。那不惊我。好的,接下来我们来说说一些很重要的事情。

比较书面的翻译叫聊机比较书面的翻译叫聊机

but you're not dating themyou're not there to drink with themthis person you bring with youto the pub or to the clubso that he or she will talk you upand try to set you up with other peoplefor exampleif we go to a pub or club togetherand I see a beautiful girland I go on your behalfand say have you met my friendyou know my mate he's a wonderful guydo you want to have a drink with him

So just anyone who supports you during an activityYeah but mostly I still hear it in the context of datingYeah And hooking upYeah that's true but

如果我们用它在另一个课程中,它是在一个有趣的方式中,所以,例如,我需要一个工作人员来做这个活动,或者她是我的早餐,每周都是早餐的工作人员。这还是有点奇怪的。有点奇怪,但是我们会明白。你有没有过任何工作人员?不,我不太好。

我猜你需要一个身材像你这样的人,而不是一个人的身材像你这样的人,而不是一个人的身材我可以很像你这样的人,有时候好,下次我会问你,我会让你成为我的身材好,那会很开心我们在开玩笑吗?我不用身材像你这样的人哦,所以你觉得呢?对

喜欢听酒馆的音频节目酒馆也有自己的视频号现在每天露露都在公益直播干货多多 欢乐多多来微信视频号露露的英文小酒馆一键预约所有直播想要加入酒馆社群或者咨询课程别忘了添加小助手哦微信号是 LUXJG 后面一个数字 1